In a medical fantasy, would you rather be willing or forced to have an exam?

Willing or coerced/persuaded. Not forced or tied down.

I've had so many exams in my life, it would make no difference. In a fantasy, what I would like is a complete (every body part probed) physical exam by a female doctor. I did have a nurse practitioner give me a DRE once. Other than that all my docs are males with the exception of my endocrinologist. I do visit with a couple of nurse practitioners; but, those really only involve blood pressure readings, going over meds, checking lab results, etc. I had one NP about 13 years ago that I referred to as "Doctor Babe." I should have been lucky enough for her to tell me it was time to strip down for a very thorough exam. Back then I could still achieve an erection and she would easily have caused me to get one.

Because of my disability, I Have been coerced. Terrified in reality, would love, a maternal doctor doing so. As long as she spoke gently.

Since I am basically a doc, my own fantasies are in both camps. Problem is, restraints are dangerous if you don't know your examiner, and impractical for some of the things I do, such as enemas. Once your patient has received a large enema, she definitely will want to be mobile, and you will want her to be able to get up and run to the bathroom.

That said, I've used them from time to time, especially when the patient requested it.

I would be willing...

Personally I think being restrained would detract from the experience, although I like the idea of a mandatory examination. Part of the excitement is having to comply with the instructions given by the "doctor" Each to their own of course..

Personally I think being restrained would detract from the experience, although I like the idea of a mandatory examination. Part of the excitement is having to comply with the instructions given by the "doctor" .

Personally realist entity"mandatory examinations" and agree following instructions is a big part

Well the OP is referring to a fantasy exam, so in that context, I think what is most realistic is an unrestrained exam. What appeals to me in medfet is the authority of the doctor and the meek compliance of the patient . Even in Borstal or Young Offenders scenarios it’s still the authority ordering a guy to strip that works . Certainly I was recently a patient and some one barking the command strip to me works!

If we move further into fantasy though then I can see the eroticism of having a guy strapped down both from his point of view as he is helpless to prevent what is going to happen and from the “Drs” view knowing he has full control. Such circumstances may be milking or masturbating a guy for semen while massaging prostate. My own fantasy is to have a guy strapped to a medical couch with his legs in stirrups nicely spread allowing full access to anus testicles and penis . He is helpless and I can have him any way I want . Off for a cold shower now!

I think an element of sort of voluntary forced compliance enhances tension and eroticism. For example the subject may have been detained on suspicion of something and may be required to submit to a full search medical to enable the possibility of their release. Or they may be required to ‘pass’ certain elements of an exam to avoid subsequent more intrusive ones (which of course may later prove necessary).

Depends on the fantasy I have 😄

I really like the idea of being forced. Like applying to a strange study and being held in a secret complex for a time, having me subjected to all sorts of unusual procedures. No one talks with me, the doctors talk about subject 235 as if I was not in the room and so on (however, I like my forced fantasies to be ultimately benign, so they just would talk about, how they search for the ultimative orgasm and procedures how to achieve it and such things).

But I also like the idea of a gynecological / urological office / clinic, which offers some secret special treatments to an inner circle of patients, who know the secret.

Like ladies going to their special doctors, to have their examinations and then their regular masturbation-therapy. Or things that going on in the back-area / baesment of the spa or beaty farm...

Here I like the fantasy, as someone unknowing of this secret, being subjected by chance to those treatments (confused patient records, walking through the false door, getting confused with another patient - things like that).

In that case it's not really forced (as the doc doesn't know that I don't comply) - also me being me, being compliant with such a procedure would be a matter of a few seconds...

I am a willing patient, so I would never need to be forced to have an exam.

That being said, having a doctor restrain me for my own good is a scenario I would love to experience: arms tied above my head, straps securing me above and below my breasts, bottom hanging off the edge of the table, legs strapped in restraints and spread widely apart, all orifices on display and available.... yum!

wish i was the doc in a scene like this

I'm not aroused by the use of restraints during a medical exam. I find a domineering doctor who compels her patients to capitulate to be much more erotic. I rather be forced to submit than be unable to resist.

I like the thought of being restrained on the table, unable to move, and at the whim of my doctor. Hearing the clanki of metal instruments being prepared, yet not being able to see the tray. Goosebumps appear as the doctor approaches...

It's all about the fantasy part of things for me into an area I grew up with as strictly taboo. So, yes restraints for sure! Mind you, nothing too harsh and definitely need to allow for the movement that comes as part of my very natural female reaction to proper sorts of stimulation! What I think the use of restraints does for me is to allow myself to explore these areas saying easily, "Well, I really had no choice in the matter." What I wonder is if in time I would loose my "taboo sensitivity" and no longer like/need restraints or if that restraints desire will always be a part of me?

