Do you prefer realistic or fantasy exam room ?

I like my examination to be as realistic as possible with a bit of fantasy in the end 😉

The more realistic the better for me. I’m lucky to have met a few play Drs who have a wide range of kit and provide an extremely realistic and professional medical examination. If the environment is a realistic setting then that’s a bonus but a bedroom or hotel room can suffice if the Dr has set things out properly.

My medfet fantasies, of being the teenage prey to the school nurse must needs be classified as fantasy…because all of em involve roleplaying, as I passed my teenage years five decades ago (God and the gods and goddesses have been thankfully [blissfully]kind to my body though! Which, as any Zity reader of my posts, knows I happily show [upon request]. 😄

I completely agree. I have a recurring fantasy that I am laying on the OR table, stirrups attached, and am starting to drift off. The nurses and doctors start to play with my body and since I'm under anesthesia, I can't stop them. I work in a hospital and truthfully get a bit excited when I see that OR table ready for a gyn surgery- only wishing I were the patient.

I prefer realistic for some simple things like my yearly exam, colonics every 6 months and preventative hospital stuff like a chest X-ray, echo, stress test, Dexa, skin exam, etc. on the play side, enemas

100% realistic … with a rectal exam provided in several different positions and a sperm sample thrown in the mix too! 😉 Actually, on second thought let's say 90% realistic. 😅🤣😂

I prefer fairly realistic exams but with the element of fantasy thrown in…and of course longer play exams than the so few minutes a real exam takes to be completed.

To me realistic would mean 5 minutes of explaining symptoms followed by 30 seconds of actual exam and ending with 10 minutes staring at doctor typing on computer and listening what he/she has to say.

So there would definitely need to be some fantasy involved for this to be fun.

Realistic, but probably a little bit longer than an actual exam would take in real life.

If I had to chose one or the other, then definitely realistic. I’d like to recreate the “magic” from my exams when I was younger. However, I also would be very interested in adding elements of “fantasy” that would encompass what some of my “fears” were during my exams when I was younger. Just to see how it would feel for them to become a reality.

Mostly realistic but I tell my (female) patients “I'm going to take a much longer listen to your heart than your real doctor does,” and I always check “cardiac response to nipple stimulation" Several of my play patients have commented on the thoroughness of the cardiac and breast exam I gave them.

Oh yes! Realistic for me too, even if it's over chat, Skype or RT in person. I am not good at rollplay. I want to know the person at the other end of distance play is involved.

I see different ideas in this topic about what is realistic and what is fantasy. Since I don’t roleplay, but only give examinations in real life and on cam using Skype, that’s my starting point.

For me the patient is the one who makes the choice about the type of exam and also makes a choice about what will happen or won’t happen. Giving a pure medical, clinical, realistic examination of course is nice to do, but my preference is an examination which also has some elements of fantasy. And with fantasy I don’t mean that Peter Pan comes flying in to help me. For me it means that I give the examination a twist to make it way more interesting, way more exciting.

For example during an exam I made a female walk away and walk towards me. She still had her bra on and I lowered her panties just below her ass and labia. It isn’t realistic but later on she told me it got so excited just because it felt “naughty“ to do so. It felt good in the whole setting for both of us. Just a simple example.

I want it to be as realistic as possible. But, I want the doctor to examine me while my feet are in the stirrups. Fortunately I’ve had that happen in the last four years.

I prefer realistic with a little fantasy mixed in only because I want to see the other person

I prefer realistic, that said I don't dislike a little bit of fantasy either unplanned or planned

Nothing beats REAL, I want hands on play I have tried with several people here with fantasy, chat it gets a tingle but that's it. Give me a real enema nurse that insists I take it all and I will be complaining, during the whole procedure and after, I will be asking for more, or give me a woman that wants to play “roleplay” and I can keep it up until I am exhausted. I can do a sort of real Gyno with my hands gloved and inserting every where, that counts, until she coming like crazy, and begs to stop.

I like the realistic myself. My husband is a retired MD and we have our own Clinic in our home. It's Real and Intimate also.

Later this week I'll have my yearly Cervical Cancer Screening Test, at home and in my own Gynecology room. I have a great husband and he's a great retired Doctor.

All of my Fantasy has come to Realistic. What a great husband I have!

GyneDoll,

Gwen

In person I think I’d like a mix, perhaps starting realistically then transitioning to more of a fantasy-type setting. Online only, though, realism all the way. The library is what initially drew me to this site and nothing annoys me more in a medfet story than having it turn to a sex scene halfway through. Of course, even then I guess I’m using ‘realistic’ loosely because obviously a lot of the scenarios that lead to people enduring various uncommon procedures require a little suspension of disbelief.

@ccm93

If I had to chose one or the other, then definitely realistic. I’d like to recreate the “magic” from my exams when I was younger. However, I also would be very interested in adding elements of “fantasy” that would encompass what some of my “fears” were during my exams when I was younger. Just to see how it would feel for them to become a reality.

