Afraid of some poo

Are women "afraid" of it comes some poo on your partner when playing anal games or having anal sex?

I think it comes down to how comfortable both people are when seeing some poop and how much trust they have in each other not to be "upset" when it happens. When it happens and it will happen if you play often enough, it has to be viewed and dealt with as a no big deal situation. Have baby wipes close by if needed and move on and don't let it destroy the mood of the moment. If you know ahead of time that you will be engaging in anal play, then by all means do some low volume enemas to rinse out the rectum an hour or two ahead of playtime. But even then, there still could be some poop that appears- you don't have to freak out about it whether you are the one who is being penetrated or the one doing the penetration.

OMG yes. If you read my past posts you will see how I used to hate anything back there. My sister when we were young and starting to masturbate would put things in her butt sometimes usually after she was given an enema. I even put my finger in her there. But I would never let her do it to me. I tried anal twice when I ws bi an forget it. Then I ended up with a partner and she was into anal. I didn't mind doing things to please her but I kept saying no when she would try it on me. To make a long story short we talked about it and decided it was a cleanliness thing with me. She took enemas and talked me into them. I gave them to her and watched her have major orgasms. All I kept thinking about was the one I had when I was young. Anyway after giving to her for a few weeks I got up the nerve. Of course for the first weeks I could only take like 1/4 to 1/2 a bag with no orgasms. I was afraid of exploding all over the place. Over time I started letting her put things in me back there like thermometers just small things. Then one day I took the whole bag while she was playing with my clit and had a major orgasm. I was hooked after that as far as cleaning back there. Still to this day I will not let anyone touch me back there unless I have had enemas.

Poo is just a normal part of anal play, unless you administer enemas beforehand. I'm definitely NOT into scat, but poo doesn't gross me out. Besides, it washes off, and if you're still concerned, there's antibacterial soap!

If you want clean and comfortable anal, all you have to do is take a series of enemas until the water comes out clear, and do this a few hours beforehand to allow plenty of time for you to expel and/or absorb any remaining leftover water from the enemas. Then you will be nice and empty to relax and indulge in as much anal pleasure as you please.

As far as I am concerned, being completely clean is the only way to engage in anal play of any sort. Fecal matter must be washed out or else the little remnants of it can rub against the internal tissue and cause irritation and discomfort, possibly even an infection.

As for people who want to be able to engage in anal play on a regular basis but are afraid of enemas on a regular basis, just look at all the people on this site who have taken enemas every day for decades and are healthy. As long as you are healthy, then I would surmise that enemas on a regular basis would be no problem. You just have to know your body and know what you are doing, but that applies to everything. That is just my opinion and speculation, of course. I do not know anyone else's health situation, I do not know if anyone else in particular would be fine taking enemas on a regular basis. Do what you do at your own risk, proceed with caution, be responsible, and make sure you learn as much as you can before attempting anything.

I want to add to what HC said about daily enemas. While on vacation, my wife and I were having sex frequently over the course of the week which included anal play on me. I took my enema equipment and kept it in the bathroom. I did a rinse everyday over the course of the week. These were low volume enemas that really did not travel much beyond my rectum. I was still having regular BMs and was unaffected by the enemas. This is probably the most frequent I had done enemas since I started doing them in my early teens.

So I think you can do enemas regularly to be clean for anal play and not cause any upset to your digestive system. If you are so inclined, I recommend you experiment and see how your body reacts. I was quite surprised (and pleasured) to see my body was not adversely affected.

ProV1, I generally carry my douche bulb when traveling with hubby if I think there might be a possibility of backdoor fun. A couple of quick rinses work well for me and there is no irregularity caused by the small enema. Either way, it's far more enjoyable when it's clean back there!

Deb

I keep seeing posts about enemas til clear before anal sex. Geez-Louise! Anal sex involves the penis penetrating the rectum, not the entire colon. Given the rate at which feces move thru the colon, a 1 quart enema will clean high enough to avoid any poop during anal sex. (Unless your guy can go for 3-4 hours, LOL!) If worried, do 2 quarts, but E's til clear are NOT required. Of course, if you're both more into enemas than anal sex, have at it!

Guess I have learnt that what is true for one, is most likely not true for all others.

We are very individual beings, and as they say.... One man's (or woman's) trash is another man's treasure (or pleasure).

Like I always say, "shit happens". Feel free to quote me whenever you want, lol.

Mashie

We almost always do a little enema prior to backdoor fun.

We do not like the mess when it happens but... I mean, if you play with the backdoor you have to cope with it. It's not worse than dealing with babies really, or menstrual blood (sex during periods) or other unpleasant bodily functions.

