No lube for anal sex

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I have never tried anal sex without lube and I have no intention to change that. In fact I like to use plenty of lube - the more the better! Apart from the better feeling, having anal sex without sufficient lubrication can be dangerous. The anal area as well as the rectal walls are very sensitive tissues. The friction during penetration can cause micro fissures, which may increase the risk of catching or transmitting a disease.

Lots of lube for me please...wouldn’t think of having anal without it.....and I prefer coconut oil for lube

No lube for anal sex?

That's a corporal punishment S & M scene!

I want to be well cleaned out and thoroughly lubricated.

AMy K, I’m the same way with not needing lube for enema nozzles or suppos. My husband is bigger and not into anal, but I think anal with just the natural moistness of the rectum and presum would feel amazing!

Lots and lots of lube...the harder the sex, the goopier and thicker the lube. I have some fisting lube that is superb! Thick as honey and, thankfully, doesn't have any desensitizing chemicals in it. Stay away from those too!

Lots and lots of lube...the harder the sex, the goopier and thicker the lube. I have some fisting lube that is superb! Thick as honey and, thankfully, doesn't have any desensitizing chemicals in it. Stay away from those too!

The viscosity of a lubricant is surely a personal preference.

I can see some people like a thicker consistency, but I like a very thin not quite watery consistency. I like anal lubrication to be as thin and slippery as my pussy juice. Honey is way too thick.

The thick stuff is for fisting...works really great.

My husband and I like the thin viscosity stuff for everything.

A good healthy dose of lubricant on both his end and my end.

Carla and I tried that, no more than 10 times, intermittently, 20 or 25 years ago, long after we had her anus "trained" to open in response to inward pressure. We both liked the unusual sensation of increased friction, with no pain, but not enough to keep doing it long term. Also, I was worried about anal fissures, even though she wasn't. Loving, committed couples might try it occasionally and very carefully, just for a change of eroticism. We've now gone in the opposite direction -- an eight-ounce lube enema which she takes and expels just before we have anal sex. Beats the heck out of going in dry.

95% of anal sex I've had is with using simple KY as lube. The rest is with using saliva or vaginal juices for penetration. While I am Dom and will ‘spank/beat’ my sub, I've never used dry insertion as a punishment or anything. That just seems wrong and potentially could lead to serious injury.

Fuck no. If you want me to let you in back there you had better get me very wet in front first and lube my butt very well.

Otherwise I do not imagine that its comfortable at all and certainly not enjoyable.

Yes, I was "taken" dry by a self professed male Dom one time. He made me take a very warm soapy enema first and after I released the enema he did not give me any clear water rinses. He used a non-lubricated rubber and proceeded to push his cock into my ass. I was begging for some lube, but he completely disregarded my pleas. Basically I was raped and you may ask why I allowed it? Well even though I am a big guy myself, this guy who was my size and about 15 years younger and in much better physical shape simply overpowered me. At the time I was concerned about refusing and ticking him off. The bottom line (no pun intended) was that I ended up with a tear in my sphincter and it took about 8 weeks to heal. He left after he shot his load and never saw him again. Yes, I finally did take it anally again from a real and caring Dom......but always with much lubrication. Crisco works well for me.

First, I use a toy, so that is the anal sex I refer to. I don't like greasy stuff and mostly use a bare amount of soap lathered with water on my ass and on the toy. I often add a bit of spit for good luck :-)

(Sometimes I put a piece of soap in before the toy for added weird sensations. )

What I've also observed, often half and hour or an hour after anal stretching activity, my ass collects a large plug of anal mucous. This mucous, naturally, can serve as a lubricant.

It is interesting that everywhere splashed over the internet, you can read that the anus doesn't produce lubrication. The secretions aren't so wonderfully lubricating as pussy juices, but the mucosa certainly can and do function. Lubricant is still helpful. Note that an uncut guy can fuck quite a bit even without a much lubricant due to the sliding movement possible for the foreskin.

As far as this goes. The closest I have come to anal sex with no lubrication was after I was wet and my juices had run down. I guess that would be lubrication. Then only a finger or thin toy was used. That was nice because I kept dripping down there. Now if it had been something the size of a normal penis I would think that would hurt. If you are a man and have no lubrication at all I would think that would hurt pretty bad.

As far as this goes. The closest I have come to anal sex with no lubrication was after I was wet and my juices had run down. I guess that would be lubrication.

@Tabitha32 Yes, you are right. Vaginal juices CAN work as decent anal lubrication for fingers or small toys. I think a larger size needs something thicker and especially for a penis which is probably going to be going in and out more than just a few times. The lube needs some staying power to not dry up so quickly.

I think that is a joke, it is hard to push a little toy or butt plug inside without lubricating them or the ass hole. And probably it hurts to much for both sex partners.

The biggest cause of anal soreness or bleeding is NOT the size, it is the lack of good lubrication and pulling on the skin surface.

@SwitchableSusie and I are on the very same page....I want to be cleaned out and I want to be well lubricated. It doesn't have to be a matter of large volume enemas until clear, a simple anal douche is sufficient. Then I want lube...and more lube.

For me, the total enjoyment of anal sex comes from the feelings of fullness in my rectum and the thrusting of hubby's penis. Cleanliness and ample lube make anal all the more satisfying for me.

Deb

I would not let anyone go near me unless both of us were very well lubed up

Always use something for lube.

I had one girlfriend whose copious vaginal leakage more than drenched her awaiting anus. It used to excite us both that she would get so wet and slippery without lube. As a general answer to the question I believe in lots of lube and really like organic coconut oil as I find it also allows oral without adding unwanted flavoring.

Always use something for lube.

I think you need to use something for lube with anal sex. I think this is what puts people off it as they do not use the right amount of lube on both parties.

Me and my wife use copious amounts of lube for anal sex which helps plus both parties need to be relaxed about it but horny of course.

Unless you have a juicy-Lucy like Lick1a, there is no reason for leaving out the lube. That is, if you ever want to do it again with that partner.

For me a lot of lubrication and a lot of patience and affection ... then just enjoy and enjoy the pleasure...

No lube for anal sex?

Not in my ass you don't.

I do not know about others, but I have found since I have been stretching and working on depth/girth combination that my ass will create its' own lubrication. Actually if I have been playing with my didoes and plugs (I ride my DJ Atomic Bombshell Shellshock at least once every hour during the day when home) I will wear a diaper when going out because of my ass producing lubrication. If I go for 3 days without play, even though everything shrinks back to normal, I can still work my 3.5" diameter toy in within a few tries and next thing I know I self-lubricating again. I would be able to have anal sex with a guy without lube most of the time, but with toys I ALWAYS lubricate. I do not want to tear or put undue stress on the muscles or sensitive skin in my rectum.

Always lots of lube and patience....getting a woman to submit that has been dry fucked is really difficult....someone ruined a perfectly willing woman by insisting on "no lube", just a wet finger or glob of spit.

I have enjoyed anal with women that were adamant this it would be too painful....but after copious amounts of lube and slow fingering....no issues.

You will need lubrication to have anal sex you have to use a lubrication to insert a tampon so something larger you have to use a lubricant don't try anal sex without lubricant