To let go or resist

He age old question - let go or resist?

You are out in public, wearing a nappy and plastic pants, when you get that feeling we all know. Yes - you need to poop. So what do you do? Let go and mess yourself or resist the urge?

Me - Well I don't really know - I suppose my initial reaction would be to resist filling my nappy but only as far as I can do that discreetly without drawing attention to myself. Of course if the cramps are strong and difficult to resist I would let go.

But what would you do?

If I needed to go urgently while I was out, the chances are the movement would be way too big to be contained in a nappy.

R

I have never worn in public, but if I were in that situation, I think I would resist. More than anything, the negative reactions brought on by the unavoidable and unmistakable aroma of a messed diaper would be mortifying, to the point where it's a turn-off even as a fantasy.

My messing control is limited.

If I were within about 15 minutes' walk of a toilet, I would try to make it there, because changing diapers in public is tough.

If I were not, I would just let go there and divert my journey from that point on to detour past a public shower.

I just diapered up and had the largest explosion I have ever had in a diaper. I have had VERY loose stools for the last 3 to 4 months. I am still sitting in it and plan on staying for an hour. Wish I could post a pic, but not enough points

I would resist and find a restroom, if I messed in my diaper while trying to find restroom than at least I tried. I've messed my diaper before by accident. It was hard and messy to clean up from in a very small stall. I don't mess in my diapers if I can prevent it from happening.

My inclination would be to try and hold on until I got home or could find a reasonable toilet. Although I'm a DL and wear nappies most weekends, often wetting them quite fearlessly whilst out, I'd hesitate to do the other in case the smell gave me away which it almost certainly would.

If I was with my mate's then yeah I would let go.

If I was somewhere on my own then no because of the tell tale smell.

Let it happen and haven't been told I'm stinky

Let it happen and haven't been told I'm stinky

That does not mean people don't notice.

I have been out in public, when a really strong urge came, which I fought holding back. Only minutes later feeling it come out and completely fill my diaper.

Luckily it was in the evening so didn't run into someone on my way home.

An alternative: To let go or resist without any nappies but with a really strong urge?

I have forgotten how to resist. I am often unaware that I have gone until it is all over. Cleaning up is just part of my daily routine.

I just let it go and then go find the nearest bathroom and clean up

If me and my friend are out in public I just let it go and use the family restroom to get cleaned up.

I had one accident on the subway in Berlin. I told my wife my tummy was doing stuff. She told me “hold it” , but she saw I couldn’t. She looked at me and said; then just let go.

It was a good day ?.

Spike

If me and my friend are out in public I just let it go and use the family restroom to get cleaned up.

That is like that with me as well. When I am with my friends and they know I am diapered. I just let it go and keep on going until they stink or leak. Then I run to the Family rest room and get cleaned up

I just let it go and then go find the nearest bathroom and clean up

That is like that with me as well. When I am with my friends and they know I am diapered. I just let it go and keep on going until they stink or leak. Then I run to the Family rest room and get cleaned up

I thought you said you wore diapers because you don't like public bathrooms.

I thought you said you wore diapers because you don't like public bathrooms.

Haven't you done enough bullying here. I think you're being a Bully and harassing people

Changing in a public restroom is much different than having to use a one for the record. It is possible she could dislike public restrooms and not bring herself to sit on the toilet but, still manage to change her diaper. I don't have the same hang ups but, I am just saying it's not a leap to assume Diaperkat is staying consistent.

In public, I would definitely hold it in. I wear / use for pleasure / leisure. Putting other people up with my stink is just not done, period. I keep this in the privacy of my own home, or when I'm visiting other (AB)DL's who don't mind.

Personally, I wish I had the luxury of choice in the matter lol.

For me I have IBS and if I feel the urge I don't have the time to make it at times so if I know I will be away from a restroom I wear diapers that way I don't have to worry about it but if I can make it I will use the restroom

I don't have a choice, it just happens,

Everything goes into my nappy

As I am both bladder & bowel incontinent ,the one thing going for me is IBS-C & OIC they cause severe constipation , i do use special medications and laxatives/stool softeners ,it kinda allows me the ability most times to predict my bowel movements so my aide can get me on the commode wait for my bowels to move and done ,its "artificial continence"

You might say ,i keep myself constipated enough that my bowels don't release on there time , yes there are occasional unpredictable accidents probably due to illness or food choices ,its very rare that i have any awareness of a need to go ,and my doctors long ago told me if you have an awareness don't try and resist ,thats what diapers are for ! .

There are times that my medication has been lost in the mail, that then screws me up and I at that point don't have a choice ,i have to increase the dose of one of the medications I have on hand always that results about 6 random bowel movement a day ,in people who use this medication that are continent they have to wear diapers,because attempting to resist going intensifies it's action(its the medication version of the Borg "resistance is futile") ,so even in continent normal people once you take the medication it has full control you don't have a vote or choice in the matter( since most times i dont have any sensation ì am a sitting duck literaly) it certainly beats the pain and discomfort of impaction which is guaranteed, if I don't regulate my bowels the chances are great for bowel perforation which is life threatening and i cant afford that happening. So my aide gets to do a little more diaper laundry, i am fortunate the pharmacy & post office don't do that often, before there was a treatment for OIC specificaly , this medication was our only option for everyday use.

Definately try to "hold on" but my muscles are not what they once were and I reach a point where I cannot prevent a nappy filling.

Had a serious accident the other day due to something with a lot of fiber in it and no matter how hard I tried I ended up filling my nappy, all I can say is thank goodness for disposables !

Had to walk a mile home, showered and had a seriously sore butt for a couple of hours.

I do not envy anyone with bowel incontinence.

Although I have to be so carefull about number 2s the frequency of my accidents is increasing and seem to be tied into my bladder issues, am off to continence nurse at specialist hospital (incontinence) soon so will discuss fully with them.

In the past I have always resisted but these days I’m finding it increasingly difficult. Even when there’s a toilet close by I frequently begin to soil myself before I can get there. It’s also the same at night as I always used to wake up if I needed to poop but I now either wake up as I’m going in my diaper or after it’s happened.

I don't have the strongest bowel muscles and if I know I'm to far from the toilet to make it I'll just let go and fill my nappy while carrying on what I'm doing until I'm finished at home I can make it all the time unless my daughter is already in the bathroom and I'll try my best to hold until she comes out or ill be changing into a clean nappy

My impulse was to resist, but my control got dragged down and down until it was pretty much pointless.

I did find that if I tried to have a balance between looking unbothered and moving toward the nearest toilet in a quick and discreet fashion, I was generally more likely not to make it. Sparing the extra concentration and just looking like someone who really needed a crap was the best strategy I had. (Obviously it didn't work forever.)

I have no choice I'm both bladder and bowel incontinent. It just happens and I have no control over it at all.