Enemas come in two forms: Erotic and Punishment

I can only recall one enema that was ever given to me as punishment. And to tell you the truth-I deserved it! I was about eleven or twelve at the time and I had gone to a neighbor's house, a retarded man who lived with his Mom and had scratched on his bedroom floor - "Mom, I want you to give me a big, hot, soapy, enema." I do not know why I did it.... Especially knowing that Tommy's Mom knew that he couldn't read or write. So, anyway, his Mother found it and called my Mom. My Mom went over to their house and checked it out. I watched her leave our house, go across the street, and enter Tommy's house. I knew that I was in deep do do! I went to my room and lay down on my bed to await Mom's return. Which, by the way did not take long. Upon, Mom's return, I heard the door open, then slam shut! Then, my bedroom door opened and Mom entered my room! She screamed "Mike, how could you? I am so embarrassed!" She grabbed my arm and yanked me out of my bed, drug me out of my room, through the dining room to her bathroom screaming "So, you want your Mother to give you a big, hot, soapy enema, do you? Well, son, you are going to get it! and believe me, you will not forget it!" With that said, Mom opened the small, white, towel cabinet and pulled out her Rexall Victoria Combination Syringe. She stood there shaking it at me. Then, she turned on the hot water and when she had it hot enough, she stuck the bag into the flow filling it full. Then she handed it to me and told me to hold it. She left the room and soon returned with a bottle of Ivory dishwashing liquid. She took the bottle from me, squirted some soap into the bag, screwed the adapter into the bottle, and then shook it saying "Mike, I hope Mom has it hot enough and soapy enough for you!" She then hung the bag above the toilet. I could hear the ominous sound of the water filling the hose....bloop, bloop, bloop! She then ordered me out of my cloths and then to lie over her knees. She had sat down on the toilet. She slipped in the enema pipe without any Vaseline and proceeded to give me my hot, soapy, enema. I cried and I cried. Cramp after cramp hit, but she did not stop the flow until all was in me. I guess I deserved it! Ever since, I've wanted another one just like it. But, I haven't been given one..... By the way, I also had to pay for new tile for Tommy's floor. Boo Who!

Both- erotic & punishment- are closely related and both are exhilirating to the nth degree...

You forgot to mention constipation relief enemas which can be very enjoyable.

You also left out preparatory - cleaning out for anticipated ass play later.

Erotic and punishment enemas are both enjoyable!!!

You seem to have forgotten health and medical enemas. Health such as professional colonic irrigation, medical such as pre procedure or diagnostic.

I've thought that enemas should be given for erotic or therapeutic reasons. I must admit that the idea of a punishment enema is a little off putting if it were really a punishment. In the context of bdsm play it sounds quite attractive. I would go for that!

Well I have to say I am into the style of enemas that you described as the pleasurable type. The painful approach is not my thing. I derive sexual satisfaction from pleasurable sensations and not anything associated with pain or for that matter SMBD.

I know that there is an entire mindset and role play in SMBD and I really don't know much about it but for the ones that do and like to make enemas a part of that sex play more power to them.

I guess I don't really have anything to add to all the "you forgot to mention" that precede me, except to say, that whatever the reason for taking the enema in the first place, the results are always the same.

This is a nice way to put it. Depending on the situation, I enjoy all forms of enema, with a prefference on the erotic ones..

Yes they do come in two forms to start with EROTIC & PUNISHMENT depends on which you need first.

I have always had an interest in a punishment enema from my man. Ranging from him just being stern and firm with me to including some bondage, etc. I'm not into a lot of pain though. For some reason, this has always been a fantasy of mine. My lover being a bit forceful with me and telling me what he's going to do to me and what I will be submitting to. However my preference is just sensual enemas given and received with body massages, kissing all over and just being close. Just enjoying it for what it is. Erotic and enjoyable and amazing to be able to share with the one you love.

I am all about erotic enemas! Delighting the senses with a deft touch here and a little pressure there while a nozzle presses inside my rectum drives me wild. Punishment, while erotic in some ways to some people has never been my bag!