Would love to know what you enjoyed in your exams

I prefer that the exam have some components or “realistic” of course, but many of the components of a fantasy/play exam would not fit into the category of “generally accepted medical practice”…. I suppose if I was ever able to utilize a true clinical setting with real furniture and equipment, I’d like to see how realistic we could make the exam. But, the reality is that when you are cobbling together all of the components, like using a massage table as your exam table, realism kind of goes out the window….

I would much prefer a fully realistic examination room and examination, at least at the outset, however even finding exams in England is not easy, one has to be greatful for what there is

I like all to be realistic including terminology and overall attitude of both patient and doctor. This should continue for at least 20 minutes or so, building up to an unexpected encounter :-) I met with a guy who was really into the realistic exam and expressed his concerns/limits during the exam. But when I began to examine his prostate, I asked if I was able to test his flexibility with my penis. He was happy to oblige. At the end of the exam, we continued the realistic components including follow up plans etc.

As patient, I've also enjoyed very realistic exams including a doc I used to meet with who took the exam very seriously, and didn't even smile much. So hot! There was very little talking talking the extended genital and anal check.

Definitely realistic for the most part. Definitely a cloth gown and metal speculum has to be included. I don’t really find the paper gowns or plastic speculums as attractive lol. Few exceptions would be having the female bend over or lay on their side for a rectal exam instead of on their back and doing a rectal temperature. That would be an exception for fantasy. Also another exception would be something we aren’t supposed to talk about here so I won’t mention that but if it was tied into an exam that would be super great for me. But otherwise realistic as possible.

For me its fantasy

Realistic as possible. While it may be a challenge to duplicate an exam room, I do find that the language used by the doctor is crucial to making it a success. Here's what works for me:

The role of anticipation when faced with uncertainty is also key. One enters the room with some apprehension and quickly scan the room to discover what is displayed. Subtly adds to the drama for sure. Learning that I must undress, minimally to my briefs, then wait for the doctor to begin is very intense.

At some point, the requirement for a rectal temp is going to be done leaving me completely helpless with the probe nested deep between my cheeks as the doctor asks me all sorts of personal questions. Having to lay on my side for this adds to the tension and likelihood of an erection that I can not stop. The fact that the doctor remains unperturbed adds to my embarrassment. Lying there naked removes all doubt as to my submissive predicament.

The exam only intensifies with a mandatory exam of my testicles, careful palpitation of my shaft and inspection of the meatus, and then the obligatory hernia exam. The pressure to each testicle is noteworthy followed by having to bend over on to the table such that the doctor feels my sac while invading my rectum probing deep and causing me to go up on my toes gasping for relief. There could be a release of seminal fluid as he presses. As his finger is removed, I attempt to compose myself and wipe my penis. Next, I am on my hands and knees, my thighs shake, as I feel his fingers spreading my cheeks wide and telling me to take a deep breath. Before I know it, his finger enters me again and swiftly presses on my prostate causing my penis to throb. His actions are slow and deliberate; carefully manipulating but aware that too much could cause an eruption.

He allows me to finally sit and cautions me that the exam is far from complete while I gently wipe my penis again. With that, he procures a Fleets enema and directs me to get onto my side and accept the nozzle. While doing so, I realize that the solution will have a profound impact on me and soon cause me to feel very full and cramp. Moaning does little to assuage my discomfort. I have to void and when allowed to do so, I hurry off to the bathroom oblivious to my shriveled condition of my penis. Relief is immediate and thankful for that as I return to the room and get back up on my knees with my head down.

The obligatory finger probe reinforces that my rectum is clear and able to accept further investigation as he prepares the anuscope. I do my best to avoid looking, as if this will make the entry less obvious, but when the tip presses in I gasp and clench. He skillfully manipulates it deep into my passage while I groan and moan. It creates incredible confusion as my penis throbs while I feel all this internal pressure. Upon its removal, I am allowed to lay back and face him as he lubes his finger and mentions it's time for a sample. He gently takes my partially erect penis and begins to stroke it while feeling my sac for good measure. I moan and soon his finger is massaging my prostate such that my butt lifts off of the table. I am at his mercy and breathing heavily to the point of clenching until I explode! He then offers some kind words, “Well, you seem to be doing just fine!"

I am allowed to lay there as my penis retracts in slow spasms. He leaves me alone as I ponder my physical state and continue to feel the lube between my cheeks. I sigh and quietly reach for tissues knowing that once again I have achieved a complete and personal physical.

@fantasypatient — well said in your post below!

I totally agree. And a doctor who acts like he's/she's in full command of the scene. Sign me up.

The setting would be clinical, and the exam would have some realistic elements, but it would be much more invasive and much longer and with more fantasy elements too, and the "doctor" would be in charge.

I prefer a realistic fantasy! Which would anyone prefer. To smell the steak, or eat it?