Enemas come in two forms: Erotic and Punishment

If my lover decides he is gonna make love to my asshole, he gently prepares me with a warm inert solution. This is just meant to clear the way to his anal probing of my tight ass.

If I am in trouble there are many enemas and at least one very hard to hold enema like M&M or a very soapy solution for an extended time. I also suffer the cane, razor strop, belt and a wicked wooden ruler..

I like both!

Yes both reasons are good. Also I like both to get and give them.

That is hot. I would love to administer a good dose of punishment to you. And I fantasize about being the guy, pinned down who is forced to hold in the solution. If I cannot, I get tied down and beaten on the ass with a hairbrush until I cry.

And for constipation, too !

Definitely for erotic use.....but the health aspect is a plus also!

Never had one for punishment. Maybe I need to do something naughty so I will get one.

Agree with Bandit33. Never had a punishment enema......but maybe with the right female partner, it might be fun. 😃

I like both, too

I like the punishment one with a good spanking and a thick soapy enema.

I would love to be given a real punishment enema. Just to see what it's like. Never had the submissive experience.

Interesting discussion. I give enemas for both the health aspects (daughter) and erotic elements (husband/lover). I haven't used for punishment (yet) but was talking with another woman yesterday who uses enemas as part of her home discipline rituals with her two children. I guess I am curious if the use of an enema is useful as a form of discipline?

These days you might be taken in for child abuse if you use enemas for punishment of children.

I think the main characteristic of an enema's effectiveness as a punishment is it's embarrassment factor, and for many children with their greater acceptance of their bodies, they might not be so embarrassed. I still don't think it's a good punishment. It is too temporary. Now if you put a good helping of red pepper in the solution. . . . . 😈 😈

Switchablesusie said:

These days you might be taken in for child abuse if you use enemas for punishment of children.

Absolutely Susie - and rightly so - it's as abusive as beating them.

All power to the authorities on this one - and I think that should be the end of such discussion!

In any event anything underage, including non-sexual, is banned on here isn't it?

BigK--Keep the god-damned authorities out of it. They are part of the problem too. What happens inside a household should stay inside the household. It isn't anybody else's damn business how a house is run.

We're talking about a punishment for bad behavior here, maybe causing a little pain as part of the punishment, not a sexual act when a child is given an enema as a punishment, which is different from me giving you or Mr. M punitive enema because it would be fun for me.

I don't see anything wrong with spanking a child who deserves it. It's not as if they wind up in the hospital, they just have some red marks or at worst a black and blue mark. Kids are fucking spoiled today and the parents are to blame. I am ashamed to say that YOUR GENERATION (since you're ahemm, older than I am) and especially MY GENERATION have largely FAILED THEIR CHILDREN because they have been too lenient and did not step up to the plate to discipline (that means teach restraint, order and responsibility) and to appropriately punish by effective means, which may include a good smack when needed.

I am a very permissive parent. Our daughters have a wide variety of permissions in their personal and sexual lives, but they dare not cross the line. I believe in very tough love. The girls have proven their responsibility and that is why they have many permissions. A few years ago our older daughter was 15, came home in the middle of the night a day early from a party where cocaine was being used, only to walk through the front door, hear my husband/her father screaming and find my husband and myself basically naked with me flogging him tied and bent over a chair in an S&M scene in the music room. She saw all our equipment, what could I say, you can't do this? Say you can't have sex? Of course not. I had to open up and she and her 12 year old sister got a big education the next morning on S&M and "kinky things" that the younger one specifically asked about when she was about 11. Both girls have permission to have friends over even if we aren't home and to have sex at our house without any intervention from us because I know it's safer there than in a some unknown lover's lane environment. But, have a wild party that draws the neighbor's attention, lie to me about where you are going, light up a cigarette, tobacco or otherwise or experiment with drugs, and be grounded and punished severely--and I DON'T mean with "being grounded" or a "time out."

When my younger daughter who was nine or ten at the time and is really quite gifted and is the outspoken one of the house told me, "you can't do such and such because if you do I'll tell them at school and then you'll be in trouble." I invited her to do that and told her if she did, the police would come and take her away from us and she would be given to a foster family. She thought about what a good life she has with us (really, she lives in the lap of luxury people dream about) and changed her tune. That was the last we ever heard of that.

Susie - you can judge your generation as much as you like - but you can't judge my generation - or include me in that judgment because, as you say, you've yet to reach that point. Actually I agree with a lot of what you say! Kids do need the boundaries to be drawn and be kept within those boundaries.

