Women who PREFER anal sex

@BigJane You made me chuckle a bit there with the "sisters secret", I learned early on in my journey down the road of BDSM, if you want to know how to do a woman, learn from woman, and I learned alot from those lesbian sisters.

This is from a woman on Tumblr named jessicaobeys.

"Well, I can’t speak for those some or most men however maybe you could apply Newton’s 3rd law to the following:

I am interested in it because of how submissive it makes me feel.

No one is allowed to see your bum because #politesociety except for your waxer or doctor. So having anyone else even look at your most private hole (much less touch/use/penetrate/stretch it) is a big thing. They are literally invading parts of you that you don’t even look at on a regular basis (unless you hold a mirror there all the time).

Also, aside from when going poopy, your tiny bumhole isn’t meant to open in that manner. Having to submit your bottomhole to penetration and stretching to something large and invasive is so UNF to me I’m not even sure how to explain it. Being fucked in the bottom to me is probably the most submissive act ever. Having to accept the discomfort. Having to endure the discomfort. Being a good girl despite it.

To have your soft, warm, squishy, tight bottomhole penetrated to please someone. Being pliable to their demands. Accepting their control.

And in the same vein: Accepting and retaining butt plugs/cucumbers/enemas/soapsticks. Same idea plus more - adding discomfort on top of penetration. Training, discipline, punishment and reward to meet someone else’s standards.

That probably wasn’t very cohesive but that’s the best I can do at this moment because…

Excuse me while I go deal with my leaky kitty."

In summary: different pokes for different folks.

I had girlfriend years ago before I was married. She absolutely loved anal sex. When I went to her place that she shared with her father, we would wait until he went to bed and then she would start playing with my cock progressing to going down on me, she loved to have my cock in her mouth. when she was ready she would lie along the couch and pull me behind her and reach back to grab my cock and always guided it into her arse. She was very controlling, but I didn't mind because I love anal and have never met anyone who wanted it as much as she did. She always came from having me up her arse and sometimes would come again when I unloaded myself inside her. good times

If a woman likes anal sex, the BIG plus is that there is no chance of pregnancy. That has to be a huge fear on woman’s minds.

If a woman likes anal sex, the BIG plus is that there is no chance of pregnancy. That has to be a huge fear on woman’s minds.

And a big weight off the fellas mind.

I was seeing a married woman years ago who seemed to prefer anal over vaginal sex. It may have also been that she didn't want to risk pregnancy, as she had two young girls already. I never asked her why, but whenever I would try to initiate piv sex she would always turn on her side so that my erection was poking her butt. I would tell her I was going to put it in her butt if she didn't turn around, but she never did. The first time I assumed she would change her mind as soon as she felt me knocking at her back door. As I slowly eased my cock into her ass she pushed back against me. Never said anything, but I could tell by her moans she definitely was enjoying it. I wouldn't say she had earthshattering orgasms, but there certainly was a lot of shuddering and clenching on my cock when she came. I certainly wasn't going to complain.

I was seeing a married woman years ago who seemed to prefer anal over vaginal sex. I would try to initiate piv sex she would always turn on her side so that my erection was poking her butt. I would tell her I was going to put it in her butt if she didn't turn around, but she never did.

It's also possible she didn't want your secretions inside of her in case she had to do it all over again when she got home.

To be honest, when I see an attractive woman, I scope her ass, and am imagining being up there, slowly pumping her well-lubed behind. Anal is hot and tight. Vaginal sex is fine, but it's predictable and ordinary. It's for those who would drive the posted speed limit, in a sports car. For the adventurous, Anal is the gourmet, “Cherries Jubilee,” of the sex world.

In the uk in the 1970s my understanding was that people did anal as a contraceptive measure and as such I did not have any interest in it. Whilst not totally in the open it was discussed with mates but everyone I knew saw it as second best.

move on to the 2000. Totally taboo open discussion but it is all over and I enjoyed the giving side.

