Men - Would you rather have short and fat or long and thin?

Well I say mine is about 6" but it's really 5 1/2 " and about 5" circumference. I think that's about average and I've never had any complaints! Everyone seems to think an 8 incher is desirable but for me I'd be frightened i impaled somebody! There are also the issues over comfort and 6 inches is just right I think!

I love my cock size. I wouldn't trade it for anything. It's 7 inches long and 6 inches thick

I'm assuming you mean it is 6 inches in circumference and not diameter.

I'm quite content with mine. 7.5 inches long, average thickness, with a slight curve to the left.

I am fine with what I have. Although when receiving I prefer a long one so I feel it deep inside of me.Also is it is narrow it would go down my throat better.

I often fantasize about having a fat meaty cock. Probably as much for my pleasure than anything. Once in a while, my wife likes to be stretched wide - about once a month or so. For those times we have a nice VixSkin Maverick silicone dildo - and more recently this Vixen silicone sleeve, "Colossus"

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It feels great to wear and with a little imagination, makes me feel like I'm hung with a real monster cock - about 2.5" wide when I have it on.

But I now know that having a cock that size would limit the amount of sex and various positions we currently enjoy. My wife's new favorite activity is to use our Magic Wand while I fuck her with about 3 or 4 inches of lean cock. This seems to rub just the right spot to compliment the powerful vibrations on her clit, while letting me enjoy them on the base of my shaft.

But what really sends her to the moon is to have me planted deep in her ass. My cock is around 7" long and a lean 1.5" wide. To us, it seems to be the perfect anal probe. Her orgasms are crazy intense when I'm fucking her ass and the wand is doing its magic.

I think that in a long term relationship, the woman adapts to the size of her partner - whether large or small.

I always am attracted to a heavy, meaty cock. But I'm very well satisfied with what I have - 7.5" average girth, cut, with a slight left curve. As a teen I was very self-conscious of the curve. Friends I had played with were all very straight. In my 20's I met a fellow who's cock curved significantly downward (Peyronies Disease). Soft is was unnoticeable. Hard, the curve was dramatic. He could still fuck me with it; it wasn't uncomfortable on my part and apparently not uncomfortable on his part. From what I could tell, he was not self-conscious of it. After seeing his cock, my slight curve to the left didn't bother me at the least anymore. It's amazing how life puts things in perspective for us.

The bigger the better just doesn't seem to be the way to go in this case. Just to be practical about it: if you are into penetrative anal sex, no matter which gender it is, a thinner penis would be the better way to go, especially for the partner.

Keep what I have. It's been reliable, and I've not gotten complaints

I would agree with the comment that the bigger is not always the better. I met a young man a few years ago whose penis was about the largest in girth I've ever seen. I have pretty long fingers and could not wrap around it touching index finger to thumb. Sucking it was a challenge. Anal would have been a challenge, but he was not interested. He was straight but liked getting fucked. He had a girl friend. But he had only fucked her once. She said he was too big, and it hurt. At that point all they did was some oral and mutual masturbation. He was a fine fellow. I wonder where he is today.

Long and skinny

The bigger the better just doesn't seem to be the way to go in this case. Just to be practical about it: if you are into penetrative anal sex, no matter which gender it is, a thinner penis would be the better way to go, especially for the partner.

Au contraire mom ami- as a woman who has a lot of anal sex, bigger IS better. Much bigger is MUCH better.

I'll keep what I have thank you very much 😜

I forget the tv series but it was 2 guys testing stupid inventions for a company. One of them was the guy having the world's largest dick and he was only able to use it for less then... what was it 30 seconds? He passed out because there wasn't enough blood in his body to keep him awake. That always pops in my head any time someone is thinking "I need mine to be bigger". I don't need mine to be bigger I like it just how it is all things considered. I feel that if I was to change any part of me it might through some other part of me out of wack and thus begin this cycle of never being just right.

If you're wondering in the end he opted to to back to being normal him with what ever size he had. That show always made me think even though they could literally have anything they ever wanted nothing was better then what they had. There was always something they found to be a problem and wanted things to go back to how they were. But they also signed a contract so they weren't allowed to just stop testing things.

The ideal penis length I think is different for vaginal and anal penetration and highly dependent on the person being penetrated--their body size and shape, and what they like.

My wife complains sometimes that I'm too long for her vaginally. I have to be careful with certain positions when I'm really hard. If my dick were longer we wouldn't enjoy vaginal sex as much, but anal might be better.

Good sex in my opinion involves a lot more than penetrative stimulation. My wife and I permanently removed all our pubic hair so we could always be ready to experience the thrill of our well lubed and hairless pubes pressing, sliding, and slapping together with me inside her. Too long a dick ruins the fun for vaginal sex.

But does it for anal? My wife never complains that I'm too long for anally, and she and I both like long dildos up our butts, (10 to 18 inches). I've never had a guy's penis inside me, but like Buttwoman, I'm confident I'd love a long one, maybe a very, very long one.

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Shorter and thicker.

