Wear butt plug at work

My guy makes me wear a small butt plug to work sometimes. Any possibility that this could cause me problems physically? I love the sensation most of the time but sometimes it really hurts and I don't want to damage anything.

Take some breaks i guess..

I've worn a butt plug for extended times. My most usual problem is an urge to expel. I use small and large and any cause this reaction. My only caveat is if it is hard to get in because of size it will be hard to get out later as the sphincter muscles retract over time.

Hi just make sure that the plug stem is nice and thin(not thin and weak otherwise the plug may disappear up your rectum) this helps your sphincter muscles stay tight and leak free.

I've worn one for hours before, no real issues. As long as you aren't in pain you aren't doing any real damage.

Make sure you lube well before insertion. You'll dry out eventually.

I wear one sometimes , never a problem

Get a smaller one with a nice, comfortable base.

I don't think you hurt yourself!

I ve tried a lot of plugs but they dry out and it hurts .. Not to mention stretching and staying loose.. Best advice .. Use anal beads ,same feeling easier to hold in 😃

I find the lube often dries up and you end up with an uncomfortable sensation. The solution is to take it out often and apply more lube.

Like to wear it outside but never for a long time maybe i would try it

@amroise: If you're not stretching beyond your comfort zone, you should not have any physical consequences. Medium silicone plugs up to 1.5 inch wide will not harm anyone). Pain is your friend - it tells you when your body has had enough.

Others gave you good advice already: take a break occasionally. This also means you're not ready yet for such long term wearing. You should gradually build up the time you are able to wear a plug, wearing it 8 hours straight without prior training is a recipe for pain. Make sure you're using a comfy plug made of body safe material (a burning sensation means something really bad is happening). Gas buildup behind the plug can also cause pain (just go to toilet and push the plug a bit inside or wiggle it and the gas should pass around the plug. However, usually the problem causing pain is lubrication, or lack of it.

As a diehard plug lover I go most of the day plugged. I use coconut baby oil, just smear evenly a few drops all over the plug and on your anus before inserting and you're good for at least 4 hours (usually 6 or more). Water based lubes dry up way too fast and to make it worse, not only they're not slippery any more, they're sticky when dried up. They're better for quick romp as they are more slippery while it lasts, but for long term wearing water based lube is not good. Oils are OK with glass, silicone and metal plugs. Other materials should not make it anywhere near your butt. I don't like silicone lube - incompatible with my preferred plugs and I don't like the feeling it gives. Do mind that oils break down condoms...

Hope you'll enjoy plugs as much as I do...

You'll be fine as long as its not too large. If it hurts it's too big.

Sounds like you need a smaller plug...I wear one with a narrow base that stays in tight ...sometimes to the store or out for a few hours..forget about it until i sit...haha

I'm wearing one this morning and now while exercising on my elliptical.

I very often wore one to work. Other than a break now and than to relube it was quite nice as a naughty little secret! I worked as an electrician (at a railroad) and had my Njoy pure plug small in and got nailed with 75VDC while working in a electrical cabinet, my butt was up against the metal wall of the cabinet, lets just say the prostate took quite a hit, but after regrouping I was unharmed (other than my psyche), thankfully so. I could just imagine going to the general foreman/ER with that injury report!

I have a large one that I like to wear for as long as possible. If it starts hurting you I would suggest removing it and adding more lube to it. See if that doesn't remove the discomfort. If it doesn't I would take it out when it starts hurting because you could do some internal damage. It just like when you rub your skin raw except that your rectum is much more delicate. Plus if it starts hurting you know there aren't a lot of nerve ending in that area so it must really be hurting. I hope that helps or at least gives you something to think about.

New to anal plugs.

Suggestions on the first one to buy? I would like one that I can use without anyone finds out.

I have worn anal beads at work. sitting at my desk was a nice feeling 😃. They were not too large.

I think this is related. Some guy I knew told me he worked in a restaurent. At times he had to go to the basement to get food supplies and bring them up stairs. There was a barrel of pickles there and he got the urge to shove one up his ass, and left it there until he got home. Later he got used to this and would shove olives, cucumbers pickles or carrots up there and wore them home. Just think....SALAD..!!!

Tuga,

I highly recommend the Njoy plugs. Top quality construction, great anatomical fit for discrete and long term wear, and it will last forever. It is stainless steel, so you can use any type of lube. (I prefer silicone lube by Pjur) I recommend starting with the medium size. The head is no bigger than the average poop, and since the usual reason for wearing one is to feel it (both size & weight), the medium is a great place to start. The neck is narrow so it stays put. The flattened handle fits nicely between your cheeks, and the handle has a hole just in case you want to tie a bow on it. At first glance you may think it is expensive, but after buying a few of the cheaper products I feel it is worth the price. Just go ahead and start with best. I don't work for them in any way, I'm just a very satisfied customer.

I wear one as long as possible sometimes. Last night I actually, final fell asleep wearing my smaller glass plug. I woke up to a slight pressure on my prostate and was moaning with a giant hard on.

I tried wearing my plug for extended periods and my anal muscles kept wanting to force it out. I found myself clenching all the time to hold it in; especially when moving around. Made me kind of waddle around when I walked so I was afraid to do so in public. Of course it is only 1.5 diameter so maybe that isn't girthy enough to lock it in place. All in all the hassle of keeping it in place detracted from the pleasure of its presence so I gave up on the idea. I may try working up to a larger size and try it again. Just not sure about stretching the anus. I have heard that it can act like a piercing and remain open if one makes a practice of wearing plugs.

As always: if it hurts, discontinue use immediately.

Wouldn't dare @ work, but i did vac the carpet & other household chores while holding a plug. Makes those chores a bit more enjoyable than usual.

Wanderlust--I have found that a 1.5" diameter plug will stay in just fine if the necked down portion that is in your sphincter is significantly smaller, perhaps 1/2" or so. Maybe you just need to find a different plug.

I also found out that if I have a bunch of gas in my rectum, it tends to push the plug out for some reason.

hankb

Why are some silicone plugs irating & some not. I have had throw away some nice toys for this reason. leaking2

I'm about to invest in a walk arround plug. I think bj55 gave me great advise in another post. Last time I drove my truck to work but I had to remove the plug, it became to discomfort able.

but I liked the way you feel any little movement from the truck into your butt.?

@leaking2: some silicone plugs are not just "silicone", but a blend of materials, which may be irritating for you. Make sure you use plugs from reputable vendors (Tantus etc).

Also I found that silicone plugs which have a mate surface look and are advertised as "silky feeling" - their surface is in fact coarse (thus mate finish) and after a while it feels like sandpaper. The silicone plugs I love and are comfy for longer periods all have shiny surface, are squeeky slick and are smoother under your fingertips - there is the "drag" of silicone, but you are not "grinding" over the surface. It is easier to tell the difference if you actually can feel and compare different plugs.

If you like some plug but you find it uncomfortable you can try putting a condom over it and see if it feels OK.

I am originally from the Netherlands and in my native language we have a "sluitring" or "sluitspier". I assume this is sphincter in English, but just to be sure... You are referring to the "ring" as the part inside the butt that, when you insert a toy you feel stretching right before the "pop the toy is in" kind of feeling?

Little hard to describe, but it is that feeling I have just before the "pop it is in" that I am working on.

So the real question is, how big of a diameter/circumference should I be able to handle before I can think about fisting?

Right now that's 8.5 inch, but once its inside, past the "pop it's in" area, then there is no more feeling, the moment just before the pop is assume feeling btw.

PS Its my goal to one day reach a fist, and no not my doc Johnson rubber fist, that almost fit already. 😃