There will be someone out there that likes it 100% but I recon it is a needle in a haystack exercise to try to find her.

Now if it were a guy, may be a different story.

For me that's a rather normal thing.

I also “met” the right person, and… But I also did it “live”, for years and I love it. Though, I love everything, but anal is No. 1. I might love to touch my clit sometimes , just for a second, but generally I'm an anal slut. And yes, I will keep using “swear/offensive” words related to myself. I'm in such mood.

The most vulnerable place. But first I must be naked. And to supply my rectum a which has to now relax, open and allow the dildo to enter with such force to go in but as the anus accepts it and enters the rectum spreading the sphincter I go …ahhhhh. My body goes into a vulnerable state. Letting go of everything. What a state. Now to slide the dildo all in up inside deep in my body. Then back out. It’s unbelievable how slippery my dildo gets. So it’s easy to to pull it in and out now. Must be I’m coming from my anus. If that’s possible. How I love ❤️ doing this. Anal play and masterbating with a dildo such a site I’m sure but such a pleasure that I enjoy. And get great vulnerable release, relaxing calm.

Try it. See if it helps you. The rhythm once you get going is a rush. Keep masterbating and make sounds of moaning grunting out loud also helps a lot. Get louder and louder. YES YES.

It's also possible she didn't want your secretions inside of her in case she had to do it all over again when she got home.

She was home @Moppys_jalopy . Her husband was away.

Now that would be something to watch @Takeitin . You paint a lovely picture.

@LordJim2 its because I was in the process of doing it while text to speech. It was true as you read it. Thank you.

There's quite a few articles in Mainstream Media *Women's Health, Men's Health, Cosmos, Medical Journals, etc) related to the topic of “Why anal sex”. From Women's Health: "….. there is a “type” more likely to have anal sex. Women in their twenties who had no religious affiliation and higher levels of income and education were the most likely to try anal, the study found.” So for those who are looking - here's your target candidate set! It's becoming more mainstream and less taboo: “TV shows like The Mindy Project and Girls featuring anal play in primetime.” Somewhere it said 37% of women and 42% of men have tried in during their lifetime (didn't see any stats on what percentage enjoy it regularly).

My wife really - I mean REALLY - enjoyed anal sex as well as toys, fingers, tongue etc. There never seemed to be a problem with pain during insertion, we never used condoms, never really “prepped” for it other than keeping clean, and we very-very-very seldom had any fecal issues. No biggy when we did. We started anal play early in our relationship - and within a couple of months of first becoming intimate we started anal intercourse. She/we were both hooked. It wasn't a submissive act for her or a dominant act for me- in fact she was sometimes the aggressor, demanding it, getting on top etc. I think it was a combination of the increased sensation and added intimacy. We almost always incorporated some sort of anal play and/or anal sex in our lovemaking.

@anne4joy, I remember somebody said “orgasms lead to anal”. That seems to be just about right.

@Rigel, Makes sense. A lot of people are put off of anal because of religion; people who are more educated tend to be more open-minded.

Even when I tighten my anus, I ram my hot glass butt plug and it nullifies it and spreads it as it gets it. My spincter is Soo loose it let's it ram it. Feels Soo good up there

@Rigel, Makes sense. A lot of people are put off of anal because of religion; people who are more educated tend to be more open-minded.

Agree. Religion inhibits a lot of people from pleasure. Religion tends to admonish pleasure as a sin. I prefer to be a sinner! 😈

My wife is very anal but prefers smaller objects such as a finger slowly moving in and out of her behind as well as smaller dildos and while in the heat of being fucked will sometimes say i need something in my ass so I put a small chrome butt plug in and continue pounding away. On occasion she will say I want you in my ass so we give it a try but only on a few occasions have I ever came in her behind. on one occasion she was riding me pretty hard and it slipped out of her and right int to her behind and it went in with little resistance and she said it’s in my ass and it feels and she kept on riding with my cock in her ass until she came hard

My wife loved Anal Sex. She even liked Anal, while she was holding in an Enema, yes it felt great for both of us.

