Authentic incontinence

When I gotta go I have less than 5 min notice

but now I'm on lasix for my blood pressure and now I have only about 1min warning

I've been wearing full time for about four years now. Thought the last two years my control slipped pretty steadily and now I have the bladder capacity of a two year old lol. I do not plan on ever getting out of diapers and love my situation. Getting girlfriends and dates was never a problem for me because of my confidence and openness of my wearing and my current girlfriend even began wearing every night on her own after she saw how comfortable I was in diapers.

I have been dependant on nappies now for over three years. I wet the bed every night and have little day time control so I wear nappies all the time. I am completely at ease with it now.

Yes I had a period of incontinence. Before it I had played with diapers a couple of times, typical of me to try out a new fetish. It had been fun and I had peed in them a couple of times. Interesting sensation. But diapers did not "stick" as a fetish. It was fun to have tried it out and I did not mind wearing diapers but it was not going to become something I did on a recurring basis.

A few years later I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and chose to have surgery. I knew a period of incontinence was likely following it and was said to be the worst part of the whole deal by many men. But really, how bad could it be? I had worn diapers a few times and while I did not choose to continue to do so, wearing them was not particularly uncomfortable or unpleasant and I was sure I could deal with it if necessary.

Well, 10 days after the surgery when the catheter was removed pee started coming out almost immediately. I remember the ride home as being very unpleasant. It had been no big deal when I peed in diapers on my own but when it just kept happening and I could not control it, it was a very different story. I went through about 2 months of being mostly incontinent progressing through being partially incontinent. The diapers were not the problem, the problem was the incontinence.

The good news is the incontinence did resolve itself and now many years later I still have a PSA that is undetectable.

I have read a few times on the site where people want to become incontinent. I would be careful what you wish for. It is very different to play at incontinence and to be incontinent. Even if diapers is a fetish of your choice I doubt that you would enjoy actually being incontinent.

I am not normally incontinent, but sometimes when my BM's are loose I have accidents. It's usually a mistake thinking it's gas - surprise. Diapers are necessary in times like these. I'm in the "prostate age" but so far no symptoms. Like dlcripple I'm taking a diuretic for high BP and it works really well at night - by morning I'm soaked. I'm beyond worrying about PSA because I’ll most likely die of something other than prostate cancer.

I have cerebral palsy and due to poor muscle strength and coordination I'm fully dependent on diapers 24/7. Having full bladder and bowel incontinence is hard at times but overall if you make the best of the situation it's not so bad as it may seem. I've been in diapers for 22 years now and I'm comfortable with that fact.

I have bladder control issues that stem from a surgical mishap when I was 14 years old. I'm 74 now. So I've been dealing with this matters for 60 years! I have not been reliably dry at night since the surgery. At first I was totally incontinent of urine and had to wear diapers 24/7 for three years or so after the surgery. But I managed to recover enough daytime continence by the time I went away to university that I could generally go without a daytime diaper if a bathroom was nearby at all times. Then when I was in my forties, my incontinence worsened. So I've been back in diapers 24/7/365 now for about 30 years.

I don't know if OP would consider my incontinence authentic.

I untrained. As a result, I have nonexistent wetting control and impaired messing control.

When I became older started wetting my pants and bed so my wife had me go back to diapers and pants.I now wear 24/7 have a lot of accidents and have become somewhat untrained.

I'm 36, so, kinda young, and I am completely incontinent. Always have been.

Almost always anyway.

When I was like 3, I had an aunt that got her joys off of putting things(fingers, straws, sticks, whatever was handy) in my vagina, urethra and rectum. This damaged my sphincter and now, I am both bowel and urinary incontinent... that aunt is dead now.

But, to make the best out of things, I've been this way so long, I don't mind it. Looking at some of the public toilets, I'm glad I don't have to sit on them.

I am also incontinent, I started having embarrasing problems over a decade ago back in 2010, and went to see my doctor who then referred me to the urologists at the local hospital near where I live in the UK.

Anyway after many tests and countless hours they seid they couldn't find anything wrong with me, so referred me back to my doctor's much to his annoyance.

He then seid I was doing this on purpose or being lazy, something that I strongly disagree with anyway they put me on pills for a month to try and help the problem, only I was allergic to them and stopped taking them.

Nowerdays I am approaching my 40th year of life and wear diapers/nappies in adult size, as my form of choose protection and the fact that I have to wear them doesn't bother me in the slightest bit.

However at first it took alot of getting used to the idea that I would be very likely in them for the rest of my life, and yes it did originally depress me even thinking this way as sometimes I feel like a oversized baby or toddler at least psychologically speaking.

However I have since come to the conclusion that I am just doing what I can to survive and if anyone Queries why I wear them I simply say that I am disabled.

Or that I had a horse riding accident in 1994/1995 which is true to an extent what I don't tell anyone is I use to have epilepsy as a youth back in 1992/1993 when I was 12-13 years of age, this I believe is where my problems stemmed from.

However being in diapers isn't that bad as I have rediscovered how wonderfully comfortable they where as compared to underpants and I think it's probably for the best that my body has somewhat reverted back to where it was prior to when I was 5 years of age.

I won't let the fact that I am in diapers ruin my life and I am stronger than ever knowing that I made the right decision, and that I can live my life to the fullest extent possible without any cares in the world when I am in full regression mode.

But more about that another day.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888.

@ Chinababy, Seems like anytime a doctor can’t attach a textbook diagnosis to something, they look to make it, as some sort of blame on the patient. ? ? You must be doing, bla, bla, bla...., or not doing, bla, bla, bla...

I have more respect for a doctor who says, I don’t know what’s causing your condition, has me stymied. They are to afraid of not having a condition nailed down. But, people in general don’t want to hear, the doctor don’t know either. So, I guess you can’t blame them to much?

If you are ok with your using diapers, and I know you are, just keep on doing what you do. ?

Luvs It: Just OK? I'm absolutely thrilled...lol

My bladder problems can on rare occasions result in a number 2 accident, bladder usually lets me know when it wants to empty and if I am near a toilet I have a good chance of being able to use it, however there are times when the needing to "go" urge disappears and then I cannot "go" no matter what, then I am in serious trouble as my bowel will be the next thing to go and once the urge starts nothing and I mean nothing stops it and consequently I fill my nappy, some time after that the bladder then goes and things return to what has become my "normal".

I really hate it when I have a #accident as it is so embarrasing and always the clean up is just gross.

Fortunately this is a rare event but still happens without warning, all the medics can say is "well the bladder and bowel are connected" that is what can happen !?

I think that might be doc speak for "I dont know"!

I fill the nappy

I don't have "urges" to go anymore, there was a time my body would screw with me and i was more avle then today and i would heroicaly destroy the house and several toilets trying to use them , my doctors found out about my "home remodeling habit" and tried to talk reason into me , that didn't work ,so they changed all my positioning restraints to be locking and I didn't have the key, my aides did ,and forced me to just use the diapers as intended .

These days abilities and nerve function have changed I don't have urges ,my Neurogenic bladder & :bowel state is leaking my bowels need medication management, three drugs over rule my bodies vote,and substitute filling my diaper 4 sometimes 5 times a day ( the 5 is the occasional overnight ) I know I gave gone when I feel it fill up the front of the diaper.

One of the things that's eating me ,is literally eating my nerve roots in my spine ,to explain it simply it's multiple sclerosis but only one side of my spine is on the menu ,damn cannibals I tell you ,LOL gotta keep your sense of humor.