How and why do you get spanked?

I and my girlfriend enjoy engaging in light spanking and bondage. She will usually make a bet she will lose. The payment is a spanking. She has to lower her pants and panties down to her knees and then bend over my lap. The length of spanking has been determined in the bet. I will watch the clock and spank her for the given length of time. My leg is between her legs to lock her into position. The spanking then begins and the swat become harder and harder. At the end, she will stand in the corner while I prepare a diaper and rubber pants for her. She will then wear them for about two to three hours.

Sensual

My wife and I do that sort of thing all the time. We light spanking yatzee. The difference in points between the two is the amount of spankings the loser is to recieve. They arent hard hard spanks but with a diaper on its hard enough to be felt. We make spanking games out of a lot of things.

We use Scrabble, which we've played regularly for over thirty years. The loser takes his or her pants down and goes over the lap of the other for a hand-spanking, but if you get "skunked" - beaten by more than fifty points - the loser gets a naked spanking with a paddle or a switch. Scrabble is a frequent prelude to sex, as are the consequences for losing.

OOOOOOh..I love that idea! I enjoyed "Porno Scrabble" where you can only make naughty words..This sounds like more fun! 😜

So much depends on the mood of the moment. Usually a prolonged spanking with a light paddle will satisfy my 'needs'. On certain occasions, however, I crave the sensations imparted by a light switch. I agree that I would not like to receive the sorts of punishment that I received at home ( a lot of bare bottom strappings). The thought of receiving a 'proper caning' is somewhat arousing, but I don't think I'm quite ready to go there yet.

Wonderful! I love it! I love games, and spanking is a great prize for winning/losing.

My wife and I practice light spanking as a sexual turn on. I use bare hand on bare bottom. The humiliation is the big turn on for her. When I am punished it is usually with an appropriate branch from the birch tree out back and six or seven medium strokes usually does the trick. We insist on the spankee being nude and have often chatted about involving a third party into the games. Have to find a friend who would participate.

Marwood

I like playful spanking as a lead up to some hot sex, nothing that causes too much pain more to do with the anticipation of being a good girl and submissive... although during sex I have been spanked a lot harder and have to say it turned me on even more knowing I had to behave

Up until a year or so ago, my hubby and I were not into spanking, but now, like Liss, appreciated the opportunity for light, teasing spankings to arouse other stimulations. Everything is always kept on a positive note ... asssuring there will be more pleasure than pain. For some, whose GF might be a bit prudish (as you say), the opportunity might be a birthday spanking, not too hard, just to see how things progress. It can't be any worse than you've got it now, right? And if she leaves, no loss, unless her other qualities are so so very very very good.

While I am not an expert but have some experience I have divided the spankings I give my wife into four

categories. Are there others?

Fun - the playful spanking as when she is in the kitchen and I swat her jean covered fanny or maybe in the

grocery store. As in foreplay or maybe during the act itself which she really loves.

Preventive - a quick spanking over her panties prior to leaving the house as a reminder to behave or even prior to guests

visiting

Maintainance - we have a weekly review of her week. If she has behaved then I will still spank her bare bottomed to remind her to behave next week.

Punishment - either on the spot panties down skirt raised or a full fledged punishment session with a spanking outfit, corner time maybe a punishment enema and possiblely some age regression with diapers

Many years ago my wife said to me, " Get the brush, I am going to spank you".

When I started to whine & stated " I have been good".

She stated yes you have but " I am going to spank you because I want to and because I can!".

I submissivley got the brush for her!

L

Such a good boy! I love to give those spur of the moment for no reason spankings. It helps our lil ones remember who's in charge.

Yes, i do need to be reminded of who is in charge !

My wife also knows when i am about to have a temper tantrum, even befoe i do, & spanks me before i have one.

Did she use a good brush on your butt. My wife also besides having a hair brush she also has wooden spoon and if she is wearing jeans, she many times has a belt and uses it. OOOOO

Spur of the moment spankings are painful, embarrassing, and sometimes fun. Because you never know when they are going to happen and if you whine and complain that makes it worse cause then she has a good reason to spank. Mine just points to her lap and I pull my pants and undies down and go over her lap. Its all up to her what color my tush becomes.

My older stepsister picked up where my stepmom left off when she died ...my stepsister became the "matriarch" of the household then (she was 29, I was 19) and about a month after the funeral she ordered me into the living room and told me that since she was now head of the house I would do as I was told if I wanted to keep living there "free" ....I told her I did want to keep living there, of course (I had nowhere else to go) ...and so she said "OK ...then pull down your pants and lay over my lap for your spanking!"

I asked "But why? What did I do wrong?" ....I remember this conversation word-for-word like it was yesterday! .... and she said "Because I said so, and if you want to keep living here, you'll do as I say!" Of course she knew that my stepmom (her real mother) had been giving me spankings pretty regularly, which I had accepted as "normal" . She I just lowered my pants and laid over her lap and she gave me 10 hard slaps on my bottom, and then yanked my panties down and gave me another 20 on my bare bottom.

She made it clear from then on that she was in charge and I was subservient to her, and I did as I was told from them on.

margo

The other night my wife told me to turn over & sleep on my stomach, to keep me from snoring. A few minutes later I was asleep. The next I knew by behind was on fire, she started spanking me with the bath brush, that I must always keep near!

