How and why do you get spanked?

I honestly wish I knew why I like being spanked. As a child I loathed being spanked, but suddenly when I became sexually aware I wanted to be spanked and enjoy spanking men. Is it perhaps watching siblings being spanked?

Was it because sometimes getting bare butt spankings as a child aroused sexual feelings which I never realised as a child? Or is it just physical?

The warm sexy feeling that a smack on my bare ass smack arouses me the same was as hands on my breasts arouses me? But of course without spanking my sex life would be dull I think.

So perhaps I should not question why?

I get spanked almost every week as part of foreplay..

My husband does it normally with a hand on my bare butt.

Punishment spankings are delicious in many ways but not frequent. At times I punished very hard with a wooden hairbrish or strap.

While I am the spanker in my household I get spanked once a month. We've evolved to me over the wedge and her using a heavy lucite paddle. These continue to very red and very sore, with the spanking not really starting until I wish it was over.

I get spanked just because I love it!

I fantasise frequently about getting spanked. I've only actually been spanked three times as an adult. I wish I could find a young woman who would give me regular spankings, just to keep my bottom red, to make sure I wouldn't dare take my pants own for any other girl. It would be so embarrassing to admit to a girl I fancied, that I had been recently spanked across another woman's knee.

Getting spanked by my wife is a big stress reliever for me. And as I mentioned, she also allows me to visit a pro domme twice a year.

I usually get spanked for being rude to barn customers, not doing all of my chores, procrastinating, bad language, and not being dressed neatly when I have to give a riding lesson to some lady's brat kids. I think I'm a better husband and man because my wife spanks me.

I have been spanked by a friend for behavior issues that she believed deserved a sound spanking. She always spanked me otk, face down and bare bottom up starting with her hand and moving to her hairbrush and paddle. I spanked her the same way when her behavior merited a spanking.

I'm usually spanked for being badly behaved. My wife usually first drags me into the room , undresses me and then places me over her knee and gives me 10 smacks on the behind

I get my naked butt paddled by my wife for what a reasonable person would call seriously bad behavior like drinking or stuff when out with my guy friends---She puts up with a whole lot before she has to vent her frustration by paddling me--I got it coming so we both agree--- We both seem to know at the same tiem when a bare paddling has to settle things---I take my clothes off and bend over the bathub and put my hands flat on the bottom of the tub and she paddles me and it hurts alot----then things are great I do not seem to need it for at least 6 months---- One rule: no one knows except the two of us ever. Since its just my wife and I no shame or humiliation involved just a damn sore butt and one very sorry guy

I've begged my husband to spank me if he is ever upset with me but it has never happened... but a week ago I left my towel on the shower bench and he came into the closest and sanpped me twice pretty hard with my wet towel, I have not left it in there again.

It was doing wrong as a child and learning not to do whatever you did again.