Who knows about your diapers?

All my friends are pretty conservative. They would be wierded out. But I'm sure they have a few secrets they dont want out.

All of my friends and family know about my diapers as I don't try to hide them and they are cool with that. I'm still not sure why so many people make a big deal out of it. :-\

When you read back through a lot of these old posts you see a lot of angry parents and loved ones.Too bad they can't see the soft and warm indulgance this gives the diaper wearer, when they can get away and wear their diapers.To give that feeling to a person for a second would change a lot of the anger they display,when catching someone trying on diapers.If you people caught one of your children wearing diapers,how would you react?

That's a very good question. If I were to catch my child, children, and they didn't realize I caught them, I would back off and leave them to their privacy. I would support them if needed in any way, and I would let them know no matter what they did, they are good people and I love them. I would react the same, if they knew I found them out also. In short, I'd be very cool about it, and let them know I was.

I gave a point for bring up that question.

The girl and I discussed the issue of catching our children in diapers, should we marry and have kids, of course. She even insinuated seeing if she could get them into diapers, like by hiding diapers in their closet and have them "discover" diapers at a later age. But I'd be cool with it.

I've told my parents (they never did know about the bedwetting part, but I told them I liked diapers after I stopped bed-wetting). A lot of non-AB/DL's online know. Both of my ex's know (they even tried it out). My current gf, SilverSnowLeopardess knows, obviously.

I don't really care anymore who knows. They don't like it, they don't have to be around me. Its part of who I am.

Yes, after about three years into my marriage, I decided to finally let my wife in on my desires for diapers. She was just fine with it and has been a part of my diaper activities for 30+years now.

I did tell my best friend once. I still don't know why, but we were talking about what really got us going, so I told him it was diapers for me. He was pretty cool, even joked about it later. I think he told some other friends of mine. Just at the beginning of last football season we were doing our fantasy draft over the phone, and I joked that I was so excited a certain player was still available I needed to go change my pants. He started to ask "Do you still wear..." but stopped before saying the "d-word."

Aside from the people here? Not a soul... Don't plan to for a long time, either...

No for me too. Outside of this site and a few other AB/DL sites nobody knows about my love for diapers. Well except for the few fellow AB/DLs that I have met in person.

To me it is no big thing that people know I wear diapers. I need them so I guess that is one reason that I do not mind that people know. I will admit that in the beginning I was shy about letting people know, but the more I found out that I would be expected no matter what I wear for underware I became more matter of fact about it. What difference does it make whether you wear panties, thong, boxers, briefs, pull ups or diapers? They all do the same, provide comfort and some protection. Some people prefer none. If that is their thing and they can get away with it, who are we to criticise?

How can we expect the public to accept that some people wear diapers for need or just preference if we are selves hide it or are ashamed of it?

My family andone good Friend knows i were diapers all the time and they occasional Joke about it but they know i have to i an incontinent

I have told my wife, but she does not agree with the idea of me wearing diapers and does not understand how I could like them.

She has said that she doesn't care if I wear them as long as she is not around. Well, good luck there. How often do you think that happens. I am on a dry spell here and going crazy. Someone help me. LOL

I don't know how long you've been married....but if that's the case GET OUT!!!! My wife never ever heard about adults liking diapers...she's not into it but she supports me 1oo%. You asked for help and this is the only advice I can give. Your wife doesn't understand you needs. That's not fair to YOU. You have to think of your self. I understand that you "need" to wear diapers. If you can't convince her then she's got to go.

I have told my girlfriend. She took it well, but wondered how I knew I liked wearing diapers. She also said she didn't even know there were people who did wear them. She's a very openminded woman though (Though born a boy and living as a boy most of my life, she still refers to me as Vanessa all the time)

I think my biggest challenge with her will be seeing if I could get HER into diapers (I think she would look so cute)

I've told my Mom and my 3 best friends. When i told my Mom several years ago, she made me go see a psychiatrist (who 1: had never heard of diaper fetishism and 2: could offer no more insight into the subject than a good web page such as understandinginfantilism.org). My 3 best friends don't care in the least.

