Sex with the lights off, dim or bright?

I prefer to have sex with the lights bright or dim. I love seeing my gf's naked body! She on the other had seems to prefer sex with the lights off.

When I was with my ex we usually did it at night with dimmed light coming in from the window, but that was then.

nowadays, I'm by my own, my room is painted black, except for one wall, the one where my headboard is, is red. Both windows have red curtains that leave the light outside. I have a light track system on my ceiling with five spotlight's and they all have 25watt red light bulbs in it, attached to a dimmer, but its already dim light on full power.

this to me is an nice sexual atmosphere, whether in alone playing with my toys or with someone.

all my furniture is also black, and my bed sheet s are black and red.

I guess you all know my favorite colors, just look at my avatar ?

BTW since I work nights, I do sleep during the day, depending my daytime schedule, either in the mornings or afternoons.

In the house it does not matter if its dark, dim, lights on or during the day. If we are at the lake house and doing it out on the dock, we wait until the sun goes down. The end of the dock is somewhat out in the open and the cover of darkness is what keeps us from being exhibitionists. It is just naughty enough to make it so much fun though especially if my husband is in the water and I'm sitting on the edge of the dock getting oral from him. I just have to remember to be quiet because sound travels so well over water. lol!

Dimmed Lights.. Sets the mood

I like to see. Dim - > bright for me.

I don't have a preference.

Lights on but not harshly so

My preference would be candlelight, bright enough to see expressions and casting shadows. Daylight can be nice and my qualms about being naked in 'good' light have long been eased. But I don't care for bright, artificial light - especially overhead - it's too distracting and well, clinical?? Go figure - 😃

Being in the dark is just fine (for plain old get down fuck me sex). Though candle light adds a bit of romance to the whole sexual experience. Daylight is just too harsh. Two kids, love for desserts makes for a plush sized Miss. But if that is the time I and sub have to have to make love then I won't pass it up. Passing anytime up to have a great physical connection like that is just plain wrong.

Lights on or dimmed, being able to see her body is part of what arouses me

I always preferred dim light, such as one lamp on the lowest setting. In changing positions it helps avoid collisions between elbows and noses.

Me and my husband like having sex with the lights on, he likes to see everything going on and see me naked, he really likes looking at my vagina

Definitely lights on.

I think it is better to see everything. Seeing is the most important sense of our five senses and I want to use it during sex. There are times when you may look away or close your eyes but overall I like to see the person's entire naked body- that in itself is a turn on.

My wife and I like having the lights on to some degree for she is very visual, be it candle light, lamp lighting or just the T.V. Once I came to this understanding of just how visual some women can be I put a five by five foot mirror on the ceiling over top of my king size bed and another one on the wall to the right of the bed. My wife always says she love seeing my beautiful body on top of her and how that turns her on even more. I love seeing her facial expressions and looking into her eyes, OMG that is so hot.

Like Emom , we have a lake house in Maine and there is no A.C. there and it is much like camping. on really hot nights we go out to the dock to make out under the cover of the darkness, you must be really quiet because the sound travels very well over water as we found out the next day when a friend of ours ask if that was us out on the dock last night. The only other time we make out with the light out is when we are tent camping.

Lights off but with candles placed to reflect the many mirrors in our bedroom. nothing like flickering candles or the flickering open fireplace to make it even more romantic. romance is all about the little things and sahara and i are both very romantic.

Lights on, L want to see everything.

Typically we have the nightstand light on, but we have done it in dim and darkness.

Come to think of it we haven't done it in dim or dark at all in probably 6 months. Being in the dark is a little more adventurous.

I prefer to have sex with the lights dim. It sets the mood. Play some really romantic soft music and take time to enjoy each other.

I like sex with the lights on, not real bright. But I like to see my partner's body, especially her breasts while we are having sex.

Lights reallly dim , i dont know why but I kind of feel very uncomfortable with lights being bright. When having normal sex without kinks i really enjoy with lights off :-))

and when having kinky then dim lights :-)

I have always preferred sex with the lights on. I think that being able to see your partner is an important component of a good sexual experience. Some of the best sex I have had was in the morning with natural light streaming through the blinds. There was one time what we had a secluded balcony at a rental condo in Hawaii and we could never duplicate that experience.

I like to have some lighting, but not necessarily glaring bright. I guess being Male I am very visual and like to be able to see my wife's body while we are making love. However if it is nighttime and the lights are really bright it seems to kill the mood a little, so soft lighting is preferred.

With my wife it's usually light from the television.

Or whatever light is coming through the blinds if it is a morning hand job.

For solo play, I like lots of light - especially if I'm recording video on my iPhone.

Any light but off is fine with me.

I like to have Sex with dim lights cause it makes my girlfriend relax and cozy, but the amount of light should be enough to see her facial expressions while we are making out and I love the sight of her nakedness as she looks exceptionally cute without anything on.

When we are doing foreplay or orals bright light is fine with us.

I like to have the lights on dim, but bright enough so i can fully enjoy seeing a womans bits and her facial expressions as I'm doing oral on her. 😜

I greatly enjoy afternoon sex with sunlight streaming in through the windows.

Usually dim the lights. If its pitch black out, then just leave the night light on. I'm not a fan of having sex in bright light. I think it takes away from the mood.

Dim, fully lit or sunny afternoon. I enjoy the view of a woman.

Usually dim, it sets the mood better IMO. I have had sex in the middle of the night in near complete darkness when I've fantasized that a stranger is ravishing me.