Do you prefer to be given enemas or to take them yourself?

My preference is to be given an enema by someone who appreciates the simple procedure. The simple pleasures that are sometimes a wonderful aspect, are always best when shared with another. It is not always possible to receive an enema, coupled with other manipulations, that result in a fantastic orgasmic rush. Self administration is often the only option due to a variety of circumstances.

I have been fortunate to get enemas from others who are very adept at administration. A few colon hydro therapists will administer enemas and even massage simultaneously. There is no "sex act" involved, but the afterglow is well worth the indulgence. I have offered similar arrangements to others who are desirous of receiving from someone experienced in administration, but who may not be looking for other relationships, sexual or otherwise.

I have enjoyed enemas for most of my lifetime. While I really disliked getting them from mom or grandma, a couple of nurses changed my outlook while in the hospital. EFEST opened my eyes to the fact that I wasn't alone in my affection for enemas. One of the biggest challenges has always been finding others willing to share in this rather unusual desire.

I've stated before, giving often beats receiving in many aspects of life...that includes enemas! If I have to give to myself, I'll commit the time and some beautiful vintage equipment.

In answer to the other questions, female or male is not a main concern and orgasms are welcum, but not required.

I much prefer to be given enemas, then I can lie back, relax, and enjoy the enemas while they stimulate me. 😉

I've never given an enema, so I have to say that I'd rather receive. Men or women are fine with me, I'm more concerned with personality!

I like to give and take, and like playing with others that feel the same in enema play . It’s more erotic to know your next if you can’t take it how do you dish it out . It’s just more comfortable knowing how volume feels and control the flow to take a large volume enema and understanding the sensations as well as pushing limits on your partner. It’s a two way street one bag whore to another 😂

I prefer to be given them, by a man.

To do it myself is like masturbating. Pleasurable but not quite the same. Being given one by someone else is, to me, like being dominated by them. They're the boss. They tell me the position they want me to be in to receive the enema. They control what the solution is, the temperature, putting the nozzle in, the flow, and I am at their mercy. To me, it's so sensuous and arousing.

It does not matter to me as long as we had the same goals in minds, to get as much volumes in as possible, and it was from a women I was having a relationship with. I would enjoy it, ether way

I would love to find a female that I could trust and feel comfortable with, but that seems like an almost impossibly . So solo it is

Much prefer a woman give me an enema. Have a long history of getting them from women, and my continuing fantasy is that a mature, decisive woman instruct me that I'm going to get one, and then directing me to the bed and telling me that she's going to give me the full bag, and that the fullness/cramping will happen but is necessary.

I was talking to someone who told me that he has a secret desire to receive an enema from a woman. I told him that I would fill the red bag with warm, soapy water, and hang it high. I would put him on all fours and stick that nozzle high up his ass. Then I would let the water shoot high up into him. I told him that even though I know he's strong, he would be in pain from the enema but he would love it. It would be very comforting to him, when it was finished and he expelled it. I'm sure he woud be trembling from excitement, and then he'd probably collapse and sleep like a baby.

I think that was a fantasy that he enjoyed.

Have only recently had enemas administrated and it was by a male. For me it is all about the attitude. And I enjoy the inappropriate medical exam most. Have to agree with female patient. The domination is key.

I prefer to be given them, by a man.

To do it myself is like masturbating. Pleasurable but not quite the same. Being given one by someone else is, to me, like being dominated by them. They're the boss. They tell me the position they want me to be in to receive the enema. They control what the solution is, the temperature, putting the nozzle in, the flow, and I am at their mercy. To me, it's so sensuous and arousing.

I always would prefer to be given enemas. I have arthritis in my wrists so it’s difficult to insert the nozzle. Recently I had the best enema of my life. I was visiting my girl friend who is a nurse practitioner. I’d been constipated for five days and was feeling really uncomfortable. She volunteered to give me an SSE. I was embarrassed bit acquiesced. She filled the five quart bag with Castile soap suds. Hanging it on her IV pole, she directed me to assume the sims position on her bed. Lifting my upper buttock she whispered “ready?” I nodded and she gently inserted a well lubricated large nozzle. Then opened the clamp and asked me if I felt anything. I nodded and abandoned myself to the colonic dilatation which followed. She gently stroked my buttock near my anus and regaled me with ward war stories. When I reached the full point, she shut off the flow and I waited. After ten minutes she suddenly started the flow again and I took the remainder of the bag—four and a hAlf quarts total. I was only able to retain it for a couple of moments. It was a therapeutic triumph. Dredged me totally. Nonstop. Thank you, baby!

