What happened to my wife??
You guys who have a wife or partner that participates in our fetish should thank your lucky stars. Since before we were married, my wife would participate in giving to me, but she wasn't interested in taking. Because of Crohn's disease, I got salt & soda enemas on a somewhat regular basis from her, as they helped with inflammation. My GI doc knew & didn't have a problem. The sexual aspect of enemas was slowly introduced & she had no problem with that. There was plenty of nozzle manipulation while taking, and just about anything you could think of while holding. Lots of "doggy style" sex & BJ's to encourage me to hold........it worked. One time, I was given a 3 Liter enema with a 30" silicone colon tube fully inserted. I could feel it about halfway across the transverse colon. I got up to go & she told me I have to hold it. Told here I wasn't sure if I could. She got down on her knees & took me into her mouth (she has NO gag reflex) & started S-L-O-W-L-Y moving the colon tube in & out. I don't know how long I was standing there, but that BJ led to the most intense, explosive orgasm I EVER had.
This went on for many years............until menopause hit. She then lost all interest in all things sexual. Things she and I used to enjoy doing. She saw her ob/gyn & told her about her loss of sex drive. A few things were tried, but nothing seemed to work. And it was left at that. We talked about it a few times but to no avail. My libido is still quite strong.........and seems to get stronger as time passes. She will still help giving the enemas (if I ask), but all the enthusiasm is gone. To me, it appears that it's just another chore for her to do. Aside from all things sexual, we do have a good relationship. I work part time & have several hobbies that keep my busy, but it's just not the same without sex. Most of my sexual satisfaction now comes from ZITY & some of the links here.
This doesn't seem to happen to all women, as I see many profiles here that show women in the 50+ & 60+ age bracket. What is it that makes this happen to some, but not all women? Anyone ever brought their significant other back from the dark side of menopause and reignited their sexual drive? It's bizarre to me that, seemingly overnight, my wife could abandon things that we had been doing for decades, that she obviously really enjoyed.
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