Do you prefer a male or a female Enema GIVER?

I love it for a male to give me enemas. They do it the best!!! Im into males anyways lol

I have only been enema'ed by women (or myself). Some were erotic, some were more of a strict medical role. I'm able to take a more volume when a female is giving me an enema vs going solo. Maybe I'm trying to impress them! All of my enemas from females were from pro-domes/role players.

Male to Male only for me.

Dan

Being straight I would ONLY have a female giver, given that any enemas I take would be for pleasure. And since I have no 'S' in me the giver would be kind and gentle - just 2 people doing kinky things to each other for fun. When I give, it can be either the same, or in a dominant fashion, depending on what kind of fun/scene we are having.

I would prefer a woman. Soft and encouraging since I take enemas for pleasure (or medical need) not punishment. Afterward I van try to talk he into receiving! 😉

Type of enema being given...? soft? demanding? interesting situation recently....woman in restraints, double balloon nozzle and she's getting her enema. Her expectation was to have her clit played and climaxed as she finished her filling.

Instead, she received a clamp on her clit and no further stimulation....she took the entire bag and begged for relief...however, she had to finish and then be quiet and hold it with the clamp until I decided to let her expel....the clamp came off as she drained herself...no climax....this lead to her being somewhat pouty, but very obedient and submissive. Her reaction and subsequent behavior was priceless.

Only women need apply to be my enema nurse. From my young years with mom, through three girlfriends who enjoyed giving and receiving, all of my enemas have been given by a woman. I would say the majority of enema sessions as an adult have ended with love making, which to me is the perfect ending (or beginning!) to a perfect day.

I would always want a woman. Preferably even for medical necessity enema. But I guess in a medical setting it wouldn't be uncomfortable if it was a male giving it. The only female givers for me have been ones giving me a colonic. These felt good, but were too clinical to have been an exciting one - and probably just as well. One colonic was by a male naturopathic doctor. That was ok in that setting but still would have preferred a female.

I would prefer a female but would be very open to receive from a male. I like soft and encouraging but a little assertive at times.

Female. So many ch more fun

I definitely prefer a female nurse to give me enemas.

Male only for sure

I’ve reexamined my position on this. I do highly perfer an enthusiastic lady to give to me, i like to return the favor. I can assume the role of nurse for a man and he can be my nurse, if the chemistry’s right. Separating the enema from traditional sex acts can lead to relaxed dates.

Female only?

It makes no difference to me. Anything or anyone is better than solo which is my case now. As to gentle or firm, it also makes no difference to me. I am very flexible.

Definitely male. I prefer them to be firm but I like that in general

I would much prefer a female Nurse in a hospital scene, but I would not turn down a couple and maybe not even a man. I would prefer the enema (preferably several enemas) to be part of a medical scene, perhaps a full physical exam. Part of the scene could be soapsuds enemas until clear to prep for a barium enema. But realistically I doubt that will ever happen. I would need to know them well to build up that trust necessary to be exposed like that and participate in such an intimate procedure. Then I would like to be the enema giver and return the "favor".

I would definitely prefer a guy who enjoys enemas giving me enemas and I would like to return the favor.

I think men know how to please men best.

I would prefer to have a women give me an enema, but would consider a male provider. Up until a few years ago, I would not have considered a man giving me an enema, and not exactly sure why, but I thought I would entertain the idea. A few years ago, a fellow Zity member from out of town contacted me and asked me if I would like to get together with him for some enema time. I thought about and although my e-time would be limited with him, I would like to meet him at his hotel and we could exchange a couple of fills. I had a spare enema bag that I was willing to donate to a good cause and brought that with me as he did not bring his. To make a long story short, I arrived at the hotel with a sealed box in hand full of enema gear. For some reason, he was not at the hotel when I arrived and had taken the bus to the other side of town for lunch. As my time was limited, I had no choice but to leave and as a nice gesture, left him the box full of gear for him to enjoy.

That has been my only opportunity to have experienced an enema with a man, and sadly did not pan out. Maybe someday there will be another chance.

I have only done my enemas alone, but honestly if there were anyone giving it to me I wouldn’t care what gender they were. It’s hard to find people that have the same kinks anywhere near me, much less finding one I could trust that much. Firm or sweet, cruel or supportive, it would just be nice to find a person I could open up to that much.

Either a male or female works for me. My mom was the one who administered growing up. She was firm and did not tolerate nonsense with them. As an adult, I have had them administered by me by both men and women. I do prefer firm and dominate individual who will be hard me, if I don’t cooperate. Even as an adult, I find having to strip down and cooperate for enema humiliating. It is the submission aspect of it with choice that it is going to happen. Even though it is consensual ahead of time.

Ot tried. But tom has suggested I do. Will reseach on line

Ot tried. But tom has suggested I do. Will reseach on line

What does that mean?

So Mondays are my "clean out day" and I usually fly solo but I do prefer a female giver, and every now and again I have a female friend, who I discovered in college is in to enemas, come to town and we partake in enemas together. She is usually a soft and gentle giver as I am when giving to her, but today she must have been feeling a bit dominate. We always let the giver control the details of each enema but always go easy on each other. She gave me a smaller volume enema to begin with (1qt plain water) but then insisted that I take a much larger soapier enema (3qt Dr. Bs peppermint soap, enough that the water was as white and thick as milk) she used an inflatable plug style nozzle and gave the bulb a few extra pumps, the inflation was a stretch! She also had me hold it longer than usual, we normally allow each other to go when the urge hits, but not today she told me to hold it longer, 5 minutes longer after the urge to go had already hit. unknowingly to me she wanted me really cleaned out good be cause after my enema session she decided she would like to use a new strapon she purchased on me. Not our norm but I went with it. Now im cleansed and the prostate has been massaged, asshole is a little sore, but while she is normally gentle..... I think I like the new firm side of her?

I have never experienced it, but I am very open to a firm assertive male male experience

Female/woman only. Straight as an arrow male here. Once had a male colonic therapist give me a commercial colonic, and though it felt good, I enjoyed it much less than any of the others I'd had from female therapists or enemas from female Domme exes. Enemas are strictly for fun and arousal, so it'll always be a woman for me if I'm not solo.

Eric

That’s easy, a straight female...

That’s easy, a straight female...

And a bi female would be okay with me, also.

Never had anyone give me an enema. Maybe early on in my life someone gave me one, but I don't remember.

There are a couple of women I have know, I wish they would have given me an enema.

Always female, i.e. woman as noted earlier, but preferably Domme or Switch (I switch), as being sub for receiving enemas adds an extra level of satisfaction. I've really enjoyed colonics I've had from straight/non-D/s therapists who were women, but the addition of having a known trusted Domme give one adds a whole layer of enjoyment to an enema or colonic.

Eric