Authentic incontinence

I know some of you younger members fantasize about being incontinent. when I was a kid I always thought about what it would be like to actually need diapers. years later I got a taste of it after some post-op complications. I have fond memories of getting to wear diapers around the clock. while I still experience urgency problems that hit fast and unexpectedly, I rarely suffer public accidents. which is a good thing because I'm talking about bowel accidents. I never had a problem with bladder control aside from my bedwetting. a few of my siblings also wet at night and were diapered like I was. the diapering was considered simply a practical management technique. I tell you this so you can understand the rather casual attitude we had about needing to wear diapers. the point is that I didn't freak out when i had to start wearing them again.

short version: bowel resection (removal of aprox. 2 ft. of decending colon) after some severe but local diverticulitis. as with all major invasive procedures, the recovery was difficult. continence returned quickly but i experienced severe urgency issues of great intensity and little warning. mercifully it wasn't diarrhea. but with the constant intake of doctor ordered metamucil for fiber therapy, i was pooping like a horse. it wouldn't have been so bad if it had just been once a day. but i was pooping enormous loads 3 or 4 times a day. sometimes i would still be half asleep in bed when i would get hit with an intense urge to go. NOW. after repeated attempts at rushing off to the bathroom in a futile effort to use the toilet, i surrendered and started to just go in my diapers. most days it was a real pleasure but i have to admit, it sometimes was nothing but inconvenient.

I'm a life-long diaper enthusiast so needing to wear them again was fun. most of the time.

as you can imagine there were quite a few public accidents. I can honestly say that I enjoyed most of them and was able to be discreet for a good many of the events. but there were several episodes that really embarrassed me. someday when I have more time, I'll share one of them as a true story and submit it. That is if anyone was at all interested.

I would be curious as to how many other members experienced actual incontinence that resulted in a period of diaper dependency. anyone?

Hi,

My name is Peter. I too wondered what it would like to be truly incontinent. Well, one day I got to find out. I had developed diabetes 2 and before I was diagnosed, I had typical symptoms i.e., constant thirst and constant urination. It got to a point where I was peeing every 15 minutes. Needless to say, I ended wetting my bed on more than one occasion and had to resort to wearing diapers at night to keep my bed dry. I also was wetting myself on the way to work. I am a director in a rather large company so showing up to work with wet pants, while somewhat exciting, was not very good for my career so I started wearing disposable diapers to work. This too was exciting on one level but terrifying on another. Anyway, after getting ny diabetes under control, the incontinence stopped. Even though there was a level of excitement whenever I wet my pants or diapers uncontrollably, I don't think I could live like that constantly because of my life outside of the diaper world.......Peter

Well unfotunatly i am one of us i need them for medical reasons i wont explain bt yes i am actualy incontinent. So i can sypathize with you about the embaressment of wearing and buying when my order does not come on time. mine is from diabetes type 2 also but even when i got better with the blood sugar thing the night time wetting still happens every now and then. The doctor said its because i had nerve damage from years of neglect i never knew until a couple years ago when i stared wetting at night and the day it was then i thought maybe i should go the doctors and check whats up.stupid me i just thought it was something temporary for me and ignored it boy was i wrong

A lot of people fantazise about being diapered 24/7 but I wonder how many could face the reality. You have the problems of smell, skin care, costs, and explaining to a potential mate.

I think many at some time wonder what it would be like to need nappies/diapers full time. The reality of this is at first an exciting prospect being allowed to wear and getting away with using. Perhaps even having a partner change you. Iremember the thoughts of wanting an excuse to wear,then one day a major accident at work saw me crushed by a large shipping container. I woke in a hospital ward tubes and wires everywhere ''scary moments for anyone''after the shock of hearing what they had found about my injuries and my prospects of a recovery not very good . Then they hit me with the bomb shell,,, YOU MAY NEED TO USE SOME FORM OF INCONTENANCE PROTECTION ,,,oh well little did they know i used it anyway. On my discharge from hospital to re-hab and then home, the full thing hit me. I was now in a wheelchair(baby buggie) wearing nappies (incon pads), no going back now but it was nothing like, not even close to what i had often dreamed about. This was real only none of the ab/dl thoughts came to me. Just shows there are two sides to every coin i had what i wanted but had to pay the price for it. wearing nappies was not always going to be the fun it used to be.

I hear ya babywear01 i looked at like ok cool nowi get them all the time what fun this is gonna be. well was i wrong. i never new embaressment like this before i never imagined it would be this bad. when buying them in a store the looks and giggles sometimes get under my skin. the embaressment of having to explain to dates that i wear diapers is the worst thing in the world to me. it has screwed up more then a few girlfreinds in my life. and of course the constant diaper rash if you dont keep your skin condition up. me, you, peter, and jack now this is not as much fun as we thought this would be however deep inside ourselfs we still love being in diapers. I just dont want them 24-7 anymore i want them every now and then like before. oh well it could always be worse i guess we could have say cancer or heart conditions to worry about with this stuff, so lets be glad we are only in diapers and not dead or something.