The women I've had anal sex with, meaning- fingers, tongues, dildos, thermometers AND intercourse, were all very into anal and never discussed a concern about poop. Their buttholes were always sparkling clean. Only once with one of them was there poop on my cock after I pulled out. We both just grinned then went to shower, no big deal. I remember a few hours later she rolled over again and reached back and spread her cheeks for me to buttfuck her. No worry on her part, and no poop that time either.

The last girl I dated was surprised that it did not effect me. I think she was impressed.

Like I always say, "shit happens".

I become suspicious this is where and why the quote may have originated.....

As someone who has never engaged in anal activity, and has absolutely no desire to, once I saw the topic of poo during anal, i am all curious, as to "Yeah ! What DO you do when you run into that? How DO you feel when that happens?"

I was interested to see how people engaging in anal deal with it, since that to me is one deterrent to not get anally involved. Forget the pain i'd feel of fingers being inserted if I were a bottom. I think of being a top. Here we are. Maybe some nice clean, white bedsheets. i withdraw my shaft from an anus. And the next thing you know, "Oh SHIT !" Total mood buzz kill.

Just shake it off and keep going.

Just shake it off and keep going.

If you do that, it can fly across the room.

It's much better to wipe it off with a tissue. 😁 😁 😁

In the case that you will not be able to take an enema you may insert a Dulcolax suppository and wait for half an hour. This will be sufficient to avoid some poo during the anal deal.

Never tried it but i am so willing!! anyone care to test this out!! like im serious its a fantasy

I recall my wife saying that she was not bothered - if I willfully penetrated her anally, then I had to accept the possible consequences.

I was afraid of that. I don't think anyone wants it to happen. But he wanted my ass and he was a slow, willing an patient partner. I came to appreciate that in him and that he made me feel desired regardless. This helped me relax and there was an understanding, as another poster stated, this is a possible side effect. The next time, I made sure to anal douche a bit. I wanted to be as clean as possible and he introduced me to tongue on ass which is an amazing feeling.

If you play in the "Back-door ' area, you are bound at on time or another to get a little dirty unless the that area is cleansed before with an enema

If you go #2 regularly you should be good. Try going before starting sex.

Well apparently I pooped on Doc a few times while I was so sick. He was going to spare me the details, but I point blank asked him one day and he said I did more than once. I also apparently puked on him too, a few times. I'm hanging my head in shame!!!!!! I would have never done that on purpose, neither things because neither of those are our things, lol. Wowza how embarrassing. Yes the man still loves me somehow. He's a great man!

Mashie

If the anus is not cleaned by enema / suppository before then pooping during sex is highly likely as our anus muscles try to expel out when ever inside it. Even after cleansing sometimes pooping happens as during anal sex sometimes the colon muscles starts responding rapidly to the anal sensations, but this is a rare occurrence.

My FWB and I don't care at all about poop during anal sex. We usually don't do enemas before hand, we reserve enema play as its own protracted sex play activity. sometimes there's no poo, sometimes just a little, and a couple of times a big accident. Laugh it off, clean up and continue playing. Whether I'm doing her or she's pegging me, its all good. There is one thing involving poo she enjoys though. The day before we meet she sometimes will take a couple healthy doses of Peptol Bismol so she is solidly well packed. She likes the feeling of it being pushed back high inside her like a extra long dildo, and I enjoy doing it to her. This is followed by a nice pee in her butt or some play time with our four quart bag to help her out.

This is an old subject;In TAIMING OF THE SHREW Shakspeare has Petrucio say to Katherine:"What,with my tongue in your tail?Nay,come again Good Kate,I am a gentleman".Also,on Othello,Iago,having kissed Desdomnas hand says"I would as soon her fingers were klyster pipes"This sort of thing has been going on for a long time What other classical references to enemas can our scholarly preverts come up with?

Personally,I like to clean the lady out with a nice enema before exploring her tightness !

Someone said years ago, "If you play in the back yard, you've got to expect to get a little dirty."

Tip, I believe the exact quote from Shakespeare is, " Would that those fingers were klyster pipes". There was a footnote in our text in high school that said, klyster pipes were used to administer enemas. (I've never forgotten these quotes)

"You can't have a party at Poops house and be angry if he shows up."

Just be an adult about it, grab a baby wipe and carry on with the fun 😉

Yes! That's why I never let any previous boyfriends do any anal stuff with me. Even if he just put his finger near my hole I would jump up and push his hand away. Not to be prude, just freaks me out a lot. And I never had an enema or anything and I have no clue on how to do it to clean out my insides. Maybe one day I'll warm up to it.

@kaleigh

You should read the threads on prepping for anal sex.

There is a very wide variation on what individuals need that depends on their body and how long and deep they intend to play.

There are a zillion posts where people tell what they do to be clean for anal.