Deb

Debgurl, love your posts and you truly know how to enjoy your enemas. Your husband is so lucky to have someone like you. I'll bet you're sensual in more ways than one. 😃 Take care, Mike

debgurl, love your posts and you truly know how to enjoy your enemas. Your husband is so lucky to have someone like you. I'll bet you're sensual in more ways than one. 😃 Take care, Mike

Thank you, Mike! On more than one occasion my husband has remarked that I'm "a piece of work"! ;-))

Deb

We've done enema for three reasons:

- (large) constipation and other conditions

- (small) clearing the rectum before anal activities

- (large) attitude adjustment.

The first "adjustment" enema that I got was in the morning after coming back drunk. I was nauseous, tired and had a headache. It was half cure (it did fix me somewhat), half punishment (instead of giving it to be in bed on the side, I was kneeling with the butt in the air and got smacks on the butt before the enema). Then after I pooped she paddled me.

So sometimes we give an enema to adjust nervousness etc.

I'm for erotic over punishment any day. When I'm given an enema I don't want to feel like I'm being punished. And I have never been into punishing my family with an enema. I think the closest was with my younger daughter, then 17, when she was so sick and bound up inside that I threatened to take her to the ER and she'd be having a "stranger" sticking a fleet enema up her behind. You can tell I was approaching punishment mode! As it turned out I was able to give her two gentle bulbs followed by about half bag and within an hour she was fine. And a big hug for me. Chalk a victory for Mom!

I am for erotic enemas only. I am into pleasure not pain and I really enjoy all aspects of enemas. When given to me by a lovely lady, they are the best. I love laying there and having her give the enemas, caress me as she gives them, etc.

Enemas....the age old question....are they given for cleansing...yes....for foreplay...yes....for punishment...yes....everyone has their preferences...the important thing I have found is that I learn what my enenmate partner enjoys...is she submissive...? would she find an enema arousing? would an enema serve as a "punishment" ...would the punishment actually be something she wanted....could one then use the enema as a true punishment by embellishing the aspects of submission....bondage....forced retention...larger volume...couple the enema with other elements...spanking....catheterizations....whatever...my overall thought is not to judge or to impart guilt....find out what they enjoy....and give it to them...

Whichever way she wants to give it to me (or receive). I'm not fussy.

Did you hear that ......... whoever you are?

Enemas can also be used in a BDSM session both as a forplay but also as the mainissue

I think punishment enemas are quite Erotic my wife likes over the knee.I start by taking her temperature with a candy thermometer with lots of KY .It slides out so you hold it in nice and deep it's large and gives her that little girl feeling,when it slides out a little I smack her bottom. Then tell her if she is not a big girl and hold that in I'm going to give you an enema ,she begs me not to but ofcourse it slide out.Then it's time for a nice hot big bag enema she likes it soapy ! I hang four quarts she can't take that but the bag excites her she can come close. But limits are respected. When it's my turn she can b quite the Dom

I think it has a lot to do with your mental image of what constitutes a 'good' enema. To me, it's one that is delivered high, hot and soapy. A firm spanking from my nurse-provider while the water flows into my colon makes it a memorable and exciting experience. Of course, your mileage may vary.

I don't know so much if the enemas that I got after age ten were for punishment , as much as they were for control and domination. having to submit to the humiliation of being naked and exposed. The shame of allowing my backside to be opened wide, for her examination, and manipulation. Knowing I had to comply to the rectal temp. and the big bag full of soapy water. ashamed as she could hear my whimpers and moans. begging her to take it out. being forced to hold it while I cramped. All of this became very erotic

An enema is wonderful mix of pleasure and discomfort and the emphasis can be changed to suit your preference. I find a cold cramping enema extremely erotic.

May you write: "Castor Oil comes in two forms: Erotic and Punishment" too?

I don't approve of punishment enemas or castor oil. If not for therapeutic reasons enemas should be given for erotic reasons. Enemas given to an unwilling receiver border on abuse.

There are THREE types of enemas: Erotic, Punishment (which can also be erotics) and Therapeutic.

I have been training my suby-girlfriend with punishment enemas for over a year. She actually enjoys them, especially the ones that produce cramps. She can now take a full four-quart enema (--you should see her stomach distension!). As a good dom, I would never do anything to her without her permission. Recently, I began to give her enemas in front of our friends. What a turn on for everyone! My sub is very shy, so I was proud of her enduring the feelings of shame and embarrassment, and taking the enemas while friends watched (and often joining me to administer them!). We have another planned session this weekend, where our favorite lesbian couple will be present to enjoy the spectacle!

Or erotically punishing, very enjoyable!!!