Who have you told about your enema habits?

The wonderful thing about this forum is that we are among people who are like minded and share our interests. It is very easy to post to the various topics or chat freely in Nozzleville.

But I was wondering outside of this wonderful site who have you told and shared your interest in enemas with. Is it confined to those that you are most sexually intimate with or have you kept it secret from them and the whole world? Have you had the right occasion to share your interests with friends that you are not sexually intimate with? Have you told someone and regretted later thinking they now think you are weird?

So who have you trusted to share this very personal interest with?

Only two guys that seemed to have an interest. We did some enemas, but one guy was just on vacation (he was out of state) and the other moved on. I would have liked a lot more and it would have definitely happened. I've always found it a hard topic to start with someone.

For years as a youth, I thought I was the only one in the world. It must be a far different experience growing up today. At least one can quickly see they are not some really way out individual and the only one in the world.

I had considerable guilt over it as a youth. I was going to tell my older sister once, but then chickened out. Zity is the only place I have ever opened up about it and many other things. It is a relief to know there are many like me.

Many people, mostly women, know ... a few women friends participate, both receiving and/or giving, with me on an on going basis.

Only the clerks at the adult toy shop. But I will definitely be listening more carefully for any subtle hints that others might give. Whether it leads to mutual giving/receiving is of no matter. Simply acknowledging with someone who shares interest would be a bit liberating.

Just my friends here on zity know I love to fill my sub's bum with fluids. No one in my immediate "friend/family" circle would understand or think it's "hot". Some family members might even go the route of legally trying to remove our children from our home if they found out. They are just that "religious" as to save our children from this den of sin. May they go f**k themselves. Oh was letting my inner bitch out?

Other than my wife I have discussed it at length with my sister - in long distance emails. We went through a couple of months of total reminicsing that turned into total open kink confessions. It turns out that her recollections of the enema play we shared as kids is not as robust as I remember. That openness is still there if we ever want to go there again. The only other people I've told are four or five of the local colonic therapists, which is pretty natural I guess. And three local massage therapists, one in great detail, as she is the one who on every single visit over the past three years has given me a happy ending while penetrating my ass with her finger, cucumbers that I've brought, and lately with her whole fist. I'd love to get her to give me enemas, but it's an otherwise totally legit massage place, so the opportunity just isn't there (...yet...). I love fantasizing that she'd be as into it as I am. In these fantasies we trade ass play, even fisting and enemas.

Luckily my wife just treated me to a good soapy fill and rinse this morning.

Miss Stress you were only being truthful in your response to family,not being bitchy. Love your honesty.

My colon therapist, my massage therapist and now my nexxt door neighbor who made a comment about seeing bag suspended from shower curtain rod one late night when lights were left on and she was up late. She invited me over for coffee and proceded to show me what was visible late autum when leaves were off trees.

My partner knows i like enemas etc, ive met several people and given them enemas..also have been given enemas by several. These people arent really friends, so i suppose dont count, as we planned the enema games.

Theres one woman customer, who is becoming a friend and we have shared a lot of health issues that affect us, i havnt said anything about enemas, but ive admitted i get constipated, so maybe it will come up in chat later.

But no one other than that.

My 4 qt bag hangs from the kitchen ceiling and anyone who walks into our small house can see it. If they ask I tell them I love enemas.

I have a friend who I told and she is amazed that I can get 4 qts in me, she hardly believes it. I have told a few people when they ask and when

some are feeling punky, I tell them an enema would help them feel better. I usually get a response of uck.

I found that if I get a runny nose and scratchy throat an enema is the way to go. I clean myself out and the next morning I feel great.

I did that last night. Usually I have to get up to pee about every hour and a half, last night I said, I would use a catheter and large leg bag, which let

me sleep through the night.

I feel much better, if someone asks, I tell them. I used to hide my bag and such, now, I don't care. My wife is not always happy, but I have come to the point in life,

I love enemas, she won't give me one, she thinks sex is for others, so my enjoyment comes from enemas and the filling and expelling.

This is a thorny issue in our home. My wife is embarrassed if I leave the bag out to dry for more than a day, and goes ballistic if someone comes to the house while it is out. I have a neighbor who let me know that she came over, "but you were busy in the bathroom so I just left". I had a co worker for years who always complained about a "tummy ache". I recommended she try an enema (which she did) and she asked how I knew so much about such a "thing". Naturally I answered in detail. But those are about the only ones who know of my preferences.

Just one very close woman friend, not even my wife. My friend and I share all sorts of confidences, but have never engaged in sexual activity with each other--it is truly a platonic relationship.

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Of course my mother knew that I loved taking enemas. I asked her numerous times to give me one. Then, there was grandma, who helped me get Mother to give me my first bag enema. Then, there was my girlfriend that I had in college. And of course my wife. She just asks me if I want to go to the bathroom. I don't think she has said the word "enema" more than 10 times in 35 years. Four very important people in this man's life and all of them knew or in the case of my wife knows the pleasure I get from taking enemas.

