How can i get him to give me an enema

Ok well im pretty new to all of this stuff but i give myself enemas sorta regularly i think it would be amazing if my fiance gave me one instead of doing it myself but i have no idea how to bring it up i think id probably just creep him out so any tips here would really be appreciated thanks 😃

Just tell him you feel really good after an enema cleans you out and you would like him to do this for you.

If you think he is kinky enough to readily accept it as a sexual kink, tell him that.

If he shows any interest in your anal area or would want anal sex, agree to play if he will help you clean out your bowels. . .

What about a little massaging of the truth? Tell him you are constipated and find it really difficult to do a solo enema...

Ellie, I believe there is some great advice from Claudia in post #21 on another thread, found here:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=558593

I would also add that, as others have said in various threads on this forum, most people's squeamishness with enemas is that they think enemas are dirty. The truth is that enemas simply clean you out. Maybe you should explain this to your fiance as well.

Ellie, I agree with HC's reply and the posting by Claudia. The only other piece of advice I can give you is to make sure that you and your prospective life partner are on the same page. If you are enjoying enemas now, and he does not know about them or is against them, this will cause some major discourse in your relationship now or in the very near future.

Emjaybe, I don't know about the "major discourse [sic]" part! There is no need to anticipate any drama no matter how Ellie proceeds with this situation. For all we know, her partner may think this is pretty hot if he finds out.

I have one more idea Ellie, you may want to browse the collection of links to clips that feature enemas ( http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=showboard;board=17 ) and just show him whatever one you like. Maybe just email him the link to whichever clip you choose, with a subject line, as you said:

i think it would be amazing if my fiance gave me one

That should get him intrigued- It was actually a clip of some women giving each other enemas that inspired me to try this activity in the first place, and once I saw that clip I couldn't wait!

Ask if he would be interested in playing Doctor during a sex play session or at least as a topic of discussion and you should be able to pick up pretty quick use the whole speal

how doctors prescribe enemas for cramp relief constipation etc, a role play approach the indicators should appear or not indicating his position I personally would be massaging your anus if I even thought you were head there you want to introduce anal play not necessarily sex and you want him to cleanse you and YOU want him to do it happy hunting and good luck

There are as many reasons to take an enema as there are enemas to take. Listen to switchablesusie, she is on the right track. But when all is said and done, that open line of communication has to be there. You will have to find out what flips his switch too.

I keep my bag in the shower. While taking a shower with a guy and he comments on my bag I will tell him thats how I get my self nice and clean for him. If he gets it and wants to play he will pick up on this and offer to help watch etc. I sometimes say if I feel he is getting curious would you like to see how it feels. This really works and starts the ball rolling. If you are a woman with a woman partner she either gets it or she doesn't. She knows what the bag is there for and usually wants to play.

OK, Ellie, it has been five months now since your posted inquiry. What has happened? Have you been able to ask him? Pleasr report back.

Ginnie I wish I had experienced such an occurrence when I was dating. That would have been a dream date come true. Of course going out with a woman who wants to give her date an enema is like winning an Academy Award or being in a starting lineup in a World Series game, not as rewarding financially, but as likely to occur.

Don't be afraid to ask. But also be prepared for "no." And even if you get a "no", doesn't mean you can't ask again sometime in the future. So long as you don't "dwell" on it, but I'm sure you won't. I think there is some great advice in this thread, especially if you can incorporate it with anal sex. I think all guys want to try anal sex at least once.

Also, I think it's a lot easier to get someone to try giving than it is to get someone to try getting an enema. So if you're interested in being given an enema, I think that will tip the odds in your favor. Remember your boyfriend may enjoy giving you an enema for totally different reason(s) than you have for wanting to receive an enema. For instance, he might like the submission / bondage aspect. But so what? You might both totally enjoy it!

Most important. As quincy says, it has been 5 months. Please post back whatever the status might be.

I have never even tried to talk my wife into enemas, and my judgement was confirmed tonight. I was telling her about how my uncle, nearly a century ago had typhoid fever and could not keep food or liquid down, so his mother gave him nutritious enemas. First, my wife said that was not an enema, an enema was to make you have a bowel movement. I said I thought that she was wrong and she should look up the definition of the word to find out for sure. She refused to do so, and that was the end of the conversation.

hankb

Sounds like that door closed tight.

Just ask him if he will help you out. Get the enema ready , then come get him. Explain how you need him to administer the enema. Go slowly with the injection. Let him know that it is very important to you for him to help you out with taking the enema. Let him know that the enema is very important to your health and you need him to learn how to give you enemas. What could be more truthful?

One time a guy was going down on me and started to play with my ass. I told him that I had not gone in a few days and that doing that would not be a good idea. Well he was rather persistent so I got up and lead him to the bathroom. I got out my two quart enema bag and told him, If you want to do that I would really feel better about it if he cleaned me out first. I about fell over when he said ok.

Wild- Now that's how it's done! Telling your partner that before any anal play can happen, they need to give you some enemas to clean you out. Personally, I think it makes sense for people to give themselves enemas as part of their whole routine of getting ready to be with a partner later, if they think they might have anal sex. But if they don't do enemas beforehand, they can just let their partner give them the enemas if necessary. I am sure that many people, just like that guy, would be happy to oblige- especially as a step towards having anal sex.

I like your style.

Do you use 69 in your sex play? Ask or play with his rosebud. Afterwards do mention about douching the rectum, or an enema. I don't know of any guy who does not like rosebud play. The subject is open, use your imagination. GOOD LUCK. I HOPE YOU SUCCEED. You can be my gf anytime.

Rosebud, that's an odd word. It's interesting how people use the word rosebud to refer to the anus, and people also use the word rosebud to refer to a prolapsed rectum, and people also use the word rosebud to refer to the tip of the clit, and people use the word rosebud to refer to the shape of those steel butt plugs with the jewel on the bottom that are shaped like actual rosebuds.

Rosebud? Like an American beauty? That's not what I call mine.

Let's not forget the most famous rosebud--Citizen Kane's sled.

Of course there was the battle of the rosebud in which the U.S. fought against the Lakota and the Cheyenne. We'll get sued over that one. Of course it's a thorny subject. Oh no ??I'm sorry!

My point exactly. There are too many different things that the word rosebud could refer to and that's why I don't use it either. I just thought it was funny to list a few of those things, to note how different they all are.

Maybe grommet is a better word or perhaps just anus. I'm not big on euphemisms.

I like when people just say Uranus!

My lady casually brought up enemas just last week and was telling me about the benefits of coffee enemas. I never thought about giving her one before but she suggested she would like me to help her with it one day. She laid the equipment out in the bathroom and told me if I ever wanted to help her it was ready. I was thrilled to help,her immediately. It was a huge turn on!

Just leave YOUR equipment out where he can see it easy.When he asks you about it,just tell him your desires!!!

Most guys are pigs. 😁

If you tell a guy you want him to do something to part of your body inside your pants, I would be shocked if he didn't jump at it!