False Medical Modesty
I just want to know what people's opinions on this are.
I went with my wife today to see the doctor, because I was concerned that I might have developed a hernia. The doctor didn't see me, her NP saw me instead. After talking with the NP for a while, I removed the clothing from the lower half of my body (except for my socks) so she could check me for a hernia. She looked at my pubic area while I was lying down and then again while I was standing. As she checked me, there was a discussion in the room between her, my wife, and myself about hernias that lasted several minutes, and we were all looking at my crotch.
Now, I freely admit to largely lacking much modesty or shame when it comes to my body (not that I'm much to look at, but my body is what it is, and I don't care enough about what other people think -- good or bad -- to stress about it). However, I can understand being reluctant to let strangers see you naked, and wanting to cover up. But, I don't understand what the point of being ashamed is after the stranger has already seen everything...
We talked for at least 5 or 10 minutes, and I was worried about having a hernia (still am) and wasn't even thinking about being naked any more. Finally, the NP said "Well you must be in a hurry to cover up so I will leave and let you get dressed." I didn't correct her, because I'm sure I was supposed to be dying of embarrassment at that point, even though I had nearly forgot that I was half naked. She then went out the door, so that anyone in the hallway would have seen me butt naked from the waist down, and closed it so that I could get dressed.
Would you be modest about covering yourself after everyone in the room had spent several minutes looking at, and even holding, your genitals? I mean, to me, that ship had sailed a long time ago. And why does she need to leave the room for me to get dressed? Is putting clothes on somehow more embarrassing than being naked? Especially considering that if she had remained in the room long enough for me to get dressed, she wouldn't have had to open the door, exposing me to passersby?
I have read quite a bit on the importance in the medical field of preserving people's modesty, which I can appreciate as a value (even if I don't value it for myself). It's just the more that I am exposed to it (pun intended), there seems to be no rhyme or reason about how the concept is applied.
Weird.