Listing to peoples stories about wanting to wear diapers for real need 24/7, and then actually having some unfortunate happenstance befall them, reminds me of the old monkey's paw story. If you're not familiar with the story here's one link with the story http://gaslight.mtroyal.ab.ca/mnkyspaw.htm or just use Google to look it up. If you don't want to bother reading the story, the point of my bring it up is, and the moral of the Monkey's Paw story is, be careful what you whish for, you may get it.

There's a great difference in the ideal of a wish, or an idea you might have for something, then the reality of what it really means to have to live it. This applies to just about anything in life.

I too love the idea of wearing my diapers, and have many fantasies to go with them, but I can't see any fun in having something happen to ones self to justify wearing them all the time. If you want to wear and use diapers 24/7 and it makes you happy, then by all means go right ahead and enjoy the hell out of it. But don't wish for a need for them. If you need to have a pretence justification to give anybody on why you are wearing diapers, you can just make up a white lie for it.

We can see with all these fine people here who really suffer with some type of real incontinence, they love their diapers, but not being able to go without them sucks.

Luvs It.

Well my freind you hit that one on the nose perfectly. thanks to all of you who dont make fun of us real diaper wearers we appreciate it alot. you guys have no idea how mean some people can be if they know you are in a diaper so thanks again. sincerly, momasboy.

My need for diaper came from nerve dammage in my back, so there is not much to do about it. The other problem I have is Irratable Bowel Syndrome so I often have messy ones with out much warning or control. 24/7 diapers is a pain and can lead to many challenge in live but there is more to life then just diapers, and if all you can focus on is that you need help. 😃

When I was 11 years old I started wetting the bed again. I was soon back in diapers for night use only. Within the next year daytime accidents began to occur and I became diapered 24/7. All through middle school and high school I was diapered. Many peers found out in high school, but that story is for another time. But I truly did not mind the fact that I had to wear diapers to bed, which I still do. I have a true comfort in them while i'm sleeping. But to be 24/7 and have to wear during the day was a complete hassle. You always have to make sure you have extra diapers, you have to clean extremely well, but the thing that bothered me the most about it was that diapers can become uncomfortable especially on hot days. Also school would not be the best when you have gym class in diapers. All you do is watch to make sure noone notices, and there would be times I would take the diaper off for gym, but I wouldn't even get to have fun playing the game, I would have to make sure I dont wet myself. I dont have to wear 24/7 anymore, but I do have the occassional accident and I wear if I know that I will be in a stressful situation, but I have a recommendation for those that want incontinence.... Do your best to just be a bedwetter, not 24/7, cause it really does suck.

Bedwetterscott

I think you have a very valid point bedwetterscott, there are a lot of hassles with being 24/7 incont. However there are some who would still want to be 24/7 but still giving your personal experience here can alwys help those make sure that is is truly what they want

I couldnt have said it any better myself scott cheers to you. i agree its a great fantasy to need em but in relaity it suks bad!!!! yep i agree i hate em most of the time but then there are the few times i realy love em also.

Hi

I also have Diverticular disease and when I've got to go if I'm not near a toilet i really cant hold it in.

My name is Baby Keefe, and I started needing to wear diapers back in 1985. I was told by doctors that I had inherited it, I have a neurogenic bladder. It started as just bed-wetting, then moved on to having accidents during the day. The bottom port of my bladder is messed up, which also causes me to have bowel problems, but, mostly at nite. I still wear the diapers 24/7.

That sucks baby keefe, but that's what you're here for, and what we're here for. Or I should say why we're here, to forget about lifes problems, and have fun and enjoy. So don't get bummed out!

Luvs It.

This is why I always say, be careful what you wish for, it may come true. If you don't need to wear a diaper, you're lucky! Now, do go ahead and wear them for fun all you want, enjoy!

Luvs It.

As I see it, my diapers are simply the underwear I have to wear! Sure, sometimes they can create inconveniences, but they save much more inconvenience than they create. I certainly wouldn't be working full and part time without them, and coworkers and friends who know of my diapered state have actually helped at times when I needed supplies brought or some similar situation.

Life is what it is, and you have to choose how you'll react to the situation you find yourself in.