I told my doctor once that I have given myself an enema on more than one occasion for constipation and he said its a better alternative than laxatives. So now I tell him I get constipated at least 3 or 4 times a year.

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Though I have been given enemas by several girlfriends and two ex-wives I have never told anyone of my fetish. Only here have I discussed my klismaphilia. That's a little sad but I don't want disapproval. That's why I truly appreciate this site.

I have in the past talked with friends both male and female about liking enemas nothing devastating came form these conversations and because of a few I was able to give and get enemas

Wanted to update my earlier post. Last night while riding to Walmart with my wife, our conversation turned to different people's health problems, aches pains and home remedies. I took the opportunity to tell my wife that I had been experimenting with enemas and wanted to purchase better enema equipment via mail order. I was immediately relieved as the first words out of her mouth were "Well you've always had problems going, so I'm glad you're doing something about it."

Even though my wife knows that I've always been anal erotic, we didn't go into any details about the erotic side of it - (baby steps) I did give her some detail into my process of using baby shampoo and epsom salts followed by clear water rinses and explain how the new bag i want (ordered last night!!!) will be easier to keep clean and do a better job.

While we were in Walmart, she asked if I wanted to look at their enema stuff and I said sure, knowing that all we would find were fleet enemas and laxatives - and the $4.96 combo bottle that I had purchased a couple weeks ago. A few aisles away, she grabbed a bottle of baby shampoo off the shelf and asked if I needed any.

This may seem trivial to many and monumental to others. I see it as a major breakthrough as now I don't have to hide my enema equipment or sneak around as much.

Afterwards, I didn't bring the topic up any further - I know that by the time my new equipment arrives, her curiosity will eventually lead to more questions about my practices, and at that time I'll be able to judge what her interest might be.

Three girl friends and my ex all know. All were willing to give and receive although each approached it somewhat differently. Not in a big way but the level of sensuality was different. My ex would prefer giving but did ask as well. I found that a turn on. The equipment varied as well. My ex preferred getting it with the bulb when she wanted me to masterbate her. Sometimes she wanted it doggy style while the bag emptied into her.

The hardest I ever orgasmed while having an enema was while a girl friend gave my oral while filling me with warm soapy water. I thought me head was going to exlpload.

I've trusted very few people (mostly in here) to divulge the interest/ fetish. My first husband thought I was crazy once he learned of my interest, so my tendency is not to share unless I get to know someone well and trust that they can handle hearing about a fetish that may sound repellent.

I haven't TOLD anybody, but my father knows because when I was in high school, he saw my colon tube and Sherema bag hanging from the towel rack in my bathroom while I was drying my hair with a hair dryer. He never mentioned it again to me and I think he never said anything to my mother because she never said anything to me. They both know I'm into S&M.

Two old girlfriends and everyone on Zity. Actually got the one to give me a few and give her one. Said I really made her cum and I could tell.

Over the years I've told a few guys that I've slept with and picked up that I enjoy enemas. A friend or two as well, all gay men!!!

I've never told anybody, family or friends. It's my personal thing I have.

Anybody who asks, and maybe 10 have. As a counselor who use to deal with sexual issues regularly, anal sex and enemas were frequent topics of discussion. However, one tries to keep their personal lives out of the theraputic relationship so seldom did I talk about my own enema pleasures nor those of my wife.

Those who I have told have been friends with whom I shared confidences - reciprocally.

27 years playing with enemas, off an on, but mostly in my he last few years. I've never shared my inclinations with anyone but the Zity tribe. And I thank you all for that!

I really appreciate hearing your recent comments ImDoug. I'm leaning toward letting on to my wife soon too. I figure I'll lead with the health benefits. I'm quite anxious about it.

Since a teenager, school friends, gf's, as an adult just about everyone relatives, co-workers both sexes. In my years the word enemas is misunderstood, taboo. Butt, half of all the people I've spoken with were not only interested, but very curious and were more facinated of my openess. I hear people proudly admitting they got an STD in their younger days, and noone cares? I grew up with enemas and will continue promoting this incredible fetish to everyone. This is why I'm so proud of being a zity member. The best site, with the best zity people ever.

Well for me only a few past girlfriends, my sister and her girlfriend because they do them too. So outside of this site only four.

My wire knows as well as my sister. I've also told my physicians that I take them. I feel that the Dr's should know in case I get into health issues. Also as others have said, those here on Zity that know me.

I haven't told anyone yet but I wI'll tell my friends here at zitybiz. I'm looking for a partner to share with. My wife will not be interested at all!

@rbbrlov - I think you will have better success if you add a location to your profile. Some pictures along with sincere and honest posts in the forum also seems to attract people who share your views and geography. At least in my case, I think that when I am ready, I will have a few options to consider.