Asking partner for a rectal temperature

I've only had one partner take my temperature rectally.

Open communication and trust. Also having a deep love and a desire to make you fulfilled physically should be a good indicator on how your partner reacts to this request. It's also likely that this is new territory, so open up and talk to each other face to face. If in exploring this new venture, it becomes satisfying for both of you, what a nice addition to your relationship. As I've written before, at times when a partner is sick or just not feeling well, these brief moments of intimacy can be a comforting oasis of closeness, love and caring.

@Marsha

It's pretty amazing that he dared take your temp rectally since you were underage. What if you'd gone home and told your parents?

But I'll bet your bare bottom is a lasting memory for him!

I have had a partner temp me rectally more than once.

As i had broken fingers on my right hand i got a cold and asked my GF if she can take my temp, but i can´t do it with my left and she said ok and took my temp rectally.

I wouldn´t have any problem in taking a girl´s rectal temeparature. i may enjoy doing that...

Is rectal temperature a part of your relation with your sex partner(s) ?

Has your partner been reluctant to temperature taking in your sex games ?

For us med play and especially temperature taking is part of our sexual relationship...

But it was not from the very start of our relationship.

Rather this interest developed only after several years together. I think it needs some confidence to bring up this topic in an existing relationship...

I have to say no. To me now is the way they feel when being inserted.

Yes, rectal temptakings is definitely a big and essential part of my relation with my sex partners. It´s the same whether I´m playing with my partner since 30 years or some temporary one. Even though I can have sex without rectal temptakings I do enjoy it as most when the rectal thermometer is also involved in the game.

Mostly my partners has not been or are seldom reluctant to temptakings.

It has happened a few times and in some way I like it. Some of my most memorable temptakings has been when there has been some reluctance and hesitation and embarrassment invoved in the hole game. When I simply have to work a bit harder to get the thermometer to where I want it to be and when in the end I can see that we both really enjoy it.

I sure wish it was! I love my ass played with and love the sight of a thermometer slipping in a tight anus. Having my cheeks spread and spreading someones cheeks is a turn on also.

Certainly is in my marriage. Rarely for real life temps but for foreplay....absolutely!!!

My "sex partner" is my husband, and on those occasions when I was sick enough to use a rectal thermometer, that's an act of love and genuine caring, which is a better turn on than sex! Those are intimate moments with my husband, and even when I'm feeling lousy I can feel a little spark of excitement.

Just about every girl ive been with from 12 to currently has either taken my rectal temp, seen me do it or let me do theirs.

I broached the subject of my RT fantasies with my wife a few years after we were married, when I finally felt comfortable enough. She made the effort to indulge me a few times, and even said she found it cute. However, she is not at all RT-erotic, as either giver or receiver, so once I stopped asking she never took the initiative. We have had a long and generally healthy marriage, but it just doesn’t include RT play.

I just came out of relationship with a wonderful woman who happens to be a Nurse and Rectal Temps both for real and otherwise play a huge role in our relationship. It wasn't the basis of it, but, rectal temperature taking definitely had its place within our "love' relationship.

I was very lucky because my ex boyfriend had a predilection for rectal temperature taking. First time, when we were playing, he asked me if I would let him take my temperature. It was strange because I never told him about my fantasies, I didn't know how to react. I couldn't refuse him, it was all I ever wanted, a dream come true. But I tried to avoid showing him how excited I was. After, I asked him many times to bring the thermometer and the bottle with massage oil because I wanted to play. And he enjoyed that anytime. But as I said I was very lucky. I wonder if another will ask me if I would let him take my rectal temperature. Probably not, so I will have to find an opportunity for rectal temperature taking or I will have to be sick with fever, which is very unpleasant.

I tried to introduce my partner to rectal temps a few years ago. She was kind enough to humour me a few times by taking mine as part of our foreplay. But it isn't really her cup of tea, so the idea faded away, and I haven't insisted since. I would have been glad to oblige her as well, but she showed even less interest in receiving.

Next time you have nasal congestion and not feeling well, suggest that an oral temp may not be reliable.

Rectal temps do nothing for me.or Two or three fingers up my butt or a dildo is wonderful. Same for my wife.

It was actually a nurse (not me) who first asked my husband to take my rectal temp. We'd only been married a short time when I was in a serious accident. While recovering at home, I came down with a cold and then a respiratory infection and fever.

This was in the mid-1980s when we still had glass thermometers. For a couple of newlyweds, it was a nice way for him to get to know me better down there! We still have that thermometer (in a white case), still accurate, and we still love to use it on occasion.❣️

I think that most relationships that work well, have a solid foundation, when it comes to sexual desires. If I were single, and had a nice girlfriend, I wouldn't think twice about asking for and offering a rectal temp. To me, it's not a big deal. Hopefully, they'd enjoy it, and want more. Most people get bored doing the same thing all of the time. A vintage glass rectal thermometer, a jar of Vaseline, with the screw on cap, and a comfortable bed, can really spice things up.

Is rectal temp fetish common? What do you think the chances of me sharing my fetish with my female partner and she will understand.

You should be able to answer that. The chances of my wife liking enemas or understanding my fetish are zero and I didn't have to ask.

@NYLF said

Is rectal temp fetish common? What do you think the chances of me sharing my fetish with my female partner and she will understand.

Rectal temp fetish is NOT common in society.

IT IS common on zity which is populated by weirdos and perverts.

@Moppys_jalopy knows what he is talking about.

Rectal temp fetish is NOT common in society.

IT IS common on zity which is populated by weirdos and perverts!

Hey, you're here too! Thanks for joining the ugly bug ball

Hey, you're here too! Thanks for joining the ugly bug ball

HEY, YOU!

You're no one to talk. 😎 😎 😎

I am as pure as fresh fallen snow.

HEY, YOU!

You're no one to talk. 😎 😎 😎

I am as pure as fresh fallen snow.

Why is it yellow then.....

Acid rain???

I have broached the subject with my boyfriend. He is afraid of hurting me but willing to try 😃

@Marsha Wherever that once 31 year old man is now I'll be he's still got that experience vividly imprinted in his visual memory. 16 years old????? Wow pretty bold. Legally questionable depending where and when it happened of course.