How can i get him to give me an enema

For me when giving a enema to my lover each squeeze on the Higginson bulb is like a spurt of ejaculation inside her. This simple action is very erotic and arrousend when the emotions are shared. If he is not an blocked extremist he will jump on the opportunity of this fantasy. From your side be simple, natural, no taboo, all actions are nice, natural and enjoyable, learn him with simple direct words, no shame, just like you was playing a common game, it is a common game never forget it,don't be shy, enjoy

Do you and your partner ever bathe/shower together? And do you enjoy yourselves more, and maybe sleep better, if you clean up before you bed down? if so, why not try to introduce an enema into the ritual? Have the equipment in plain sight, or at least readily available before the fun starts, and then explain that for you, this is another part of getting really clean and relaxed. If your partner's turned off by expulsion, they can simply leave the room until you've taken care of yourself and freshened things back up.

I, like some other posters, am curious as to what your results were. My husband doesn't share my fetishes. I've tried to get him involved, but to no avail. If you did get your man to say yes, I'd love to hear how it went over.

Holliemarie..Fetishes are not something you can "learn" Either one enjoys the activity ( regardless of the fetish) or one had no idea what is going on..Your husband is like a lot of people and doesn't get any pleasure from giving or taking enemas...Its almost impossible to "change" someone and even those of us with enema fetishes may not understand other fetishes..I tell people to think of someone laying in a closet in the dark smelling shoes and masturbating...or Sucking on dirty toes? or Scat...Those are all fetishes but to me and probably to you do not turn you on at all..The may even appear repulsive to you...So this is what you are facing trying to get another interested in your fetish....

Getting him to give you an enema depends on how open you are with each other both verbally and physically. If you share the bathroom leave your equipment out so he will notice it. When he wants to make love, tell him you feel bloated or constipated and need to get cleaned inside by giving yourself an enema because that always makes you feel so much better. Invite him to watch. If he accepts, ask if he wants to help because it is easier than doing it yourself. Show him how you like it. However when done, unless he wants to stay, tell him that you need to expel in privacy. Afterward take a shower, tell him you feel so much better, and have super sex with him.

Enough of this....men are easy. Just say I am going to give myself an enema, do you want to help?

Any man that is worth having as from our point of veiw as a "klismo" better say U BET, or move on

It is not about changing someone, but teaching them how much fun and pleasure enemas can give. Enemas have a physical stimulating aspect as well. You can start out disliking enemas and get into them eventually! In that aspect it is a bit different then with other fetishes

My thoughts exactly, DutchGhost. It is not about changing someone. Enjoyment of enemas is not just a psychological trait such as getting aroused by smelling shoes. Enemas are enjoyable because they clean out the dirtiest part of a person, from the inside. It is just so refreshing that it can be arousing.

I think that the only reason why most people do not enjoy enemas is because of society, which is ridiculous because enemas used to be so common that parents gave them to their kids and thought nothing of it.

Maybe some day in the future, no one will take showers anymore and people will say that you have to have a fetish for showers to enjoy them, even though showers are refreshing for everyone.

I would recommend that if you can find a time when you are feeling a little loose, and he is too, (maybe after a couple of drinks or maybe right after sex), you can tell him your "wildest" fantasy is to be made to take an enema. Feel free to throw anything else in there that you might want him to do. See how he reacts. Obviously, if he repulses the idea, then you're stuck doing enemas on your own (at least with him), but if he asks questions or seems turned on by the idea, then you have your opportunity. If it doesn't happen then, give it a few days and mention in a normal way that you weren't joking about what you told him, and you would really like to try your fantasy. The next will, hopefully, be history. Once he starts giving you them as being in a "controlling" way, you can ask him to give you them in a less sexual way in the future (if you want). However, do be prepared to have to fulfill a fantasy or two of his in order to keep it fair.

Just do it.

If you're a woman trying to get a man to go along, you have quite the advantage......men think with their heads (penile) for the most part so you can butter him up by wearing some nice lingerie...if he's into food, cook him a nice meal serve it in lingerie, with some nice wine to get him a little tipsy and relaxed.....after you're done eating, you can either 1) put on a show for him with a little lap dance and ask him to play with your ass :right to the point where he's putting his fingers in and giving you an enema......or plan 2) after a while after the meal, you can gtell him that you really don't feel good in your stomach as the food "didn't agree with you". Keeping the romance alive but needing a caretaker, you can submit yourslef to hismoe nurturing side.........good luck

Susie (post 30)

You are exactly right! If a woman wants something done in her undies, pretty much every man alive would do it for them....

I would agree with others that their is a huge advantage in favor of the women enticing their male lovers into giving them enemas for the first time. I think men often are the ones holding back their sexual urges and fantasies for fear they will turn off their female lovers. Men love a sexually open women who takes the lead in trying new things.

All you have to do is get him going sexually and make the suggestion- he'll take the bait hook, line and sinker.

This should be a slam dunk.

No, make that a Labron James slam dunk.

Well spoked, Pro!

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