Miscellaneous | "Technical" virgins through t…

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A few years back, some friends mentioned that girls were preferring to be "technical" virgins and only engaging in oral sex and/or anal sex and not vaginal sex. Since they had no vaginal penetration, they considered themselves pure and virginal. I knew that oral sex has been common for quite some time but recently spoke with said when he was dating and married in the 1950's and 1960's, instead of having vaginal intercourse, many women would have anal sex instead due to worry about pregnancy. Wow. I was completely unaware that anal sex was that common (Ha!) back in the old days. (Don't hate me for that. I was a child of the 1980s. I'm looked upon as old now, too.)

So, I want to know how common was it? Was it something women actually enjoyed doing and craved or were they just fulfilling their wifely duties or other emotional obligation. It was mostly taboo when I was growing up. There were some who gave in because there boyfriend or husband wanted them to but only the bad girls (like me) did it and liked it. But most girls didn't do it at all. When I was in college, I was talking to a classmate, whom I also attended high school with, and she admitted to having anal sex and liking it. She was the first person I knew, other than myself, who did. In fact, she's really the only person I've known closely who engaged in it and enjoyed it.

I'm in my early forties; turning 43 on June 2nd so line up with paddles, hands, crops and canes and get ready. And answer that age old question, "Grandpa and Grandma, did you really have anal sex in the good old days?" Please answer with the decade. It's honestly something I'm truly fascinated with. Vintage erotica, made by everyone's grandpa's, grandpa's, grandpa's, grandpa's great-greatpa's has always turned me on. I like knowing that those that came before me really knew how to get it on as much and as well or even more and better than we do now. Humor me. 😃

Dianne

Sweet Julie

I was in grad school with a girl from Brazil who told me that contraception was a sin and if you wanted to have sex and not risk pregnancy you did anal. When I was in high school we would refer to technical virgins as girls who would do anything except vaginal penetration. While I wasn't a virgin on my wedding night, I never felt that I had to engage in the semantics either.