I think somewhere between "forced" and "willing."

"Coerced" might be the best definition for what I fantasize about.

I have given enemas where the receiver wanted to be restrained and we did a 4 point system to each corner. she liked the fact she couldn't have any say in having the enema or when it would stop. This always worked well because I had a quick release system for getting her up and to the potty. That part was very important as you can imagine.

In a fantasy I would prefer being forced. It just accentuates the natural power relationship between doctor and patient, increasing the inherent vulnerability of me as the patient.

I do occasionally fantasize about a more "forced" exam, that starts off fairly clinical but then I am restrained or held down for certain parts. It's definitely a turn on to have no choice or say in the matter and let the doctor do what they think is best.

However, actually acting on this fantasy isn't a high priority. I have used a ball gag during a few play exams, and was once tied down towards the end. It was fun! But definitely not something I would do with just any partner.

Personally, I would prefer for it to be a forced examination being securely strapped down and gagged to prevent back talk.

I think the aspect of being coaxed verbally to submit and ''be a good girl and just relax, it will be over soon'' is more appealing to me for an examination. Most of my patients are evaluated for their ''orgasmic function and productivity'' and at times this portion of the exam does require mild restraint as more aggressive bodily movements happen. Even as her body convulses in pleasure, I stay in a very clinical role and urge her to ''just relax like a good girl, let it happen and let go for me''

I'd like to be at the exam willingly.. however... would like the doctor to decide to take the exam to an extreme level or beyond that I had been expecting. show up for a basic blood pressure screening.. end up striped, naked and probed..

I think the aspect of being coaxed verbally to submit and ''be a good girl and just relax, it will be over soon'' . . . .

That sounds a little like a rapist saying, "if you just relax and take it, this can be kind of fun . . . . "

That sounds a little like a rapist saying, "if you just relax and take it, this can be kind of fun . . . . "

In both instances someone is being forced to cede control and accept the will of another.

Both scenarios appeal to me. There is something great about having a willing cooperative patient and having them (or me) submitting to whatever exam, treatments, procedures are recommended by the doctor. On the other hand, being (consensually) unwilling and particularly, restrained, adds an extra thrill to me as both a doctor and a patient.

Amunro19 said:

What appeals to me in medfet is the authority of the doctor and the meek compliance of the patient . Even in Borstal or Young Offenders scenarios it’s still the authority ordering a guy to strip that works .

This is it for me as well. It having to do it because it is compulsory and there will be consequences if I don't, rather than having the choice taken away from me by actually forcing it.

The Borstal and Young Offenders analogies are particularly apt.

One of the most effective play exams I had required me to strip naked in front of a doc in an ante room, then be escorted naked into the exam room in front of 2 other docs and a still fully dressed patient.

I like the idea of it required sometimes, but I also like the idea of complying.

The idea of being stripped naked and strapped down is such a turn on. A panel of doctors walk in. A very thorough breast exam is done followed by a vaginal ultrasound. As if that is not enough, another doctor puts his fingers inside you and feels around. Problem is... that is not what you came for. When you dare complaining they gag you.

To your biggest embarrassment, you start enjoying the exam and it takes all your willpower not to show it.

Personally, I would prefer for it to be a forced examination being securely strapped down and gagged to prevent back talk.

There is nothing wrong with this and it can be a lot of fun. What needs to happen first however is that the play scenario needs to be worked out. I prefer to do this in writing and it can go back and forth and that way there are no surprises. There also needs to be a safeword or signal if you are gagged so you can stop the session at any time for any reason. If your top does not agree to this and if you aren't comfortable don't do it. I'm not saying everyone needs to go this far but if your comfort level isn't there, if it is your first time take the necessary precautions.. Stay safe people.

In my exams I am more interested in the active part. So I can only give it from the observer perspective. I do like both, tied down and without any rope. But it depends a lot on the partner.

Tied down I have all the control and can literally do whatever I want to the tied down patient. But this requires a lot of trust. Even for me as the active part, I do not like to tie down persons I do not have a good feeling about.

If I have a good feeling or know the person long enough, it can be a lot of fun.

As for not tied down patients, I like if they show the pleasure. There is nothing more exciting than a female patient moving her hipps up and down on the gyn chair. With her legs the pussy then moves up and down on my finger while examine her and pleasuring her clit.

If tied down such movements are possible, but harder to preform.

I certainly agree with most comments that being strapped down to have a full medical exam would make it much more exciting.