Do you prefer a male or a female Enema GIVER?

Always a female. I'm sure that there is nothing wrong with M/M but to me a lady that is in control of the nozzle is much more comfortable for me.

Definitely female

I mentioned earlier I'd need a woman to give me enemas, and preferably one who was good at giving them as a Domme since I enjoy submissive enemas. Others here have requested women givers, but that they are either soft, gentle and encouraging or firm. A gentle woman giving me an enema would no doubt be pleasant and rewarding, but as most enemas are very sexual to me, I think I'd still prefer a good Domme with whom I can interact and enjoy the D/s dynamic of her enema orders and discipline.

Eric

I definitely prefer female enema giver. I prefer gentle treatment.

I have only ever either self administered or, more recently, been given them by my girlfriend. I must say that the thought of anyone other than a female giving me an enema does absolutely nothing for me.

Definitely prefer getting an enema from opposite sex. I fantasize about having a female nurse give me a digital rectal exam. When I’ve had male doctors do the exam it’s been a complete turn off. I’m sure that if a male doctor had to give me an enema it would also be a turn off.

While I have good friends that are gay, the thought of another male touching me is not a good feeling.

A woman who is stern. Love a hard spanking before the enema.

It doesn't matter to me. It's the embarrasement that excites me. A female , or a male would be embarrasing, so either would do.

Has to be an authority figure and who enjoys giving me an enema. Given the choice, prefer a woman, but a man will do.

Strict female enema giver for me.

My ultimate fantasy would be from a mature matronly nurse or a female playing the part of a nurse and I have experienced exactly that. It was wonderful. Having said all that I have had an enema from a male and it was great too. It all comes down to attitude and whether or not both parties are enjoying it.That's important.

Although I have never had someone give me an enema (except when i was a child) I usually administer it myself . I find that both would be equally good and I would like them to be firm. If I had to choose someone I would chose a man who can give me a few spanks while getting the enema.

The only enema givers I have experienced have been female. When I meet women, I always ask myself whether I would like to have them give me an enema. Some are yeses and others are nos.

I would prefer a woman to administer an enema. Expecting that I would be controlled at every step. Totally restrained and at her mercy. I think about being filled slowly as she teased me. Touching her body as she filled me and watched I was helpless, knowing that I wanted more. Never touching after I was restrained. Only contact was the insertion of the nozzle and the click of the control. Left totally helpless with nothing to wait for except the water to trickle into my belly.

Female. Wife.

I prefer a tender and loving woman just like my mother who used to give me enemas as a child.

I would say most men would want a woman to administer an enema.

I would like to see what are the women responses.

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I prefer a tender and loving woman just like my mother who used to give me enemas as a child.

I would say most men would want a woman to administer an enema.

I would like to see what are the women responses.

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25 different women responded. You should read the entire thread.

Nothing beats a woman wearing latex gloves administering an enema

When growing up I preferred that my mom give me an enema. It was ok for my grandmother but I felt better having my mom administer it. After I married, I prefer that my husband give me my enemas but have to admit it is a whole different feeling as it usually ends up sexual in nature!! I still think fondly on those days when mom gave enemas to me twice a week. And still does just every once in awhile. Denise

I prefer a female giving me an enema like my wife did last night. She gave me 4 quarts of water with two different bags and nozzles. I've never considered a male giving me an enema. During the enema she jerked me off until I came.

I have yet to meet anyone willing to administer, but I would find a guy would be nice for such. Especially if they have quite the assortment of gear.

I have ' received ' from both men and women and as to an administrator ( GIVER ) I prefer a woman hands down . This is not to say that I have not received some ' good ' enemas from men . I am saying that in my opinion , women have much more of a soft , gentle , empathetic and intuitive ' touch ' as administrators that men do not possess . Same procedure ….. same results . O.K. ….. ' I get that ' but for the intimacy , empathy , conversation prior to and during the administration of the enema and eroticism I much prefer the attentive touch of a very experienced ' enema-tress ' over a gentleman . I prefer to ' give ' to women , and have , rather than a man but admittedly I have ' given ' to both sexes again ……… same orifice and same results …… but there is just something I can't define that attracts me to women when in a ' give / receive ' enema scenario as to my personal preference as to a ' giver ' . Just sayin' ……………...

I love the embarrassment and humiliation of getting an enema from a woman, but she needs to be a trusted Domme or switch acting Domme. I'm too straight - men not permitted if I want to enjoy it.

Eric

Only female enema giver would do, and I like gentle enema giver, who is even going extra mile, by little things like: lubing my anus/ever inserting finger into asshole or just outside, then pushing tip/nozzle slowly and gently and finally asking me: how I feel, if I feel any cramps and if so/stopping the flow of solution.

I would like a loving but firm woman.

I met a woman from my office some years back. She told me about her colonics.

Also said she now had a bag which she used on her hubby.

She was a fine no nonsense person that I think about from time to time. And would love to get one from her.

I would love to have an enema giver. I am bisexual plus I didn’t even know that enemas existed growing up and in my adult life my only experiences have been solo. To have someone who will turn my fantasies into reality is what I dream of - male or female, you are equally desired.

A firm and demanding partner bring out the best of me and my mind and body (like always) will react in delight to strict dominance.

(It goes against my grain to switch roles and it will be an uncomfortable and awkward situation to be with someone with an expectation to receive enemas from me in return.)

I dedicate this post to all of us with unfulfilled sexy dreams - may our dreams come true x

It depends on what else is being done to me.

A female (my wife) if she is going to give me the mommy treatment. A diaper, rubber pants, breastfeeding, etc.

A male if the enema is to clean me out before fucking me in the ass afterwards. Which after that usually follows a monmy treatment.

(It goes against my grain to switch roles and it will be an uncomfortable and awkward situation to be with someone with an expectation to receive enemas from me in return.)

My exact feeling too - I enjoy getting enemas, as I've mentioned, from a person who does so because they like giving them and making taking them.

I would love to have a woman give me an enema. She could fill me up, pull on my nipples and after filling me up, she could refill my enema buckets and then help me masturbate. I would enjoy that very much.

I don't think I would enjoy a guy doing the same thing. Somehow I don't ever see that happening. Maybe years ago it might have happened, but now that is not going to happen.

Only had female nurses give enemas to me so far. Currently I am exchanging enemas with my colleague nurse and I not sure I would want male enema giver. I believe females tend to be much more gentle.