Some of the very best spanking that I have given and received were for no reason other that because I want to or he wanted to.

From time to time my mother gave me a spanking just to show me who was the boss. This was always bare and very painful. She would say "young man you are getting too big for your boots. Its time you found out who is in charge" Then it would be bottom bared and over her knee for a dose of the slipper or hairbrush

I prefer otk. Knickers down and hand spanked by my husband. We do it as foreplay. But he's serious when he spanks and he reddens my cheeks bad! But when he spanks he usually calls me on my transgressions. Today's spanking is for my foul language. Ouch!

Well, my boyfriend spank me for both discipline reasons and just play. I get punishment spanning more often than the play ones, because I act out quite a lot. He usually bends me over his lap,bares my bottom and spanks me until my bottom is fiery red and I'm in tears. The use implement usually depends on how naughty I've been, but it's usually either his hand or a wooden hairbrush that's being used.

As an adult? It goes from pure play, foreplay to sex, to pure punishment for misbehavior such as temper flares. We also do half-play half-punishment, like if my wife thinks I've been annoying but wants sex, then she'll spank me and we'll have sex after. Depending on her mood and the severity she wishes to convey, she uses her hand or a hairbrush mostly, but we also have a martinet, slippers, ping-pong paddle and cutting board. It's always bare bottom. If in an annoying mood I may get a rectal temperature first, a spanking and then an enema.

We however cannot do that much due to children and the needed discretion.

My husband puts me over his knee and pulls my thong down so he can give me some nice slaps with the palm of his hand. Getting him pulling my thong down feels a bit more humiliating to me and I really like it. I can get a spanking for a lot of reasons really and I just like to provoke him enough to make him do it. I always deserve it. This afternoon I had just a towel wrapped around me and I kept opening it and giving him a flash. So I had to be put over his knee naked for a spanking. Then I had sex with him. 😃

I don't really remember how it all started but its probably because when I was little, I was very adamant at knowing whats best and all rules absolutely had to make sense to me. If they didn't, I just didn't follow them and broke them every time I could get away with it so even though I was never spanked and spanking was more of a taboo, I was aware of it. That its done, to punish and to discipline and I was generally disgusted by it. But then I happened to see an adult show late at night when my parents were asleep where people enjoyed it as part of a lifestyle, they were laughing and giggling while spanked, it all felt so... alien, I guess, a completely new perspective. And fun!! And I guess I was hooked.

Discipline spanking, when he says youre bad and need to be punished or something along those lines(Im not submissive and Im not and will never be anyones slave) would result in killing the mood and it ending there but anything more fun, even with a slight punishment theme that would tempt me into saying yes and willingly going along with it is really hot.

I think the best spankings I have ever gotten (especially as an adult) were ones that I just got because I wanted a spanking. Usually a few swats with a paddle over clothes will leave enough sting in my bottom to really feel good but not hurt.

I've been a spanko all my life. I'd love to be in a DD relationship with my wife of 37 years, but it's not in the cards. I love giving and getting spanked, both for pleasure and for discipline. I recently was feeling bad because I totaled our nearly paid off truck, and I asked her to spank me to help me get rid my shame. She absolutely refused.

I did take an opportunity once about 18 months ago when we were on vacation. She had been totally disrespectful toward me all day long, and we had probably the biggest argument in our entire married life. We finally went to bed. She decided that she would try to make up for her behavior by getting frisky with me, but I wasn't having any of it because I was still sore. After rebuffing her advances I finally sat up, switched on the light and told her to walk around to my side of the bed. When she was in front of me I grabbed her wrist, pulled her over my knee, flipped up her nighty, and spanked her bare behind hard about 20 times. She finally slid off on to the floor with s look of disbelief. I told her that I was not ever going to put up with her disrespectful attitude ever again, and that she could expect to go over my knee for more of the same if she ever did it again. We talked calmly for s while, and she admitted she was wrong. I then asked her if she was ready for the rest of her punishment, and she said she was. I drew her back over my knee, bared her bottom once again, and finished her spanking. I told her that her punishment was done and that I forgave her. She then got into bed, and we snuggled. We then had the best sex we had ever had!

I just love the idea of spanking after a Scrabble game with the number of smacks equal to the difference in points scored. Thanks for sharing that!!! It will make the game much more interesting and challenging with a reward at the end of the game for the winner (spanker or spankee???? lol). And then make passionate love afterwards as it will be a terrific turn on!! I cannot not wait to try this scenario with my husband!! I will be the winner either way whether or not I win or lose the game.. It can be applied to other games as well which will be interesting also.

I enjoy getting spanked as a form of stress release, although the humiliation is also a turn on.

My girlfriend and I both find spanking hot, and I'd like to explore spanking in the context of a punishment scenario, such as for breaking a (not actually serious) rule. Do you have any favorite reasons to spank or be spanked?

How? My spankings are locked over hubby's knee, as I don't take them well at all 😢

Why? Guess the only way to answer this is when ever Rob (my husband) is displeased with something I'd said or done, and decides I'm getting one.

Donna