My experience with the womanizer is on both ends of the spectrum. On one hand, around setting 3 or 4, I could orgasm in under a minute. I literally kept it in my closet where I could grab it and knock one out, standing up, holding on to the closet rod before getting dressed, or mid day if I was feeling uncharacteristically horny and the husband was out of town. Once it was in the right spot, there’s no having to move it around, no rubbing, I’d just hold it there and it pulled the orgasms out of my body. I’m not normally one to come that fast! On the Other hand, at setting 1 or 2, I could lay back in bed and edge with it for an achingly long time. Set on the lower settings and nudged off my clit, to the side a bit, it was a barely perceptible whisper.
I know a lot of complaints about it are that it’s not a very strong vibrator, and a lot of people say they needed more intensity to get off. I found that was exactly the reason it worked so well for edging because it’s not really a vibrator. The light suction is a different sensation and depending on your mindset, you can either ride it to a quick high, or dance around it for a while.
I ended up gifting mine to a friend because I got a similar unit from a different company that is water resistant and can go in the bathtub. This one has a much stronger suction and vibration so it’s not quite the same and while it’s great for a quickly, it’s terrible for a long, slow relaxing evening. I miss some of the womanizers features like being able to turn it down without having to turn it off first, or click through all the higher settings, and the stop button dropping it to level 1 first before shutting off so you can cool down a bit before stopping.
I’d expect, even with a ‘hair trigger clit’ Pam might enjoy the name brand womanizer on its lower settings. Or you can test her out and see how many times she can come in a minute with the higher settings! I never found it to be overly stimulating, not it a “get that off me” way that a real vibrator can be when you’re already feeling sensitive.
Good luck, let us know what you end up buying!