Sex with the lights off, dim or bright?

Do you like to have sex with the lights off, dim or bright?

I'm talking about good old fashioned sex in your favorite orifices.

I am NOT talking about MedFet, e-stim, enemas or activities where you obviously need some degree of lighting.

All of the options are acceptable, but if I can choose I prefer dimmed lights. There is something great about shadows, having to rely more on tact, and reacting to moans and changes in breathing.

Yes, I like sex with the lights off, dim or bright

I prefer lights on. I like seeing her.

I do prefer with the lights on or some what on. I am comfortable with body and very much like to see my partners body. This is not always the case for my partner.

Interesting question. It really does not matter I guess. We tend to do it in the afternoon most of the time anyway, as we are both awake and not spent. Sex is too good to waste for the tail end of your day when you are all worn out and falling asleep. But, that being said once in a while we will roll around at night. She will roll over and grab me and we go at it. It is kind of fun in the dark too. About the only time we have never went after each other is in the AM. She is decidedly not a morning person...

Dim or darkness - it is the realm of the imagination, with odd and unexpected thoughts that seem to come from nowhere, when ideas and images come of their accord and you can drift off into all kinds of imaginings and fantasies ... it's easier to dream into a special scenario of the mind in the dark, than under harsh light.

Darkness also hides many small imperfections from immediate sight: stray body hair, blemishes, rashes and all other kinds of unsightly distractions.

Why do you think that professional girls work in dim, preferably red-lighted rooms? It makes things look better.

Bright enough so I can see the body of the person I am having sex with, but not too light so if I look up I am not blinded by the glare of the light.

We usually have sex with the lights on-either natural light during the day or lights on at night. We like seeing each other and what we are doing.

The only time we don't have lights on is if we both happen to wake up in the middle of the night and decide to have sex.

We (my husband and I) don't really care, we're not exactly going to make an effort to switch on/off the lights if the mood strikes. We just get down to business regardless of the situation re: lighting.

I like to see who I have sex with so please let the lifhts on. Gentle light it is for me, but normally you hopefully hüave that in your bedroom. I love daylight especially sunshine the most.

I like to see my partner when having sex.

I like it either way if its good sex is sex..

Variety is the spice of life. It's never been so dark that I haven't been able to see her at least some. I like spontaneity, which means that light levels will differ.

I prefer some light. Candle light is good or Christmas lights ( I also love that time of year so maybe that's why liked the multi colored lights) not a fan of sex in complete darkness. I want to see her facial expressions and see her body as well as hear her breathing.

Prefer dimmed lights/candles. Great to have a little light to see what you are doing.

I need some light, I like to see what I'm eating. 🙄 . Darkness could always be accomplished with a blindfold, if she prefers.

I prefer dimmed lights or candles when I have time to setup the room.

Lighting does not really matter to me. My wife does not really like the lights dimmed so if it is in the evening, it is lights off for her benefit. We don't avoid sex during the day or draw the drapes to keep the natural light out if the mood strikes. I must say that my least favorite was in the bright afternoon sun. We had prepared a picnic lunch that we were going to enjoy on a secluded part of her parents farm with very slim chance for interruption, we even had to ride the motorcycle to the spot. Once we got there, I was the first to strip naked after laying down the blanket. After lunch, the foreplay started along with the exploration of each others bodies under the harsh sunlight. The sun was not very flattering to our little blemishes, etc. Every mole, freckle, scar, zit, and spot jumped right out at you. To the other extreme, moon light has always flattered the two of us very much. Candles come in a close second to moonlight.

Lights on, off, or dim does not matter to me so long as we are having sex. Some of the best sex my husband and I ever had was before we had children and vacationed at a resort in the Caribbean. We had been upgraded to a suite that had a terrace shielded from the rooms on either side and got to enjoy sex out there morning, noon, and night. LOL, what fun.

If you do not know what you are eating.......that may be a problem.........just thinking.

Lights on I want to see my partners beautiful body.

Before I met Doc I would never have sex with the lights on. But since him, I really only like to have sex with the lights on. I enjoy seeing all of him and him me. For us vanilla kinky sex is with the lights off, lol.

Mashie

Always with the light on fairly bright...I'm very visual and I love to see what's going in to me and coming out slimy...it turns me right on.

Candle light for me but as long as I'm with my sweety I don't care!

I like it dim so it has a more romantic ambiance!

Dim - I like to see a bit and this way gives a nice romantic glow to anyone I've ever see. I'd feel too self conscious if it was bright light so would worry my partner would too.

I love having sex when there's sunlight getting into the room. My wife keeps a tan, and late day sunlight on skin is SO FUCKING HOT. Our upstairs bedroom isn't visible to any of the neighbors, but it gets ample sun during the late evening through the skylight.

Definitely with lights on, and I agree, preferably bright sunlight. I like the visuals, and if it's bright and sunny, that means that there is some risk of exposure which I like and my wife is afraid of. So it kind of adds to the excitement!

I have my room wired with a long strand of LED lights that can light the whole room any color from red, to sky blue, to jungle green, to purple, or even pink. I have a few blacklights too that can be used in combination with the LEDs or can be used alone. Lighting a room is kind of my thing. As far as favorites go, I think variety is the spice of life, so a new color each time is a lot of fun (or even changing the color mid act). The only thing I don't like very much is lights fully off, I really like to admire the girl's body