As a guy who loves everything anal myself, anal sex with my partners is the bomb! In the past I've dated several women who (eventually) preferred anal but all were reluctant to admit that or even experiment at first. The sensations are sublime, can be intensely stimulating (for the man definitely) and offer a closeness that has to come with trust that straight-up vag sex does not create. The orgasms I've participated in are amazing and once the trust is there, my experience has shown that they do nothing but intensify with practice. The physiology of anal intercourse is just different…

In all the years of my adult life, I have never met a women who “ prefers” anal. I new a few who would go for a finger and only one who wanted penetration. But, the rest of the women I knew, to include two wives, wanted no part of it.

When I was in my 20s, most of the women whom I had sex with as a top male had never had anal sex. I became excited the first time that I met a 22 year old very attractive woman with 36 C breasts and a virgin anus who was willing to experience anal sex for the first time. When we were both nude and she was on a bed on her hands and knees with her bottom up in the air, I shaved her plump round bottom and anus. I massaged her anus with lubricant until she was moaning, used one and more fingers to stretch open her anus, and then used a butt plug to stretch her anus wider. After removing the butt plug and putting more lubricant into her anus, I slowly penetrated her anus with a condom covered cock. She appeared to enjoy the anal sensations when I took her for a slow and long ride on my cock. My impression over the years was that too many men are inexperienced in engaging in anal sex with women due to a “slam bam thank you maam” selfish mentality and lack of skills in anal massage and anal stretching which help reduce pain during anal penetration.

Out of all the ladies I dated in my life there was only 1 that absolutely would not try it. For most of the others I was there first. Some could take it or leave it but did it mostly because I liked it. A few would ask for it once in a while, but there was this one that finally let me do it with much reluctance and ended up falling in love with it, she wanted anal every time we had sex along with vaginal. ( V first and end with A)

To SwitchableSussie; These nimrods also believe that the devil in miss jones, her clit was in her throat, Yes anal sex can be exciting and pleasurable and some women that I have known have had anal orgasms, The anus has a tremendous amount of sensory nerves which can contribute to having an orgasm, but I have known several that really enjoyed it and had great orgasms, but I've never known a woman who preferred that to real intercourse. One of the reasons we are all here (on Zity) is because we are all anally erotic (we get turned on when someone plays with our rectum or fills your colon with hot soapsuds or uses a dildo and for a man he likes getting pegged, but come on we all enjoy intercourse and that's the way we were made. Be it man or woman be it rough sex or passionate love making That Pussy is where I want to be.

@rigid58 Disagree that for everyone vaginal sex is the fallback. Some women (and men) may actually prefer masturbation (solo or with a partner), oral, and yes even anal over PIV. It may be the pleasure comes from it being “taboo”, more sensitivity, or that vaginal sex for some is uncomfortable and anal or other stimulation is more satisfying.

https://myvagina.com/aunt-vadge-are-there-women-who-dont-like-vaginal-sex/

@Rigel Some women (and men) may actually prefer masturbation (solo or with a partner)

Yes, spot on, agree with what you wrote. For me, when it comes to sex with women it's been like there are two kinds of sexual pleasure. Primary has always been looking pictures etc. of different women while masturbating. Secondary has been actually having sex with as women.

@rigid58 Disagree that for everyone vaginal sex is the fallback. Some women (and men) may actually prefer masturbation (solo or with a partner),

I have to agree with this. I've always preferred, or liked, manual stimulation from a partner more than actual classic PIV activity. It's all good of course, but the PIV activity is so culturally the expected way to go that the non-conformist in me instinctively goes for other kinds of sex play.

How about preference due to anal not leading to pregnancy (contraception) and not breaking the hymen (virginity conservation)? Both are important in societies where unmarried women are supposed not to have sex.