Men - Would you rather have short and fat or long and thin?

A long skinny erect penis (8+ inches, 4 inches in circumference), or a short fat erect penis (Equal to or less than 5 inches, 8 inches in circumference ... also known as a beer can dick). Or something in between. Or keep what you have? I guess I don't really care as long as it "works".

A long skinny erect penis (8+ inches, 4 inches in circumference), or a short fat erect penis (Equal to or less than 5 inches, 8 inches in circumference

EIGHT inches in circumference???

Have you done the math on that?

You literally described a 12 ounce coke/beer can.

I don't think there are too many of those around, and don't think most women would appreciate them either.

Most women don't want extremes.

EIGHT inches in circumference???

A medical doctor mentioned something like that... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXE_FiyAgQw

^^^^ Pretty funny!

Well ... I did refer to a beer can on the eight inch circumference; I think this qualifies as truth in advertising.

^^^^ Yes, it does.

I know I have never had one of those inside me. I'm not sure of I ever saw one of those either.

I have what I have. It's about 6 " when fully erect. I have always enjoyed sexual intercourse with both male and female partners. I know as a male I would like to have a "huge" dick, but I have what I've been given. I have found out that the women I've been with always enjoy my technique rather than my size. If they know you want to be with them and enjoy what you both share, in my opinion, we both had a good time. MRay.

I guess I am what I am, too. Happily for me my wife says that she likes girth better than length.

I'll keep what I have. I have only ever made love to one woman: it'll be our Golden Wedding in a few months' time. The penis I have produces what turns me on the most - that is the noise my wife makes when I enter her, and the look on her face when she cums. I am above average, but that's really not the point (pun intentional)!

Johnny

I LOVE a nice big dick, i am really lucky my boyfriend is pretty well endowed!

I just enjoy what I have. I just wish age and health hadn't taken such a toll on my function.

I'll keep what I have even though its only 4.5 X 4.5.

Well I am average of length and diameter and have been quite happy with what I have. But I don't think large diameter is better than length.

I love to do anal penetration (and be penetrated), and having a wide dick in most cases would not be very comfortable to a person who has to take a wide penis. I know there are people out there that can take large objects but for most having something that isn't too wide will likely make anal penetration feel more pleasurable.

So longer over wider would be my preference.

I could have wrote your post word for word ProV1. And agree with you 100%.

At the end of the day, we all have to keep what we have. I know no one who has spent a fortune on enlargement potions, and machines that make you longer, stronger and last for days, who was satisfied with the outcome. There probably are some, but I haven't met one. I believe that the true indicator of your success or not is in the reaction of your partner. If it's honest and is positive then you have a winner. If not, then it's time to open up lines of communications to find out what you can do with what you have to make them satisfied.

I keep what I have which is long and thicker than 4"

I'd opt for the eight inch model, on a good day I am five inches.

I would rather have more of the latter

Can't i just get an extra one the same size as the one i got. Just mount it underneath please 😃

Maybe throw a couple inches on for good measure 😃

I'd take the wider one. My wife says she loves my dick but I'm sure she'd love it more if there were more of it.

I'm happy with what I've got. Although it's definitely easier to feel that way when you have a girlfriend who loves it's size (thick, but not all that long).

I think I have something in between, which I suspect is good. My wife likes the feeling of tightness that the extra girth provides. She never mentioned length. So I guess if she is happy, then I am happy.

Isn't it about time you went metric on this? ..😃 😃

First advantage would be that they all seem longer. Second advantage is that more people would be able to visualize the length and width much better.

I'm fine with my 7 inches, especially being on the short side (~5'9"). Occasionally I may see someone who's bigger on a video or something and feel inferior. Sometimes I wish I were black just to uphold that particular stereotype, but am thankful I'm not from an ethnic background that uphold it's below average size stereotype. Although I've heard the girth is what's really important to stimulate a woman, and I'm comfortable and satisfied with how much of it and how far I get in.

This is a question which begs more than a simple answer from me. There is a great deal of truth in the old saying : "There's more to things than meets the eye." I would start with one of the real keys to happiness: Being grateful for what one has and if one finds in a partner, what one's chosen partner has! I have not found it surprising that two people who really find each other exciting, stimulating and enticing - which is to say Sexy, are inevitably happy with each other top to bottom.

I feel that ultimately it is a question of Acceptance. For some it can be a 'short matter' to which they take 'too a long to cum' to grips with. For others it is a rather long problem to which 'they cum too quickly'. The real question is: "What is Too"?. It is expectations which are usually Too big or Too small. These expectations of success or failure have kept many men in the delusion that size and shape are more important than substance and performance.

Archetypical images of beauty exclude the dynamics of personal chemistry and sexual performance. It also 'cums' down to what roles they enjoy performing. The best of partners never asks needs or wants more than one has to offer (or less). I have found men 'packing a lot' have little else too offer than their bodies. Whereas, those who 'cum with a little' can offer much that is infinitely more satisfying.

In the end, all men who live long enough will have to realize that it is neither size nor performance but Function which is Everything - not only with their penises but with the rest of their bodies as well. Men who are preoccupied with the size and shape of their and other mens' bodies are impressed and try to impress in ways which I find superficial. I personally will take a guy with kind eyes a winning smile and a beguiling personality who accepts himself and will accept others for who they are.

I'd like a little more, but! I've never had complaints, not sure how some guys measure, but from where my testicles attach to the shaft, I measure 6 inches to the tip. and when fully erect I'm 6 around. so I'm 6X6. I've been told that it's not how deep you fish but how you wiggle your worm. :-)

I like it the way it is - it's bit bigger in circumference than in lenght, and it does the job ;-) but if I had a chance to "magically" change it, I would go for lenght. Not much, just an inch or two.

I am happy with what nature gave me. 6x6 is perfect for my wife. She is very tight and has a shallow vagina. If I were any bigger in either direction she would only experience discomfort. In our early days we used to be at it like a pair of oversexed rabbits and try different positions. We tried a number of positions that allowed deeper thrust however I connected with the neck of her uterus, causing pain. Of course we struck those positions off our list.

Her previous boyfriend was longer & thinner and she had very little sensation except for being poked in the neck of her uterus, which gave her the same pain described above.

Guess it goes to show that people can be sexually compatible, even if they don't have the longest penis.

When she says "Oh my cervix" you know it is long enough! 😃

I would dearly love to have what I HAD.. Probably 6x6 as described below. I guess I've just worn him out completely, but what fun we had!!