Afraid of some poo

@kaleigh

You should read the threads on prepping for anal sex.

There is a very wide variation on what individuals need that depends on their body and how long and deep they intend to play.

There are a zillion posts where people tell what they do to be clean for anal.

Yes! That's why I never let any previous boyfriends do any anal stuff with me. Even if he just put his finger near my hole I would jump up and push his hand away. Not to be prude, just freaks me out a lot. And I never had an enema or anything and I have no clue on how to do it to clean out my insides. Maybe one day I'll warm up to it.

You don't need a full on enema, unless you're going to make a 30" dildo disappear in your ass. All you have to do is 1, make sure you're done pooing for the day, and 2, a douche, and all you really need in the douche is warm water. Ease it in, it doesn't have to be any deeper than the nozzle just past the inner sphincter, then squeeze the bulb, pull it out. What I do is I fill up the douche again before sitting on the toilet, then I sit, and expel the water. Then I just repeat until the only thing coming out is clear water, and that usually only takes 3 or 4 rinses. It's a 5 minute procedure.

But I do like to wait about 45 minutes before doing anything else. That gives my body time to absorb any water that may have become trapped, if you douche properly, you won't have any "accidents".

It, and it being poo is not to everyones taste, each to their own, I find that going to the loo first then followed by a cleanse out with a shower hose, warm water naturally, is all that is needed. Of course this does not allow for any spontaneity in the heat of the moment.

Poo doesn't bother me as much as the sight of blood. But if the smell of the poo gets to being too strong, I will lose interest in what we are doing. My sub even is a bit self conscious about too much poo mess because he knows it is not a turn on for me.

No I am not afraid and neither is my partner. But, with me it, is rare because of doing daily enemas which keeps me quite clean. Besides he has a small penis and only goes in a little ways.

Poop happens. I don't like it, and when it happens it's embarrassing as hell, but...poop happens. I keep a roll of paper towels by the bed. I'm the first one to see his penis when were finished, and if there's any little specks, I give it a wipe.

The bigger problem, and happens from time to time, specially if you have a lot of anal, is you poop on the bed. If it's an enema mishap, it could be a messy one.

Laugh it off!! Get him into the shower while you change the sheets, and remember, it's just a little poop.

That's just one reason I always wear a rubber coated with Vaseline for anal. No matter how well the rectum is flushed out, there are still millions of bacteria that normally live in the colon. They can go right up a male's urethra and give him cystitis, even if there is no feces in the bowel.

If I even suspect a Dr. might do a DRE on me, I squirt an 8 oz. bulb of tap water in myself before I leave for the appointment. It's humiliating to have the Dr. withdraw a gloved finger with feces on it.

Ive had anal sex with several women in the past, poop has never been a bother to me or them, exept one lady....the last one i attempted it with, there was a little bit of poop on the bed sheet and she went loopy, grabbed the sheets and that ended any feelings i had for her, well over the top response !

One time after picking up my female friend with benefits from the airport, she told me she cant poop in any strange toilets so she had been holding it for 3 days. Late that afternoon I was watching tv and she came up and said, oh, dont mind me, and proceeded to pull my pants off and sat down on me, pushing my dick in her ass. Well , after 3-4 minutes, I noticed we were making quite a mess and it was gonna get on her carpet so I told her about it. She jumped up, panicky, ran in the bathroom and told me to go shower. I wanted to continue in the shower but she got cleaned up and we didnt do anything else the rest of the weekend. :-(

My favorite saying goes "If you are going to play in the sandbox, sometimes you are going to get sand on you." No one should ever freak out, I mean come on! EVERY parent has cleaned up much worse at some point with their kids, and every dog lover carries around much worse practically every day!!

I've had anal sex with every partner for 30 yrs and very rarely had any issues. If it happens, wipe off and forget about it. Men - don't make a big deal about it and embarrass your lover. If you don't make it a big deal, she might not either. And then you can laugh about it later.

And while I love enema play, I have never once used it for "cleaning" as a prelude to anal play. It's an sensual erotic act all on its own. The only prep I require for anal play with a partner is that she is willing.

One memorable 'mess' involved a gf while we were visiting my parents. We had anal sex in the morning and after 10 or 15 minutes of basking in the glow we both started to smell something. Lifting up the covers was Uh-Oh!!! We got up quickly to clean up but had to throw the sheets in the wash. To my parents we offered up the 'unexpected period' as the reason we did some laundry ar 7am!!!

. . . . One memorable 'mess' involved a gf while we were visiting my parents. We had anal sex in the morning and after 10 or 15 minutes of basking in the glow we both started to smell something. Lifting up the covers was Uh-Oh!!! We got up quickly to clean up but had to throw the sheets in the wash. To my parents we offered up the 'unexpected period' as the reason we did some laundry at 7am!!!

Did you have to "pre-spot" the sheets ? ? ? ? 😁 😁 😁

She jumped up, panicky, ran in the bathroom and told me to go shower. I wanted to continue in the shower but she got cleaned up and we didnt do anything else the rest of the weekend. :-(

OH Man!! how did you let her off the hook the whole weekend!! That was a bonding experience you had,, oh man,,,,keep trying.