If your going to dish it out you best be able to take it😂 I like both and enjoy people with lots of experience and equipment guy or girl it doesn’t matter. My last experience a lady I met came over I had her load my equipment and hers in the dishwasher then we went out to the hot tub had a cocktail while the dishwasher did it’s thing. We talked about our evening to come and both of us where pretty hot and bothered to start the session it was great fun.

The question is “which do you prefer”. I enjoy them but would much-prefer giving one to a willing female. Not a control issue, just love women’s backsides and giving them pleasure. And of course the view. 😀

I do only alone. I need total privacy.

I like to give and take, but ive found i can take more water if someone other than me is giving it, maybe i relax more, or im stopping too soon if i do it to myself ?

Being given one by a strict woman is far better. I dont know why exactly. But the mix of embarrassment, humiliation and excitement is all there. It's the wide range of feelings and emotions.

I am lucky that my wife will give me an enema whenever I ask her to, and of course it's very enjoyable. I stroke myself to orgasm while she holds the nozzle in and handles the bag etc. But I enjoy my solo sessions just as much. I might enjoy the enemas from her more if she was into them and would also receive, or if she was dominating and demanding. But I just wanted to tell everyone out there who is wishing for an enema partner that enjoying them on your own is just as much fun.

I love to give enemas being in control is a real turn on. starting with telling the position to get in to spreading of the cheeks applying the lube to the anas inserting my finger lubing up the rectum sliding the nozzle in and releasing the clamp listing to my patient take the hot soapy water.

I don’t know I’ve never been given an enema they have always Ben solo

I do both and enjoy both. My ex-wife and some ex-GF’s enjoyed all of my kinks with me and our usual was her being very Domme and giving me very large, long submissive enemas mixed with most or all of our other kinks (receiver dressed in rubber or neoprene plus sneakers) to accentuate the experience even more. If she can’t be here (divorced) I do my own with a strong Domme fantasy of her running through my head as I fill myself. I prefer her to be here, but solo is still a very pleasant time.

Eric

I much prefer to be given enemas by my dominant. I don't enjoy giving them to myself, but taking an enema as part of my submission is a different kind of high in subspace.

I prefer to give erotic enemas to woman but am always open to be at the other end of the nozzle.

I’d rather be given enemas and it would be more embarrassing to have a woman giver and defiantly an orgasm after!

I prefer being given for sure. Being told that your going to get an enema, having to strip fully naked as they wait watching, then ordered to assume the position they have in mind is highly erotic. Then if they order me, to masturbate while they watch me.

Being given!

I love both. I love the lady to be in control and tell me exactly what she wants of me. Bend over, spread them, this might hurt a little, hold it, don't let a drop leak out!!! When I'm giving, I want to give as much pleasure as possible. Unless she is naughty. Then it starts with red cheeks. Start with a small nozzle, then the two foot snake. She is told "you will take it all, pus 2 quarts with Dr Bnners." I love every fluid ounce...

I enjoy everything to do with an enema, giving and receiving and the preparation and the anticipation of what’s about to happen

Given the option, would be better to have a guy give me an enema rather than do it myself. He just has to be knowledgeable and confidant in doing so.

Orgasms not actually tied into my enema fetish, but they can lead to orgasmic activities after.

When my husband gives me an enema, I think it’s more effective than when I do it myself. If I’m cramping, I tend to pull the tube out too soon and use the toilet, rather than deep breathing or puppy panting and toughing it out. He coaches me to hang in there through the cramps so I retain the enema longer. Plus, he gives the best massages if I’m stressed, which relaxes me and reduces the cramps.

Much prefer being given an enema by a woman.