I do believe in punishment, corporal as well as withdrawal of privileges etc. I have punished my children in both those ways when necessary, in the past. Like yours they have grown up responsible and well rounded. As a fully paid-up member of MY generation though I can tell you it is a very serious offence in the UK and I believe the whole of the EU, these days, to even smack your own child, let alone leave a red mark, however temporary! Like it or not that is a fact! No doubt someone in the US or other countries will confirm that it is the same in their jurisdiction too. In any event the subject is not about smacking or other sanctions and it is a red herring to introduce them.

What I cannot agree with though is the enema punishment of children. It is illegal here and is probably the same in the US - and in my view is as bad as savage beating. I don't have any objection to enema punishments per se - but they have to be consensual, usually on this board the recipient is submissive by choice. If it isn't consensual then it's at least a common assault crime. Children cannot consent to punishment!

I believe I am entitled to those views and entitled to voice them here. You too are entitled to your views.

However, you are not entitled to lecture me so aggressively, clearly making an assumption that I needed to be told how to rear children. Neither are you entitled to order me to 'keep the god-damned authorities out of it'.

It remains to be repeated that underage discussions are not conducted here!

No doubt this spat between Moderators will be taken down - Good!

I'm sorry you took my post so personally. I was criticizing the generations, not specific people. The "god-damn" was to the authorities, not you. Why should our disagreement be taken down. I posted as an ordinary member, you posted as an ordinary member.

"All power to the authorities" as you said, is NOT a good idea. The problem is they tend to insinuate themselves into the private lives of families, usually with bad results. In a slightly different vein, the "authorities" could arrest a good proportion of the membership for their activities if they wanted to. The authorities need to be questioned, resisted and kept at bay.

I criticized my generation and I can criticize my children's generation and can definitely judge and criticize your generation too. Your generation is my parents' generation and I am sure they would agree with the generalities of my statement.

I didn't initiate the topic and I never said an enema was a good punishment and I am not discussing enema activities with children. As far as authorities are concerned, I intensely dislike them and generally wish them ill. They are as corrupt and disruptive to society as the people they consider criminals and lawbreakers. I never said anything about your style of rearing children, as you made no mention of your preferences until your last post. As you said, we are both entitled to our views. I agree.

There is no rule against discussing children in a non-sexual/non-fetish topic like child rearing philosphies.

I agree with Susie's view of discipline and the "authorities". The world started downhill when Dr Spock published his book, which discouraged discipline. Later in life, he admitted that it was flawed. His grandson committed suicide, but that may, or may not, be due to his upbringing.

While I don't believe in enemas as punishment for children, enemas always seem to adjust bad attitudes. I have mixed emotions about this, but perhaps therapeutic enemas for misbehaving children wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing. Many mothers of old used them with good results. The problem today would be the association of enemas with punishment, which could be interpreted as enemas for punishment.

I think that it may be true that our interest in enemas comes from childhood experiences. However, punishment enemas only belong between two consenting adults.

Thank you for bringing the topic back on track, Carolina. The initial post was erotic vs. punishment between adults.

Never had a "punishment" enema. Growing the ones I had at home were therapeutic, either for constipation or just preventative. Once I started going solo around age 11, they have been nearly all erotic with the occasional therapeutic enema to relieve constipation and my bi-weekly cleanout.

^^^^ You should try a punishment enema. They are erotic.

As with all things, even the way we think the punishment combined with the enema is quite subjective.

A few days ago, my partner told me: «If you do not stop to criticize my neckties, for a whole month I'll not give you more enemas!»

Enemas between adults is very erotic

Don't forget the therapeutic enemas as well as the "just because" relaxing enemas.

I think the two forms are good and better!

For me, assisted enemas are very erotic.

Not experienced any punishment yet but I fancy a little spanking would be extra arousing.

Our problem is that by the time the enema is ready and we are ready, we are too excited to wait. But even the thought and prep are erotic.

My favorite scene is visiting the health nurse who interviews me and finds that I have been snacking on potato chips and junk food. She insists she can break that habit and I agree to whatever she has in mind which is an OTK spanking while being scolded for eating the wrong foods; followed by three or four retention enemas, both to clean all those nasty toxins out and as a punishment for eating all that awful stuff; all the while being scolded and spanked while I hold the water. By the same token I also enjoy the kind gentle encouraging enema nurse, "come on now Billy, you can take it all for me", "you know it is good for you" "almost finished" that's a good boy, now hold it for a little while so it can do its job", Etc. So I like both the punishment enema and the Erotic. I found myweay to the punishment enemas in the 1970's where the only way I could find a woman to give me an enema was through the professional dominatrix, most of who had no interest in the erotic enema but loved dishing out spankings and hard to hold enemas. I learned to like them.

You left out cleansing!!

That is where most enemas are used.