Asking partner for a rectal temperature

I want to tell my partner that I want him to take my temperature, but I'm scared he'll think it's weird.

Would any guys here specifically NOT want to take a girl's temperature, and why?

Females- how did you ask your partner to take your temperature and do you have any tips?

Thanks!

Cant really comment as I'm sure you'd understand why 😃 A lovely Ladies tail usually draws ones attention

Tell him you hate the thought of putting a germy old oral thermometer in your mouth!

According to type of relationship... you just gently say

Rtobsessed: Are you from a country where rectal temperatures are used not infrequently outside of babies? (In France, for people in my generation and previous ones, it was and still is pretty common to take one's own rectal temperature.)

If so, you just ask. You say it's more fun if the partner did it.

If not, it may need more moral preparation. Like explaining that rectal, with an electronic thermometer, is more accurate and anyway you want to combine fun and serious stuff.

Of course this assumes you have a reason why you should have your temperature taken in the first place - like feeling feverish or having a headache.

Of course this assumes you have a reason why you should have your temperature taken in the first place - like feeling feverish or having a headache.

It would be more for fetish reasons than anything else

Rtobsessed: I think it is mentally easier for the partner, at least the first times, if you have some reasonable pretext for having your temperature taken.

Just be honest. If you have a solid relationship, communication in asking for what you would like is key to keeping it happy. Explain that you have this fetish, kink or whatever you want to call it and that you'd like them to participate. If they truly love you, they may indulge you and go with it, or tell you no. Personally, if I deeply loved someone and they asked; I would definitely do what I could to make them happy, by saying no, I'm basically saying you need to look elsewhere to satisfy that craving and that would lead to things going in a direction I would not want.

Rectaltempgal: But don't you think that asking first for a case where a temperature might need to be taken for a good reason is likely to freak out the partner less? I mean, going progressive...

Let's be honest, it is what it is. If they truly love you and you have a solid relationship there should be nothing you both couldn't discuss.

From what I read Pecan I think rectaltempgal (post # 8.) has it absolutely right...& as rtobsessed states :

It would be more for fetish reasons than anything else

Better to be straightforward rather than reluctant.

Just be honest. If you have a solid relationship, communication in asking for what you would like is key to keeping it happy. Explain that you have this fetish, kink or whatever you want to call it and that you'd like them to participate. If they truly love you, they may indulge you and go with it, or tell you no. Personally, if I deeply loved someone and they asked; I would definitely do what I could to make them happy, by saying no, I'm basically saying you need to look elsewhere to satisfy that craving and that would lead to things going in a direction I would not want.

I think this is the way to go. I can't add anything to that.

Thanks for all your answers!!!

First, respectfully, some questions of you. How close are you and your partner? Are you satisfying one another physically? Are there taboos sexually between you? How open is your communication? How strong is the love between you? Is it a 50-50 relationship or are you giving more than he is? How sensitive is he to you, for example, if you're not feeling well? If you were really sick, would he do everything he could to take care of you? Your're likely overwhelmed by these questions, but consider they fit together like pieces of a puzzle -- leading to whether you feel your partner would fulfill this desire of yours. Like others have shared, having a deep love and a desire to make you happy and fulfilled physically should be a good indicator that he won't turn off to this subject. Surprised maybe, but not turned off. Maybe new territory for him. If in exploring this new venture, it becomes satisfying for both of you, what a nice addition to your relationship. All questions aside, next time you get sick or have a terrible headache or just feel really lousy with a fever, get in bed on your tummy, pull your nighty bottoms down and ask. You need his help to take your temperature. Let us know!!

I'd say we're pretty close. We communicate openly about everything and really love each other. I've brought up other fantasies and he's tried to indulge them, and he's definitely not the kind of person who expects more than he gives. The problem is that we're in a somewhat long-distance relationship, so we'd mainly be using it for phone and Skype sex etc. I know he'd do everything he could to take care of me I if I was sick, but I probably wouldn't see him when I was. I don't know, maybe next time I'm sick (which is pretty infrequent) I can tell him my temperature and casually say it was rectal, but that may make him thing that it's more medical than erotic.