Did you have to "pre-spot" the sheets ? ? ? ? 😁 😁 😁

Well, they were already "pre-spotted" so to speak, but I think we used some of that spray stain stuff... LOL

Nope. Not afraid in the least. I think something's wrong with the guy if he's afraid.

I believe it is a very manageable aspect of anal play. I'm especially cognizant of those contingencies when enema play is involved as well. Why not anticipate some of those potential issues and plan ahead.

I carry a cheap vinyl shower curtain with my enema gear. It can be placed on the bed or floor to protect the environment and works fine over or under sheets or towels. They can be tossed and replaced as needed.

Walmart and the dollar stores sell them for 1 to 2 bucks and can provide some peace of mind and eliminate the likelihood of buying a new mattress etc.

"Everyone Poops" is a book, originally from Japan in 1977, that has been translated into many languages. Designed to teach kids that it's no big deal: diapers, toilets, whatever. Maybe good advice in almost every situation: poop is no big deal. If someone panics and treats it like radioactive waste, they've got much bigger underlying problems. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Everyone_Poops

While I agree that everybody poops, not everybody wants someone else's shit on their hands, mouth or genitals or wants to be involved in cleaning it up.

I have posted several scenes where either purposely (for retaliation, comeuppance, humiliation or retribution for previous acts) or by accident we have had poop. Some were S&M enema scenes, others were by accident. Poop is not a big deal.

Having said that, EVERYBODY who plays in the back door will eventually find some poop. That's why we like enemas--they clean the playground.

Amen, Ms. Susie!

Having said that, EVERYBODY who plays in the back door will eventually find some poop. That's why we like enemas--they clean the playground.

First part, I agree as I said below, second part nope! I have loved/wanted anal sex since I was 13 or so. Started enema interest around 30 and love them as well. However I have never used an enema to clean a woman out for anal sex. Each is done for it's own enjoyment. And the only 'combining' I've done is have anal sex DURING the enema!

And I know its in a completely different context, but I wonder if being a parent changes anything. Every parent has tons of messes to clean up and I think that might take some of the stigma/horror away from dealing with a messy situation.

Right. Hard to get upset about a bit of poop after your sons have peed on you and you've cleaned up a few dozen diapers. Back in the '90's I once gave my 1.5-year-old son 5 head to toe baths in one day because he had such bad diarrhea leaking out around his diapers. Poor little guy was okay the next day, but we weren't happy campers that day.

Eric

I'd be OK with getting some of my wife's poop on me during anal play (it does just wipe/wash off), but flip it around and I hate the thought of her getting into any of mine. Fortunately as Susie notes that's what enemas are for, and I'm proficient in giving them to myself for both health and sex prep.

And the only 'combining' I've done is have anal sex DURING the enema!

Hmmm. That's a new one for me. DP with an enema nozzle.....interesting....

Hmmm. That's a new one for me. DP with an enema nozzle.....interesting....

Not only DP with a nozzle (plug nozzles feel nice and bumpy and the double balloon really tightens things up!) but also anal sex while she's holding the enema. Remove the nozzle, insert myself!

At first my wife and I would be extra careful to stay clean if we where going to play or do anything anal. once you except that things can get messy. It isn't a big deal and we found anal goes better if you don't worry about it as much. Just kinda go with the flow type of thing.

Not only DP with a nozzle (plug nozzles feel nice and bumpy and the double balloon really tightens things up!) but also anal sex while she's holding the enema. Remove the nozzle, insert myself!

Yeah I was wondering how many people have done that. I would think it would be very messy. If that happened to me I'd be so humiliated if some of it came out during the strokes in and out.

Yeah I was wondering how many people have done that. I would think it would be very messy. If that happened to me I'd be so humiliated if some of it came out during the strokes in and out.

That definitely something I would do ONLY in the shower.

Yeah I was wondering how many people have done that. I would think it would be very messy. If that happened to me I'd be so humiliated if some of it came out during the strokes in and out.

Actually the handful of times I've done it hasnt been messy at all. Maybe a Little leak, but not much. On purpose I did NOT do all the way out, all the way in - that would invite a mess. Just have some protection down on the bed and it'll be fine. Pulling out after coming is the biggest risk, but that's the same as after I've peed inside her ass. Go slow, talk her through it and have her squeeze as I exit.

Doing it IN the shower is not required, but a shower after would probably be wanted. ?

And even if it does get messy, #1 if you enjoy humiliation, there you go! #2 everything washes... so who cares, try it once!

I know lots of guys are neurotic about getting shit on their cock (with a condom even) - it's a shame, isn't it!

A girl's feces doesn't bother me at all, but I get really turned off by urine. Not sure why, really.

I really do not mind if after or during anal sex there is some feces. If you have protection on the bed and a shower near by no big thing. I have had this happen to me many times I sometimes thinks she does on purpose. Usually she lets go when I am in rhythm and just about out she will poop and then full force back to it. The other time is like others have said after I cum inside her and pull out she poops. She