I hit the cervix quite a few times and I'm an average length guy. For backdoor play, at first thinner might be less scary, but soon bigger is better.

As for myself, I'm with buttwoman; my butt likes 'em long and fat!

I think ideal penile size would be 8.5" long and 5.5" in circumference with a big head and a prominent rim at the corona and a tight circumcision.

I'm happy with what I have, and have always considered myself average. When my current partner first commented on my cock, as she was playing with it, she said " It's chubby".

That was such an odd comment, it sounded spontaneous to me. I concluded that her late husband must have had a thinner one, since that was her only basis for comparison.

To my great amusement a couple of years later, I learned that she and her two sisters were discussing their partners penises, and she was trying to find the correct English word, ((she's Francophone). Her sister came up with "girth", and they all agreed. I found it vaguely erotic that they were sitting over coffee, with my cock being the main topic of conversation. 😁

My penis is short but very thick when hard.

I don't really care about comparing to other men or measuring . I figured I was average, and had never heard any complaints either way. From reading women's posts here and other places it seems wider had more of a positive impact on their pleasure than longer and bumping into their cervix.

Id much rather be average and be able to have more comfortable and pleasurable anal sex than being told 'it'll never fit' when trying to penetrate a willing sexy ass! If she likes it it's much more likely that we'll be doing it again, and since anal is my favorite, that s very important!!

I'm good with what I've got. To my girlfriend my length and thickness are both good. No need to wish for anything different. Wouldn't want to be Mister Softy in 10 years because of having one that was too big to get hard when I'm older. Wouldn't want my girlfriend to look at it and say it was too thick to go in or suck either. Don't think bigger always means better.

I'd take length... but I am not looking to please a women, for women girth is better than length for pleasure I am told. For guys on the receiving end most are deeper the better. i am 6x5 cut so little above average length and healthy thickness (although i ran into one guy who told me he was 8 inches and when he saw i was identical to him told me he was usually longer, a friend told me I should have asked where the size control was on it).

Short and fat--seems women prefer thickness over length. I have a little of both worlds--I am 6 inches erect, about average, but very thick, over 5 inches in girth. BUT--we have what we have, and there really is not much changing that!

A group of women were looking for a hotel and the concierge was showing them around the five floor hotel. This hotel was for women looking to be with men for the night.

The concierge said, on the first floor, we have men who are short and thin. The women were not impressed so they went to the second floor. The women were told, on this floor we have men who are short and thick. Again, they were not happy so they were taken to the third floor where they were told the men were long and thin. The women were still not impressed and they were taken to the fourth floor where they were told the men were long and thick. Still not ready to make a decision, the women asked about the men on the fifth floor. They were told there are no men on the fifth floor. The moral of the story is that there is NO WAY to satisfy a woman.

Best if they like it, better if they come back for more.

My penis is relatively small. It doesn’t get erect the way it used to. I guess that’s just from age. My urologist has me on testosterone replacement and cialis, but neither make me as hard as I would get in my 20s.

I’m ok with the small size, but it would be nice to be able to get a really hard erection again.

I haven't had any form of erection for about 6 or 7 years. My diabetes has made me impotent and incontinent.

Lots of my fantasies revolve around getting fellatio, and I always dream about being twice as long as I am, because then I could maybe test her gag reflex.

I think it comes down to the target environment. The problem with 'thick' is some women can't get it in their mouths, so if you're a blowjob aficionado, that could be a serious deal breaker. They're meant to birth children, the typical head of a newborn being powers of ten thicker than a cock.

Long can be painful for a lot of women (@Buttwoman aside). My previous GF's ex-husband was some freakish length like 10" with standard girth. She said it literally hurt when he fucked her because her cervix was basically getting destroyed. On the other hand, if you're into big-booty cuties, a lengthy crankshaft can compensate for the extra padding in the way in certain positions.

And of course, there's always cock(!)tail party bragging rights. No one brags about girth anywhere near as much as length. From what little porn I've seen, it seems length is usually promoted far more than girth.

I think it comes down to the target environment. The problem with 'thick' is some women can't get it in their mouths, so if you're a blowjob aficionado, that could be a serious deal breaker. They're meant to birth children, the typical head of a newborn being powers of ten thicker than a cock.

Long can be painful for a lot of women (@Buttwoman aside). My previous GF's ex-husband was some freakish length like 10" with standard girth. She said it literally hurt when he fucked her because her cervix was basically getting destroyed. On the other hand, if you're into big-booty cuties, a lengthy crankshaft can compensate for the extra padding in the way in certain positions.

And of course, there's always cock(!)tail party bragging rights. No one brags about girth anywhere near as much as length. From what little porn I've seen, it seems length is usually promoted far more than girth.

No no no no. A little math and data here. Sorry to be a stickler. NOT!

A BIG / fat "BEER CAN" cock would be 2.6" in diameter or 8.2" in circumference.

A newborn's head is 13.5" in circumference.

So a newborn's head is not powers of ten thicker than a cock.

It's just about five times thicker than a FAT cock.

I will agree that getting a beer can INTO my mouth to suck on and lick it would be a real trick.