Do you prefer realistic or fantasy exam room ?

For me to enjoy the experience the exam needs to be as realistic as possible. All but a few of my experiences have been with a Mistress who role played as a doctor or nurse. If they ever wavered from the actual exam experience I lost the thrill. My number one is to be a boy having to submit to the exam and appropriate treatment...catheterization...enema...etc. If the person treating me goes "out of character", that's it for me. I don't have a partner or friends who I can do this with, so this is somewhat different that most people into this experience. Realistic...or forget it.

Definitely realistic.

I would have to say both because I have had another woman looking inside me just because she had never seen inside and it turned into a sort of play exam. I have also done this with three at once looking inside me and then my friend who has had a baby and her cervix is somewhat elongated horizontally which turned into a pretty real exam except at the end when nobody could hold back and it turned into sex.

For me both have their place but I prefer fantasy. It is much better with a realistic clinical feel but going far beyond what is clinically realistic is much more fun.

I like both! Realistic works well because I can get into the role much easier. Yet sometimes it is good to just remove all of the formal actions and setting, then just jump into fun play.

Realistic; not only the action but if possible also the room

I prefer the more realistic exams.

According to me both are good!

As sometimes you can't experience what you fantisize and on the other hand even in a fantasy some realism is necessary.

For setting, I prefer it realistic. The more realistic the better.

But for the exam, I like it realistic-esque with some naughty details and with semen sampling at then end.

According to me both are good!

As sometimes you can't experience what you fantisize and on the other hand even in a fantasy some realism is necessary.

This is exactly as MrsFn and I do her play exams. Some realism to start and leads into the naughty (fantasy).

I like combination of the two.

Definitely I prefer realistic setting for the room, equipment, and attires. Yet, for some procedures it would be more interesting to add some naughty details.

Fantasy for me for give more pleasure.

Realistic but more extreme/inappropriate then would be tolerated in an actual exam.

I prefer more realistic.

Realistic but more extreme/inappropriate then would be tolerated in an actual exam.

Could you give us some examples of what you mean and have in mind regarding extreme and inappropriate elements, @megs?

Could you give us some examples of what you mean and have in mind regarding extreme and inappropriate elements, @megs?

Sure @PunitiveDaddy I can elaborate some. I like the setting to be realistic but I'd like for things to happen that don't happen during a regular exam, like having my temp taken rectally or being shaved or given an enema. Also there are things like being talked down to, left exposed, restrained, spanked or sexually stimulated that are just inappropriate and reportable from a doctor but I might find hot in the right scene with consent.

I prefer the realistic and plausible delivery of a wide range of exams and treatments. It is highly unlikely to get an enema, rectal temp, rectal exam, or sperm sample in typical exams in real life. But a dr with the right demeanor can do all of the above in a play exam and make it seem realistic. This creates simultaneous horror and enjoyment for me.

A realistic exam/treatment experience is my fantasy. With a play-doc, in his "office". A real trip to my GP, does nothing for me because I know it's going to be rushed and contain none of the elements I need.

I like things to be as realistic as necessary, however sometimes you have to get creative ;-)

For me it is always a mix of realistic and fantasy.

I think we all have some experience in our life that at some moment the interest in medical play was born. And from that moment we started our experience what we enjoyed.

And looking at myself, I would say I enjoy giving a realistic exam. Realistic to me, means a pure medical examination. But keeping it strictly medical, with the Dutch medical procedures, it is quite restricted what to do each time. While most of my patients enjoy an examination of the genitals. I enjoy to give the patient a bit of uncomfortable feeling, or a feeling of being ashamed, shy, etc. by making some minor remarks or comments, letting the patients stand, sit or lay down in certain positions, removing the underwear myself, etc.

It is all nothing offensive, it all adds to the tention and joy of such an examination. But it would not ever happen in a real examination.

It's like making your favorite icecream at home and not order it in a restaurant: you just put on some extra chocolate and whipped cream… It just tastes better that way…

I feel like it has to be one direction or the other, if we're going fantasy, go full fantasy and explore the oddities associated with the fetish make me question your movitives and provide a healthy dose of violation. Or on the other hand make me feel like your an actual Doctor stern and doing this for my own good.

I prefer the reality. I love sharing my own and hearing about other's real life medical experiences - particularly things like sports physicals or other stuff from growing up/teens, but I don't roleplay any of it.

A realistic exam/treatment experience is my fantasy….

I agree. Realism in the exam, the procedures, the language is important for me and for my patients. The fantasy part comes from what each of our individual minds make of the experience – both as it is happening, and as we replay it over and over again afterwards.

I prefer more fantasy than realistic.

I would agree that creating as many realistic touches as possible is key. For me, the realism IS the fantasy. While many of us can't perform exams or get examined in an actual doctor's office, there are ways to enhance the experience and make it feel like you're in that setting, from the waiting, to making the room feel a little chilly, to the crinkly paper, to the awkward banter, to your demeanor. But that said, I also of course like things to get a little (or a lot) more invasive than what would usually happen at your doctor (use of the rectal thermometer, a longer than usual testicular and prostate exam), but all in a matter-of-fact kind of way, as if it's all just a part of the process. For instance, small talk with the patient while their rectal temp is registering, or explaining to them how they can also examine their own testicles at home while doing that part of the exam. I want it to feel like it could happen at the clinic and if it did, you wouldn't soon forget it.

If as a doctor, I can establish a personality that is friendly and matter-of-fact, then find ways to further exhibit a greater amount of control along the way, while the patient loses more of their clothing (and their dignity), then I've done my job.

My fantasies definitely lean more toward the realistic, but with some elements of fantasy thrown in. For example: the abdominal exam takes much longer than usual, the doctor checks my temperature rectally, many extra scopes and instruments are used, etc. And the doctor would be fairly firm. They wouldnt harm me, but they would know best and, even if I protested, my exam and treatment would be happening as planned.

My fantasies definitely lean more toward the realistic, but with some elements of fantasy thrown in. For example: the abdominal exam takes much longer than usual, the doctor checks my temperature rectally, many extra scopes and instruments are used, etc. And the doctor would be fairly firm. They wouldnt harm me, but they would know best and, even if I protested, my exam and treatment would be happening as planned.

This is a very good & balanced scenario between realistic & fantasy - love it!!

Doctor Rob, What are “Dutch medical procedures”

... But keeping it strictly medical, with the Dutch medical procedures, …

Realistic! Just not the one where the dr stares at the computer screen for 80% of the appointment! I am good with some elements of fantasy too.

I think that for more than a few of us, what we want is what USED to be realistic, before certain things changed without asking our permission. 😜 … or what is or was realistic in other countries.