Does anal sex hurt?

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Mashie

Never just lots of lube.try a softish dildo or small one

Here's the experiance i have garnered from having received it at an early age.

1.) Clean yourself out first: use a very strong coffee enema or two first. A coffee enema gives me a buzz and total body relaxation. Plus it will clean you out.

2.) have the other person give you a nice full body, hot oil massage.

3.) lay down on your back have the person who will be penetrating you finger your g-spot while sucking on your clit. This way you are pleasured first. Adding more relaxation and pleasure.

4.) when ready, still laying on your back, the other person should start massaging lube into your backside. Starting with 1 finger, then after a minute or so, add a second finger, then after a few minutes add a third. Once you tell them you are ready,

5.) they should slowly insert it ( penis, vibrator, dildo, strap-on) into you. Have them stop once they are in in case there is discomfort. Which stopping for a few minutes will help alleviate.

6.) take it slowly. Allow yourself to enjoy the fun.

7.) afterwards, take another enema to clean out his cum, or if it was from a vibrator, dildo, or strap-on, take another enema just because.

8.) return the favor and do the same to your partner.

Here's the experiance i have garnered from having received it at an early age.

1.) Clean yourself out first: use a very strong coffee enema or two first. A coffee enema gives me a buzz and total body relaxation. Plus it will clean you out.

2.) have the other person give you a nice full body, hot oil massage.

3.) lay down on your back have the person who will be penetrating you finger your g-spot while sucking on your clit. This way you are pleasured first. Adding more relaxation and pleasure.

4.) when ready, still laying on your back, the other person should start massaging lube into your backside. Starting with 1 finger, then after a minute or so, add a second finger, then after a few minutes add a third. Once you tell them you are ready,

5.) they should slowly insert it ( penis, vibrator, dildo, strap-on) into you. Have them stop once they are in in case there is discomfort. Which stopping for a few minutes will help alleviate.

6.) take it slowly. Allow yourself to enjoy the fun.

7.) afterwards, take another enema to clean out his cum, or if it was from a vibrator, dildo, or strap-on, take another enema just because.

8.) return the favor and do the same to your partner.

@enemamegood I know you say all that is what works for you but I think your steps 1, 2 and 3 really do not have a lot to do with anal sex feeling good. Anal sex is nice when it just happens but I think your advice is really for somebody who would just plan it hours in advance.

Anal sex is not about enemas. Yeah I know it must be for you and maybe some other people as well, but I think most people will just have anal sex without doing all this enema stuff too. I do not do enemas and I am not interested in them. My husband isn't either. I love anal sex with him though and we do not need enemas for that.

Yeah we use lube like in your step 4 but we do not need to make a big performance of it.

Your steps 5 and 6 are ok. My husband is gentle when he does me back there. It feels really nice and there is no pain.

I love my husband's semen in me so why would I want to wash it out with your step 7?

Trying to go too big too fast,yes it will hurt,,,lube up relax alot and enjoy.

If done right.. lots of lube and go slow the first time... It is incredible.

You can work up to the harder pounding and bigger sizes.

I go periods. Sometimes I like it, and other times I do not like. Before you make an enema so flows better ...

Anal sex can feel REALLY REALLY good if done right, especially if the guy goes really slow and uses lots of lube

I love anal sex and Doc knows exactly what he is doing in that department, trust me there. Sometimes I beg him to fuck my ass, with all due respect. He just smiles and if I had to put words to that smile I would guess he would be saying, "you don't have to ask me twice sweetheart". Just a guess though, lol.

Mashie

Never had it hurt; never had it enough when I could freely have it.

The first two times it hurt bad. Just the guy getting it in a little hurt. That was all of that for me. Both times I got out from under and was crying. I swore never again would I let anyone touch me there again. Then when I started dating other girls and met one who was really into anal I found out that it could feel really good. If the person goes really slow, lots of lube and maybe even start out with small things like a thermometer progressing to a finger etc.

No its as pleasurable or more than regular sex.

If you are not used to doing it then Just start with a dildo and tons of lube and then a finger or two and then take it slowly with tons more lube.

And don't let anyone tell you that you can't have an orgasm from anal sex.

There is a fact, the more often I do it ,the less it hurts

If it doesn't hurt, it's not fun!

More seriously though, a bit of pain is to be expected for beginners, more experienced players enjoy a bit of pain as it shows progress!

It can if you're not lubricated enough. But if like others have mentioned on here, you take your time and do it slow, using fingers, toys and eventually a penis, it will feel good!

You're missing out if you don't try it. The feeling of whatever you are using going in and coming out is what feels amazing. It's not so much the thrusting once inside. It's the crossing of the opening in and out that does it for me.

@Honeypot is right. It is the entering and leaving that's pleasurable. I love anything anal. It doesn't hurt and feels quite nice😃

Usually after an enema I find it to be the easiest, relaxed , slippery, clean. BNest trick I have found is to try to bear down as my partner is entering

No, not if you go about it easily. Start small, lots of lube and go at it easily. It should never hurt unless it's being done wrong, going too big, or if you have an anal health issue. Start with just a well lubed finger. I use KY. Also, pretend you are pooping, it opens up your butt for a dildo and also if you are getting screwed, and it feels really really good!

Just had some discomfort when wife pushed (at my request) the head of one of those large vibrating wands that women use on their clits. She left it in me while she came all over the bed. I was definitely happy that that she slowly worked it out of my ass.

It depends.

There are times when her finger feels huge and I'm sore after. Other times it might be a strapon and she's pounding my hole and it feels exquisite, no pain, all pleasure.

It was the same with a former gf. I would fuck her bottom so hard and she begged for me to fuck her harder, but other times I would push just my finger and she'd ask me to stop bc it's uncomfortable.

Not if it's done right, and that means lots of lube.

Lots of foreplay and lube will help. The night I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend, he fucked my pussy for a few minutes. It was fine. But I wanted it in my ass, which would also be my first time. He knew what he was doing - lots of lube. He fingered my ass slowly and lovingly for a long time before he put his dick in me. It was so hot and felt amazing. He loved to fuck my ass and it was a huge fetish thing for him. I spent a lot of time getting ass fucked by him.

Like most other people say on here. Lots of lube is a must, and take your time, gentle fingers first before lots of hard thrusts. !! But I can't stress enough how important lots of lube is.

Yes. It hurts. The question is will it be the good kind or the bad? Lube, foreplay, going slow etc will help it be the former vs the latter. There is at least some pain involved but if you’re doing it right it’s generally not bad and stops. If it’s really bad and doesn’t subside then stop cause something is wrong.

It's going to feel uncomfortable and very different if you have never experienced it. The best advise I have is the same one everyone else is giving. Use plenty of lube and make sure your partner does the same. Start gentle and slow and if you are enjoying it then increase the intensity.

Does it hurt?? Absolutely! No matter how much lube you use it still hurts.

The real question here is it worth the pain? The girl I've fucked anally say it does!

This is a topic that seems to have a lot of mixed responses. But then you read the pegging and fisting sections and for the most part, the answers are the same. If you have ever used at least a medium size dildo, that is well lubed, placed into a well lubed bottom, several times, then you know how to take that dildo without having it cause pain. It's a matter of relaxing upon entry. The same goes for anal sex. My answer to your question is yes, if you dont know what you are doing. No, if you do.

Should not hurt if done properly! First time was in preteen years with a friend from school - we used lots of Vaseline both on our holes and dicks with no pain whatsoever! Always helps if you are totally relaxed and know what to expect! Have been hooked on anal play ever since and have inserted lots of things over the years!