Who have you told about your enema habits?

...only my wife...😎

and I have never regretted this revelation😎

Only my Zity friends, @sirensong .... and an enema nurse in Boston a long, long time ago.

My wife and I are both pretty private but we leave signs out. When I was dating my wife, one night I was at her house she rented, when I walked into the kitchen a hot water bottle was upside down drying in the dish rack beside the sink. That made it easy to ask a few questions but she was obviously embarrassed.

We had known each other for some months and had been more serious for only maybe ten days. As it turned out, she wanted to set the hook, we ended up getting pretty turned on and she said she wanted me to fuck her ass. Afterwards she told about giving herself a couple of enemas to clean out for some hoped for anal sex. I asked her if I could give her an enema and her eyes opened and she smiled and said certainly.

It wasn't long before she was using her bag on me that night as well. She has a nurse friend that she shares enema stories and techniques with, and another friend of mine mentioned one day while dating a new girl friend wanted to give him an enema and he didn't want to say no and was glad he didn't. So we know a couple of families that use enemas for pleasure. We adopted the routine of leaving a douche bag on the back of the bathroom door with an enema nozzle on it. Every so often someone makes a comment or two but no one else has talked about being hooked yet. The woman talk more, and the wife has mentioned to some of her friends that when she gives me an enema it seems to change my disposition in a good way. That is the sum total of our experiences with others and ourselves.

@Mike_E you are lucky to have a girlfriend who enjoys anal sex and enemas

@Mike_E said,

When I was dating my wife, one night I was at her house she rented, when I walked into the kitchen a hot water bottle was upside down drying in the dish rack beside the sink.

When we were kids in the fifties, it was normal to see a douche/enema bag hanging in most everyone’s bathroom, and our bathroom at home was no different. After our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and enemas were our responsibility. My siblings and I started giving each other enemas after school in the afternoon. My girlfriend, having seen the bag in our bathroom, asked my sister if she wouldn’t mind give her a couple of enemas one afternoon. Her period had started earlier that day and she was having cramps. My sister agreed, giving her the enemas, she asked for. During the enemas the girls talked, my sister telling my girlfriend about our after-school activities. A month or two later, my girlfriend asked me, if I would swap enemas with her during her period. I agreed, and we gave each other enemas until we went our separate ways after graduating from High School.

A number of years later, when I was dating the girl who became my wife. Like my teenage girlfriend, she saw the bag hanging in our bathroom. This opened the door, so to speak, for questions. And once we got married, we used enemas for both health and pleasure.

My wife died nearly 20 years ago and she hated my enema habbit. Trying to be TOTALLY OPEN with any new partners, I carefully told new partners of my pleasures and saddly when one of my earlier suitors and I split up, she purposely went around ALL of my friends to inform them of my 'disgusting' habbit. I often wonder when I see those various friends whether the thought goes through their minds when they see my, "I wonder how many enemas he has had today". I have a partner these days that accepts what I do, BUT, my pleasures these days is SOLO. regards, irrigator333.

I usually talk very casually about sexual subjects with the women I’m involved with as we laugh and make jokes.

Hanging out with nurses or retired nurses, when it seems natural to add an enema joke or remark, I do. Usually more laughter.

If the lady I’m with is into enemas for pleasure, the conversation will continue. If not, it goes no further.

I’ve had some women ask me about giving enemas in a more serious tone. At that moment I know more than likely that we will be enemates at some point.

I get amazing sexual arousal from giving first-time enemas to a new lady. If they are totally enema ignorant, I always tell the non-nurses that they will need three bags in the different positions.

I call the three bags “an enema,” never a series.

From that point on, they are always ready for three enemas whenever we play.

Over the years, I’ve been amazed at the nurses who are totally against enemas and are shocked at the thought of getting one or giving one, but because it’s always brought up in a joking way, it passes with no problem.

I told my trusted Medical MD with the facts. He has recommended that i eat more fiber. During annual check up when he checks on the prostate, I have noticed, he also checks on the space or expanse in that area as well.

Coworkers, my family…they have seen my albums on here😈

@chelle300 OMG really?! What was the reaction of your coworkers? What about your family members? 😳

@chelle300 OMG really?! What was the reaction of your coworkers? What about your family members? 😳

@GraceT it doesn’t bother my family members they just don’t want to see me get hurt (physically or mentally) my coworkers think I am brave engaging in this lifestyle but the way I see it I am open about who I am where a lot of people hide it. It’s really no different if someone comes out as gay, bi, lesbian or whatever. People will either accept what I do or they won’t…their loss not mine.

@GraceT it doesn’t bother my family members they just don’t want to see me get hurt (physically or mentally) my coworkers think I am brave engaging in this lifestyle but the way I see it I am open about who I am where a lot of people hide it. It’s really no different if someone comes out as gay, bi, lesbian or whatever. People will either accept what I do or they won’t…their loss not mine.

@chelle300 I agree with you 100% !!! You're very pretty! 😉🌹

@GraceT it doesn’t bother my family members they just don’t want to see me get hurt (physically or mentally) my coworkers think I am brave engaging in this lifestyle but the way I see it I am open about who I am where a lot of people hide it. It’s really no different if someone comes out as gay, bi, lesbian or whatever. People will either accept what I do or they won’t…their loss not mine.

Gotta ask .....

Any coworkers express any interest?

Gotta ask .....

Any coworkers express any interest?

Not yet…but I have worked with a gay male flight attendant that has done this stuff with some previous partners. He is a nurse too so he has experience

Go for it ......