Greetings: If you would like to talk about wearing diapers all the time send me a note I would love to talk to you. I have found diapers that can last me 12 to 15 hours. I work and always wear diapers to work and there is no place to change in private. I never worry about having to change in the middle of the day. Adam :😃

I surly agree with Binkey. Life is what it is, and you can adjust and be happy and comfortable or just be unhappy about the cards you are delt in life. 😉

I was just reading and i thought I'd let everyone know a few years back i had a fall 25 feet to a floor and spent months and years still having surgeries one of the problems i have now due to the fall is my bladder nerves were damaged in the fall which left me incontinence 24/7

before this i occasionally dabbled in diapers for fun it was great and i could stop any time i felt like it. well let me tell you it is not as fun when you have to have a diaper 24/7 with no parole. at first it was really cool my wife would help me when ever i had surgery and could not put my diaper on or change me . then the reality of being diapered for life hit me when the novelty wore off .

trust me I don't think anyone should wish to be incontinence 24/7 as for me i wish i could go back to just when i wanted to be diapered but i don't have that choice anymore.

but i still have my fun days my wife will sometimes just ask do i need to be changed and we have a day of fun.

I think you're right on Catfishjr. This is why I always say, be careful what you wish for. I'm not incontinent myself, and boy do I have no wish to be! I can wear and use a diaper whenever I want, can't see the need for wishing on that!!! It sucks to hear that you went through all that. But I'm glad for you, that you can have fun with it, and that your wife joins in. I'm sure for a short time you can forget your troubles at least.

See kids, it's not a good thing to wish something like that on yourself, just be happy and pretend you have no control 😉

Luvs It.

I suffer incontinence after electric shock treatment for depression, and also I have a bad back (lower) and have had surgery and that causes incontinence as well 😳. I figured since I gotta wear diapers I might as well enjoy them 😁

I would not think it would be much fun as it would turn into a medical issue instead of a thing you do for fun. It would seem like more of a turn off since even if you wanted to stop, you couldnt. I guess if you love wearing all the time and dont ever get tired of it, being incontinent could be seen as a positive. Just doesnt seem like something i would be interested in.

Needing sucks this time of the year. Oh the rashes. At least my g/f keeps a check to see if i need a change.

It starts to get less fun when nappies/diapers are not enough to discreetly contain the problem. For myself, over the last few months going from modest leaks easily managed with pads, to floods requiring high capacity pullups, and even these now regularly leak because of flood wetting. You can start to feel very self-conscious about smelling and not wanting to be standing in queues at the checkout or sitting next to others in restaurants, and then there is the embarrassment of trying to conceal your wet trousers and wondering how to manage at work. Then there is also the cost which could be as much as £40 a month

I Am totally urinary incontinent I have been that way for a long time and all I can say to the ones that want to be is it is not all it is cracked up to be just think you have no choice in the mater you must were protection all the time or suffer the consequences IE; wet pants if this is truly what you want then just try wearing a diaper 24/7 for a month that means all the time no excuses then we will see if you want to be incontinent then.

I've been curious as to what it would be like to need diapers, but most of the time I'm quite content with my continence...

Costs and skin issues seem to be biggest problem... second to that carrying supplies everywhere seems like it would get old.

As far as previous comments about dealing with a potential mate - I don't see that as too big a problem considering i've gone through explaining my ABDL interests to vanilla love interests previously. I imagine it would be more acceptable as a medical condition vs. fetish.

There are times were I'd like to experience 24/7 incontinence, but alas I know of only two options that could simulate that for a lengthy period (ie weeks to months) without being permanent, but they both are rather inaccessible unless you had a very abdl-friendly urologist whom didn't with some flexible ethical standards... or rather the position that a procedure that's temporary and requested my a mature, mentally healthy adult isn't harmful.

-Teddy

Years ago, I tried wearing around the clock just to see what it's like. I'm glad I did it but I didn't really enjoy it once I was away from my home. The constant heat, the bulk, the misfit clothing, the humidity when I hadn't used it, the swampiness when I had, the inconvenience of not being able to use the bathroom without completely removing my diaper all made me really glad to not actually need diapers.

Not quite as bad as used to be now because diapers/nappies are slimmer and gel technology with staydry liners help to keep the wetness at bay, but even with deodorising additives and only urine, they can still get quite whiffy after a few hours, or at least you'll be worried you are, and i still find they are liable to leak which can be very embarrassing and stain furniture. Its also quite easy to accidentally reveal them when bending over, or to forget to do up a popper vest having been to the loo and have the tails hanging out of your trousers. Also liable to sag into or even slip down your trouser leg if the tapes accidentally detach on one side. Also if not very careful, people come across your supplies e.g. in the car or sticking from a pocket.

Buster if your almost incontinent then why the cath? If you cannot hold it like you say and need diapers then a cath is redundant and pointless.