Question about orgasm

Generally, once I orgasm I am sooooo hypersensitive/ticklish! At that point, I don't want anymore stimulation of any kind. At that point, I just want to savor the sensation I have of blissful floating, which can last several minutes post orgasm!

On occasion I can manage my orgasm so that I am starting to orgasm, but control & stop it just as it's starting. I call this my “mini-cum”, and can continue afterwards with stimulation to a full orgasm. When this “mini-cum” happens I have most of my ejaculation fluids during the “mini-cum”, and less during my full orgasm. This is the closest I can come to being “multi-orgasmic”!

Yes, after orgasm, there is almost always a period in which continued stimulation is unpleasant.

No way do I want him to stop until orgasm is finished

@Turkey1

Overstimulation can hurt.” You don't say!😈

@Nurse_Phillips

On occasion I’ve been stimulated beyond that point in a BDSM scene and it’s more unpleasant than pleasant. I’m Cumming sure but it’s painful and had brought me to tears.

Ever hear of dacryphilia? Academic question, thats all. The painful orgasmic spasms of the muscles over the gut and stomach after a dozen or so cums are also enjoyable to induce in the right dynamic.

@Turkey1

“Overstimulation can hurt.” You don't say!😈

@Nurse_Phillips

“On occasion I’ve been stimulated beyond that point in a BDSM scene and it’s more unpleasant than pleasant. I’m Cumming sure but it’s painful and had brought me to tears.”

Ever hear of dacryphilia? Academic question, thats all. The painful orgasmic spasms of the muscles over the gut and stomach after a dozen or so cums are also enjoyable to induce in the right dynamic.

I just saw this. Yes I’m familiar with dacryphilia. I don’t get aroused from crying. My husband gets aroused from me crying. Because of that I happily let him bring me to tears in a session even when I don’t enjoy what’s going on per se. Because I gift him with my tears he doesn’t abuse the privilege.

I don’t generally share the harder BDSM things we engage in here. I don’t go to Suzy extremes but we play hard sometimes.

I have experienced both side of the coin with different women. Some find they are too sensitive in that area directly after orgasm, but I have come across quite a few who were very happy for me to continue to stimulate them through to two or three more orgasms, which I was always happy to do.

If a woman is sucking me to orgasm I quite enjoy them to keep sucking after I have come. I find it very soothing. Back in my younger days I enjoyed that to the extent that I would get an erection again and would be good to go a second time.(those were the days). I am happy now with just the pleasant feeling after orgasm. On the other hand, if I am masturbated manually, I don't want a lot of extra handling after coming unless it is done gently.

As for P in V, once I have come I pretty much lose my erection fairly quickly (diabetes). So it becomes a non issue really. I will continue to grind my pubis against the woman's clit if that works for her to get her off.

Going back to @reddevil 's comment about loss of libido directly after orgasm. I personally think it might go back to the cave man days where preservation dictated that as soon as you were done, it was wise to get the fuck out of there before something came along and ate you. Not in a nice way. 😃

With another reply to this question during one of my very first wet shooting orgasms I felt sick to my stomach because it felt like someone was squeezing my balls or that sick feeling that boys get after being kicked in the balls, however my orgasm during that feeling was super intense!,mind boggling! And I have been trying to recreate it again for 60 years! With limited success.

I've always thought that's both males and females need at least a short brake from stimulation following orgasm but it's generally less than a minute.

I’ve found that the older I get the longer the recovery period after orgasm takes and I may not be interested in sex for several days after.

Just a slight variation on this theme….My ladylove frequently experiences long orgasms ,,,and it is quite evident from her moans/screams (yes, she really is a screamer!!). When I sense that she has reached her endpoint I will (most times,,,chuckle) cease my ministrations and let her gradually drift down from the ceiling. More than once, however, despite my backing off completely, she has gone into “hyperdrive” and continued climaxing (orgasmining is too difficult to say…lol) for long enough that it scares me!! I have, at times, resorted to physically shaking her to bring her out of it. It usually takes her a minute or two to catch her breath, and she has never complained…truly amazing…and I'm REALLY jealous!!!

Great questions. as a man, when its over, its over!! My patient (gf) cums like a man!!!! Strong and hard. I love it.

For me, much more stimulation after the last of the orgasm is like scratching something that doesn't itch any more.

I know exactly what you are talking about. As a male, when someone is sucking me and I am feeling an orgasm build and build it is all good and the actual orgasm is wonderful. However at the very end I want them to stop immediately as it is actually painful just after. Then nice to just lay still and bask in the afterglow for a few minuets. Then the loving can start again. As I get older the recovery time is longer too.

There are light orgasms and strong orgasms. Light orgasms last for like 10 seconds and under, and I usually get them when the sexual stimulation is of a frenzied or hurried nature, like when I have a compulsion to push myself to cum. I can have several light orgasms in a row until I get tired of them. They are similar in quality to the orgasms I had as a child by squeezing my legs tightly together.

Strong orgasms last for like, half a minute, and my clit becomes too sensitive after only one orgasm. I get strong orgasms if I am unhurried and allow myself to relax and let the arousal build gradually, or if the foreplay was good or if I'm super horny from not having sex in a while. These are the orgasms that send you into another world.

@codjer I’ve found that the older I get the longer the recovery period after orgasm takes and I may not be interested in sex for several days after.

That is why I often prefer not to orgasm or ejaculate. It is more pleasurable to be in an even mild state of sexual excitation/interest for a long period, than to experience a short orgasm and then not be interested at all for several days on end.

Why gobble up a meal or all the candy at once, instead of savoring it over a longer period? That is for me the essence of enjoying your sexuality.

@codjer I’ve found that the older I get the longer the recovery period after orgasm takes and I may not be interested in sex for several days after.

Interesting…. at 77 there's no logic as to my recovery time. When I find something new to enjoy, I can be back at popping the cork an hour or two later. Once I become bored with what I've enjoyed; then it can be days till a new discovery.

An interesting topic for sure. When I discovered the pleasures of masturbation at the age of 11, I experienced dry orgasms for about 15 months before the 1st evidence of semen began to appear. Those dry orgasms were very intense and once the orgasm peaked I found that additional stimulation on my penis actually hurt. Over time and experimentation I found that if I stopped stroking for about 12 to 15 seconds I could resume stroking again without it hurting and achieve another dry orgasm in only about 20 seconds of additional stroking! After the 1st appearance of semen, the nature of the orgasms changed and I was now experiencing several pelvic contractions vs. only one long full body contraction and the ability to continue stroking (after a brief pause) and orgasming over and over (I usually had 4 or 5 dry orgasms in a masturbation session back then - - all VERY intense) quickly vanished. The other thing that changed is that I was able to continue stroking through the orgasm as there was no longer the extreme sensitivity after the orgasm peaked. That lack of extreme sensitivity after orgasming has continued throughout the rest of my life.

Now that I am in my 80s my refractory/recovery period continues to lengthen. In my early 60s I was still able to have multiple ejaculations in a 24 hour period, occasionally as many as 3. By my late 60s I was content to have one orgasm per day. In my 70s that desire/libido decreased to an orgasm every other day. Now, having an orgasm about every 4th day seems to be what I desire. Of course. these figures are an average and sometimes the length of time between orgasms shortens or lengthens depending on outside stimulation.