Childbirth experiences

Membranes were stripped ahead of time to induce for each kid. For #4 the doctor stripped them twice, which I did not even know would be necessary.

For births 1, 2, and 3, my water was broken by the doctor. For #4, it spontaneously broke at home.

DH was present at each one. We never allowed any additional visitors.

Births 1, 3, and 4 were quick active labors. #2 was back labor and that kid did was dug in, so the final stages of labor were not fun. They gave me some medication on the cervix to speed the ripening process but apparently I was pretty sensitive to it. They wouldn’t put the epidural in until I was at 10cm, saying “at the rate you’re going, it may slow you down.” So I got it at 10, they said “we estimate you’ll deliver in the next 4 hours.” He was born 45 minutes later. Then the epidural kicked in.

I actually got to full 100% of the ring of fire on the 3rd and 4th births. It was such a high. The feeling is indescribable - it’s not exactly a burn like I thought - and with all that “I am woman! Hear me roar!“ and “Let’s get this kid out now,” the emotional/physical feelings were at such an overwhelming point right then that it did resemble a very powerful orgasm, sensation-wise.

Had 3 kids all vaginal births with epidurals. Oldest daughter was in labor total of 33 hours had to break my water. 2nd daughter was 8 hours of labor had to break water. 3rd my son had to be induced 14 hours of labor had to break water he was almost a C-section because I stopped dilating but luckily he came out naturally

Sorry, English is not my native language so I‘m trying to keep it as short as possible.

I had a beautiful homebirth in November 2020. Due to the pandemic I wanted to birth at home.

Very light contractions started at 4am, I called my doula at around 7am, I think she arrived about half an hour later. Till then I walked around the house and was given an enema by my husband because I felt constipated.

At around 8am I got into the birthing pool, did breathing excercises but I felt like it wasn‘t really going forward with being 6cm dilated. My husband knew about the oxytocin being helpful to get the process going and asked me if I wanted some nipple stimulation which I wanted. He sat behind me, touching my breasts but eventually stopped bc I couldn‘t bear it anymore because of the pain. In between contractions I tried some self clitoral stimulation which kinda helped with the pain. But I couldn‘t even think of an orgasm. Looking back I think I should have masturbated when I woke up at 4, haha.

I was in a squatting position with my doula holding me from behind when my babygirl arrived at 1:13pm right into her fathers hands. It was about 20 mins later when the placenta was „born“. I had no vaginal tearing.