I confessed to my ex-girlfirend just recently and it freaked her out, she knew about my love for spankings but never Diapers. The one day she even caught me wearing a couple of Depends.

"I don't know how long you've been married....but if that's the case GET OUT!!!! My wife never ever heard about adults liking diapers...she's not into it but she supports me 1oo%. You asked for help and this is the only advice I can give. Your wife doesn't understand you needs. That's not fair to YOU. You have to think of your self. I understand that you "need" to wear diapers. If you can't convince her then she's got to go."

I no longer "need" to wear them. When I did need them is when I became hooked on the feeling they gave me while wearing them. That is what she doesn't understand. And, I have been married for 18 years. When you have been married this long your needs are no longer important. LOL

At home everyone knows, they see me in my diaper only walking all day.

Also some of my good friends know. One of them asked me in one of the long trips "how come I don't use the toilet" so I told her and explained how good I feels. She asked if she can wear one, I gave her and it was funny to see her diaper under the tight pants. At the next stop she took it off.

Since then she teases in a baby voice if I need a change. I know that she's just teasing me, she wouldn't really.

Explained my desires to my wife 35 years ago and she was understanding and accepted it and participates in various DL activities.

An ex-coworker of mine knew that I wore diapers as I had worn cloth diapers and plastic pants to work and changed to my uniform, through which I am sure were very obvious. Now I am retired and since then she took some photos of me in my full baby attire, complete with several different baby dresses and plastic panties. Anyway today I had asked her to help fix my computer as it was really slow and she brought over her boyfriend who is better at computers than she. As it worked out i had used one of her photos as my screen saver, so he saw my picture n cloth diapers and pink plastic panties and short pink baby nightie on my hands and knees and my diapered,plastic pantied butt in front of the camera on my computer Luckily He said nothing about it but would put the task master in front of the image.It seems that it just goes to show that no matter how you may try to hide things they just kind of come out anyway 😮 😮 😮 😮

I told several girl friends. Well, guess what happened next? You got it! They left me. Not many girls out there willing to put up with a guy who wears a diaper. Even if it is only at home.

Ive never told anyone but I know my mother knows. when I lived with her when I was a bit younger she used to wash my diaper covers and onezie shirts, and even put a case of diapers away for me while I was at work on a few occasions. I can only imagine that she told my younger brother but I cant say for sure, either way I guess she has always seen it as just a part of my life, as we all have weird things about us. I have never been secretive about my choice to wear diapers nor have I openly flaunted it. it has just always been one of things things that wasn't discussed. it has had no effect on me and my mothers or my brothers relationship, and as I have no relationship with my father I could care less what he thinks. I don't think I have any reason to say anything now as I live on my own and its already a known thing. maybe im lucky in that respect.

Nobody knows i love and wear diapers but some may found someting stranger in my pants last week, but they didn't say anything. i would be very embarasssed if my close friends know this

I told a girlfriend once, she freaked out on me. but i had to tell her, i could not ask her to marry me with her knowing me wholly, yea, she did not really love me like i thought she did. she did not even want to try to understand,she just blew up and told me a had to stop, not wanting to hear anything about it. it was sad.

I told my ex a little while after we broke up in highschool, it was a risky move, I know, to my surprise she was okay with it. Wish i would have known that when we were going out. lol.

My mother knows that i wear diapers, but not because its a fetish. None of my friends or the rest of the family know, I don't think that they ever will, its just something i would rather keep to myself (or a girlfriend!)

Lets see, my doctors, nurses, family, some friends, girlfriends, Only two of my ex girlfriends know the rest never made it that far LOL!!! and my family knows also but i was incontinent so it was expected i would be in a diaper!!!

Uhh yep that pretty much covers it for me lol. Pimp em proud people they are just really cool underwear thats all lol.

For me my family knew my hubby knew and just 2 of my very close friends knew it too.

Exactly three people know... well, besides everyone here:

- The girl I dated a few years ago, who got me into it.

- My best friend, who herself is a lifelong bed-wetter.

- A friend of mine I knew from college. I was dying to tell someone else, someone I knew wouldn't say anything to anyone else.