I can't imagine any guy not enjoying taking a women's temp rectally... I am sure there are some that would not think to do it but once the idea was presented well.... only a few that well I would consider a bit strange would not be very happy to insert the thermometer into that tight little hole.

My ex husband only one time offered to take mine there. I was sick, he was taking my temp in my mouth. I opened up my mouth to breathe a bit (my nose was stuffy) and he yelled at me (he always yelled at me) that if I did it again he would take it rectally. I was mortified as we had only been married a little while. I always wished that I would have let him.

A few years ago, i was sick, my friend would sex but not me.

i was in in our bed and he began to play with my butt, than he took the thermometer and play with it in my butthole.

i was shocked and he aroused, than he rubs his penis betwin my buttchecks and ...

a few days later we want both sex, our sex was across the years good but a little bit boring he said he want to play again with the thermometer. it was great and i was in a few secons wet. than we look also to other tings, diaper, enema..., we saw on the net that many other people make the same and we try many new things. now our sex is varied and better.

when you are sick next time, try it.

You might be right about weird but so is everyone, go for what you need, it will only bring you closer!

I think every men would like to do that 😃

My wife refuses to do anything involving rectal temps. I would be ecstatic to have a woman ask me to take her temp rectally. I see sexy women at work every day, and only in my wildest dreams, can I ever imagine that happening ! Maybe in the next life....

I can't believe any guy wouldn't jump at the chance to take his partner's temperature rectally. What a wonderful, intimate, hot experience for two people who like or love one another.

When I was 16 I was having an "affair" with an older man of 31. It started when I was babysitting his son after his wife left him. I was at his house one afternoon and said I didn't feel well and did he have a thermometer? He left his bedroom and came back with a thermometer and jar of Vaseline and said the only one I have is the one my ex wife used on my son do you mind? I said No and dropped my jeans and lay face down on his bed. He lubed it with Vaseline and spread my cheeks and slid it into my behind. I became quite aroused by it. He took it out and said it was normal. That was the end of it and it never happened again. I guess that's where my love of rectal temperatures started. It's the only way I take it to this day.

Are you able to share other sexual requests? I would think, if you had good communication in the relationship, you could just come right out and tell him what you want. If my partner asked me to take her temperature rectally, even if I thought it was weird, I'd still give it a try because I love her. At the very least, it could start a good conversation about sexual desires.

I would gladly take any girl's rectal temperature and let her take mine. It is a wonderfully intimate, erotic act and is very pleasurable. I wouldn't think she is weird. I would think she has normal fantasies like I do and would welcome that trust and sharing.

Well you have two choices the way I see it. One, you can ask and see, and two, you don't ask and you'll never know !! From the first choice if your partner says yuck or why, then all I would say is don't knock it until you've tried it !!

I know I would like to be asked for that assistance...............

I've never asked a partner to take MY rectal temp before. I did, however, have fun convincing a former girlfriend to allow me to take hers. She was 20 at the time, never remembered having it done that way as a child. Needless to say, I had her hooked after the first one. I never took her temp any other way whenever she asked me too. And even after we parted ways of being a couple, she would call me up on occasion to ask me to take her temperature. Fun times!

It hasn't happened yet, but when it does I'll be only too willing to oblige, if I can only find the thermometer.

If you're in a relationship, and your partner balks with disgust at the idea of rectal temps., and you enjoy them, then you have to decide if that would be a deal-breaker, or acceptable.

Personally, if you have a boring and inhibited partner, things will likely only get worse with time. I don't doubt that many women are anal-erotic, which would include rectal temp. pleasures, but you won't know that unless you ask, or try different things with them. I would like to have such opportunities available, but as you get older, you're happy to just have someone to talk to at night.