MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

Since my wife went thru menopause and is no longer interested in sex,I masturbate at least once a day.

Ok i can see that point , only thing is once a man cums he's good , he's not horny any more and if you get used to masturbating , you probably will take away from fucking your spouse or not be so into it since once a man ejaculates he is good to go even if he doesn't get any for a while

Oh, gee, I'm so very sorry.

I totally forgot about men's very limited orgasmic abilities, especially beyond their third or fourth decade. NOT. 😁 😁 😁

Men really don't know what it is to want a lot of sex until they meet a woman who wants a lot of sex.

Most men cannot not keep up with those women.

Men really don't know what it is to want a lot of sex until they meet a woman who wants a lot of sex.

Wish I had that problem 😃 cause I know a man that wants a lot of sex - would be a good match 😃

When I was younger I would do it but if you are MARRIED , why would you masturbate , what's the point ?

In my case, I grew up looking at and masturbating allot to pictures of women in swimsuits, girdles, and more... as well as images I kept in my noggin of women seen on the beach, etc... So when I married (we were both 20) I naively thought real sex would end my need to look at other women and pictures... But, I soon came to realize that the pleasures of sex with wife and pleasures of masturbating to pictures and other women were not the same, and I needed both.

In my case, I grew up looking at and masturbating allot to pictures of women in swimsuits, girdles, and more... as well as images I kept in my noggin of women seen on the beach, etc... So when I married (we were both 20) I naively thought real sex would end my need to look at other women and pictures... But, I soon came to realize that the pleasures of sex with wife and pleasures of masturbating to pictures and other women were not the same, and I needed both.

You masturbate cause you imagine and think of other women besides your wife to satisfy your sexual desires , you have that need of extramarital imagination affairs

You masturbate cause you imagine and think of other women besides your wife to satisfy your sexual desires , you have that need of extramarital imagination affairs

Some might think this, but not so in my case -- I have a panty and girdle fetish, along with old style 1950's swimsuits. What excites me is seeing the way the crotch of these garments cover and hide the female crotch. I have no desire to have sex or an affair with another; it's just that looking at these images makes masturbation feel better...

Every day of the week

So many of the responses here are curious to me. When I married I hoped that my sexual needs would be met in the marital bed with my wife. Unfortunately, our sex drives and desires were vastly different. She was happy with sex a couple of times a month. So masturbation became the only way to satisfy my need. And to someone who said that once a man cums he is no longer horny, I say not so. I stay horny most of the time no matter if I have cum or not. So everyone is different and solo masturbation has little to do with being married

4 or 5 times per week

Usually in the shower just because it's an easy clean up. And a handful of conditioner is my go-to lube.

My prostate should be twice ok than.......LOL

For me usually 3 to 4 times a month , and I mostly do it in the bedroom when a release is needed .

I masturbate once a day. Just before I go to bed in my bed. I read some zity stories to get erect and then do it. I very rarely miss a day.

Not married, but still do it at least once a day. 😉

I masturbate usually once a week now. I used to masturbate two to three times a week, now I am older once a week is usual. Now and then I get twice a week in. Usually in the bathroom. If my wife walks in, that is life. She doesn't want to screw anymore so if she doesn't like it, so what.

Daily, sometimes twice.

I masturbate 2 to 3 times a week, depending on how I feel.

I use to a lot . I would watch porn , or thing about my wife with her many boyfriends back then , and walk it off. She caught ne a few times. That was when chastity was introduced . The first was the cb 3000. That worked well but wasn't a good fit. Looked like I had a hard on under my clothes. She then went with the cb 3000 " the curve " . That was hidden pretty good . Next problem was , since I'm so small , I was able to get a hard on inside of it , but just couldn't touch it . Well along came the cb6000s with is made for small guys. Now locked in , can not get a hard on, can not touch it .

Now my wife is in full control. She is the one who can let me jerk off or not let me jerk off. She is fair and will let me jerk off every time she has a orgasum whether with her boyfriend or her dildo....toni

I would approximate 4-5 times per week. Most days but sometimes it gets busy!

Usually daily..

Usually to old Victoria’ Secret Catalogues (I have a collection from 1995 to when they discontinued it in 2016), sports illustrated swim (collection from 1999 on and more recently just their web site). I also enjoy literotica stories, Stories on here, topless model pics online - especially VS or SI models) and sometimes porn videos.

Used to be daily, then it slowly went down to once a week or none.

But after starting to one on one chat with some Zity friends (male and female) it's starting cumming back up to daily.

Love my internet masterbation partys

Frank

Every few days, especially when i am get distracted on the computer and watch some porn.

I have mixed feeling about masturbating such that my spouse is aware of what I'm doing. On the one hand I like privacy even though she does not have a problem with me doing it; on the other hand I get a strange kind of pleasure knowing she's seeing me masturbate to another woman..

When she wants me to .. cum on her chest, or back!

Usually 2-4 times a week. When my wife is not home I like to masturbate in bed, watching porns and slowly edging. She works days so this is a perfect arrangement. If I can find someone to chat online (or even phone) with - male or female - that is the best. She is in bed now, sleeping, but I awake (almost midnight). I am in the family room, playing with myself right now. (Hoping to chat with someone from here about exams etc...) I also have a buddy that we masturbate together at his house, he will even perform oral on me

It varies for me. Sometimes once or twice per day. On average, though, probably 3-4 times per week.

Usually 5 days a week. I work in a private office and work up a load before I head home. On the rare occassion I'm home alone, I like to lay on my bed naked and use my wife's vibrator to stimulate my anus.

At the risk of getting into technicalities, the question did not say if masturbation lead to “happy ending”.

I masturbate several times a day while logged in to zity, shower, bed and anywhere my cock is available to play with. The happy ending is usualy 4 to 5 times a week almost always in bed where I can focus on my fantasy.

It depends on how much sex we've had that week but can be 3-10 times a week and I do it everywhere, probably mainly in the bedroom or shower

I am married to the same female for over 52 years. As for masturbating, I find myself doing it more and more these days as it is very rare that she will allow me to have sex with her anymore. She is just not interested in it anymore.

When I do masturbate it is when she is out somewhere and I am at home alone. I often lay on the bed nude and rub against the mattress. Or, I may get in the shower and masturbate there. When I have cum and I am fully drained, I will take a shower and wash my entire body paying particular attention to my balls.

After our second son was born, we were told, because my wife has RH negative blood, that any more children would run the risk of being born abnormal in some way or have to have their blood totally changed or several other major problems that could happen. That was before the pill and other forms of birth control so the only way to be sure was not to have sex. Condoms were guaranteed. We tried anal and I loved it but it was never pain free for wife so we didn't continue. We were left with masturbation and oral sex. We got into the cross masturbation and found it to be a pleasant way around our problem. Then later I was able to get a Vasectomy and it was so wonderful to be able to have sexual intercourse again. However, we found that we often had cross masturbation because we had learned to enjoy it very much. Then menopause hit and it became painful for her and we again were left with cross masturbation. Soon I was masturbating alone more and more and she eventually lost all interest. Now I masturbate often. Every morning in the shower and in the evenings when I'm watching porn or on this site and a few others. I jack off all the time but don't always have orgasms from it. I love the pleasure of hand on dick and the good feelings I get from it. When I feel an orgasm coming, it is extra exciting and I enjoy it all the more because I've been building up to it for several days. We older men do what we have to do to enjoy sex and the relief it gives from the urges that have never stopped. I'll soon be eighty-seven and the sexual urges have never stopped. Masturbation is the only way I can relieve them. [Or the rare times I have oral or anal sex.]