No lube for anal sex

No, ouch.

Nope, I've always used lube on the recipient for anal except one time. We were doing it doggy style and in the heat of passion, it accidentally slipped into her butt. Butt she didn't seem to mind and we both had a great orgasm. 😜

I really think that there should be plenty of lube, but I have to confess that I have done it a couple of times using only the natural lubrication from the vagina - because she asked for it. She was naturally super wet and there were no problems at all. But again, it was a very special case and I wouldn't try with anyone else unless she asked.

We were too poor to afford that high dollar fancy lube so we had to use bacon grease. Once it warmed up it was ok.

Now I get where that saying "makin' bacon" came from. Thanks

Did it smell like bacon once you got going? haha …… I love the smell of bacon. Maybe onto something there.

We never smelled bacon but the dogs would follow us around for a week.

AHHHHHHH! Sounds like a painful experience,NO!

I was in a relationship for about 3 years with a woman who enjoyed anal sex (rimming, fingering, intercourse) alot. We never used lube. By the time we got to fucking her ass, her anus was so lubed from her own vaginal juices and my saliva that we never needed it. I cant remember a time when I didn't slip into her easily. Her only complaint about anal sex was that when I came inside her it upset her bowels for a day or so. So eventually I would pull out and come on her bottom cheeks. We never used a condom.

The other 3 women who I had regular anal intercourse with, we used lube. Either KY or vaseline.

There is an old joke about anal sex; always use too much lubrication. I believe that is the best way.

I have had anal a few times without lube but there was ample wetness from my pussy and it wasn’t a problem. Mind you the penises were not large. But given the choice, I am always going to go with lube!

When I was younger (and probably a bit drunk at the time) I could get by with just my pussy juices as a lube for anal sex. But now I require lots of foreplay and lots of lube. Even then, there can be a pain-pleasure thing going on, but that's what makes anal so intense...

What's the saying- too much lube is almost enough? Lol. I've had it threatened in a playful sense (ie: "if you don't fuck back like the slut you are next time you'll get no lube") and that was a fantastic motivator!

Plenty of lube is best. But we often had great anal sex after starting with vaginal. It wasn’t difficult to enter nor painful for my wife. But like @MaturePolly said, pussy juice is a lube. I think it is possible with no lube (including spit) but entrance would depend on how relaxed or conditioned your anus is.

I have used shampoo, soap, nivea, hand creams, moisturiser, and once when camping, butter.

Lots of saliva a few times. But lube is best.

I have in the past (only once) had anal sex without lube but first we had sex vaginally and then he was so lubed up with my juices that he could enter my ass. He had to take it a lot slower than he would normally if we were using lube. I can't say I enjoyed it because it took so long for him to eventually get it inside and there was a lot of ooching and ouching from me!

I have never tried anal sex without lubrication and I cannot imagine to do this. Anal sex with lubrication and anal sex without lube is for me like difference between suffering and pleasure.

As said many times before lots of lube, no sense in causing either of us discomfort.

I had been divorced for about eight years when this beautiful young voluptuous 19 yr.old woman, came into my life, (all of my friends were jealous and had given her the name of JUGGS) we went on several dates, and one day we went with a group to the races in N.Y. drank had a wonderful time went to dinner and when I took her home, (she still lived with her parents), she asked me to take her to a motel, and I obliged. She was not a virgin but she was ten years younger, than myself. After, lots of foreplay licking sucking etc. we concluded having intercourse, as we lay there on the bed and she remained lying on her stomach, (she had a beautiful ass) I told her if she remained there like that I was going to fuck her in the ass and since this was a spur of the moment happening, we did not have any lube except her juices and my saliva, but she remaind there and soon I was all over her beautiful ass. When I penetrated her I was gentle at first, but she became so aroused that she prompted me to become more aggressive which I was only too happy to oblige She had what I believe was an anal orgasm, and I ejaculated inside her (just as a side note this was the early 70's and aids was not an issue) when we were both finished and exhausted we fell asleep. That was an experience that I will never forget, especially that sweet ass. We remained friends for some time but alas she went off to college never to be heard from again.

I've always used lube with partners, but for solo play, I go with as little lubrication as possible: saliva from gagging on the dildo is nice and thick, for example.

With partners, I want it easy enough for them that they'll be willing to do it again :-)

By myself, I want it to be difficult, maybe a little forced or rough. Whenever I've been luck enough to have someone inside my ass, I've tried to minimize their use of lube, but usually they want to be way too gentle....

I usually use plenty of lube but there have been times my sub wanted me to fuck her without any lube, because she wanted it to hurt.

It really is great if you are into seeing your female subs in pain! I sometimes spit on my girls butthole instead of lube. It works. It's humiliating to the girl (which I love) and it somehow lubricate the rectum. Not much, but to some extent.

Alexx wrote:

I have used shampoo, soap, nivea, hand creams, moisturiser, and once when camping, butter.

Hot to picture the scene of sexual hunger and improvised lube that enables its fulfillment! On a recent trip I used various shampoos to lubricate my ass toy, and got off on the weird smells and soapy stimulation to the lining of my ass. Practically, it can't be good to be exposing your permeable membranes to all the chemical ingredients of these products on a regular basis.

This from a solo-play guy who finds handling a wet bar of ivory soap and adding some spit to be sufficient for all but the most demanding-sized toys.

"I would do anything for love but I won't do that!"

To the OP:

Unless you want to end up at the doctor with hemorrhoids or injury from it, always lube well. I was in a hurry and didn’t lube myself well once, and went to the doctor because I could barely sit down.

The doctor goes “I think that’s hemorrhoids but could be something else. But I’m pretty sure it’s hemorrhoids”

Had clotted blood that he had to cut out and had internal stuff too. So for 10 days I had a suppository up my ass once a day and a cream up my ass and in the outside twice a day.

I have never attempted anal sex without a generous amount of lube. I have had his middle finger pushed up my bottom while making out but only after first it being thoroughly lubed first by my husband inserting it into my kitty and getting it thoroughly wet. He will then insert his thumb into Miss Kitty and his middle finger gently enters by bottom as we make out!! We would never reverse the order though due to cleanliness considerations. Before any anal play is attempted, I always make sure to have a very thorough clean out with a series of enemas at least a few hours prior. Denise

I have my moments when I prefer it without alot of lube. It feels so different entering my ass. It almost feels like I'm being violated in a good way. Then there are times when I want nothing to do with penetration without lots of lube and preperation. So I suppose it's all up to you and the way it feels.

Anal sex, lube, I like to have options:

- spit and pussy juice because I am your submissive girl

- warm oil and tantric massage foreplay

- when applying the lube becomes something on its own, teasing me, creating anticipation, spreading my cheeks to leave drops of lube inside me;

- giving the lube to me and instruct me to prepare myself while you watch me

- as long as the lube does not come from the kitchen cupboard or fridge (olive oil, butter) and only because it is my personal preference not because it is wrong

Never tried. Sex is FUN, not painful for us. Always lots of lubricant - that's part of the fun.

I’ve always used lube for anal sex.

If you don’t you will probably be sore for a while and may bleed if you tear the skin.

If you are careful and start with a finger and use natural juices sometimes you can get by with it, particularly if you just did an enema and still have some lube left. You have to go slow and stop at the first sign of discomfort or you might be dealing with no play and Prep H for a week or longer. I like bacon grease and it is Keto friendly!