Erections - Before / During and After a Spanking

Dear All,

I nearly always get erections before a spanking, even if being punished for something or other and have always wondered if fellow male spankees suffered with the same.

- Is it normal to get an erection

- How do people deal with them

- Does it subside the harder your spanked

- Does it get you into more trouble

Your comments and assistance as always greatly appreciated.

I would think that (depending on your partner etc) you need some form of erection control for this behaviour. Maybe a device, or a milking.

Supple.

Hi i often get an erection when disiplined esp when bare bottomed OTK and back of hairbrush is being used,on occasions I have cum on my spankers thigh! this has got me in too more trouble, it is because of all the wriggling kicking and squirming i do

i find it impossible to keep still the friction of rubbing causes it? my spanker hates it when this happens, as it is supposed to be punishment not pleasure! have been told next time IF i lose control will get the switch in diaper postion! that should focus my mind!!!!

Hi Burningbottom.

You mean to say you are allowed to rub your bottom? If I do this I get extras!

Erections are so difficule to control, specially when being spanked for punishment. Why is this?

Switch in diaper position? That sounds nasty.

It is not unusual for me to become erect as I prepare to be spanked. The disciplinarian I see most often requires me to be nude for the spanking and an erection develops as soon as I am undressed. The erection is usually gone before the spanking ends. I have had a couple of spankers who refused to spank if I was erect. One told me to go into the bathroom and get rid of it. The other had me masturbate in front of him then began the spanking. In both those cases the spanking seemed to be more embarrassing and painful than usual.

Hi jeff35253

When spanked as punishment, I too have been asked to get rid of it through materbation and somehow the spanking always hurts more.

I have heard of boys getting an erection before or during spankings. It is probably quite common for teenage boys to get an erection during an over-the-knee bare bottom spanking.

When I was around 9 I would often get an erection after a spanking. However as an adult I almost always get an erection before a spanking. My first wife and I had a very dominant/submissive relationship when she was the dominant. For infraction of our agreed upon rules I would be spanked and usually with either a bath brush or a cane. For spanking I was tied to the sofa bed and often before she began my bondage I would get an erection. At some point she decided that the sexual excitement was providing me with some immunity to the pain of the spanking. She decided that after I was tied to milk me to orgasm and then immediately administer the spanking. Without any doubt the effect was to make the spanking hurt much, much more.

For my GF it is very simple. If we are having an erotic spanking she just does it and not too hard. If a punishment spanking she masturbates me first then spanks hard. After I have come it hurts a whole lot more and is REAL punishment.

On those occasions when my wife would spank me (as a sexual favor) over her lap, I would grind my pelvis into her upper thigh with each stroke. I would orgasm in that position as a result and that would mark the end of our session. Usually wore a condom to prevent creating a wet spot on those occasions.

I always get an erection before a spanking.. and stay hard during a good portion of it.... once my butt is really burning, I will go soft.

- Is it normal to get an erection For me I was about 8 when I started to get hard when I was taken with my butt needing a spanking

- How do people deal with them I tried to cover up my hardness

- Does it subside the harder your spanked When I got a good hard spanking I would lose my hardness

- Does it get you into more trouble The first time I started to make some wetness, I got into trouble from me.

Wow! That never happened to me when I was kid. I couldn't imagine how embarrassing that would have been. I understand that it's not a sexual reaction in most cases with kids but fortunately for me I never had that happen.

One day I was a very bad boy and I received the spanking of my life from my mother and later that night a hard belt spanking from my father. My crime for this reaction on their part was that I gave enemas to my two female cousins while playing doctor. My mother pulled down my pants and spanked me till her hand hurt. It hurt a lot but I noticed that at one point it didn't hurt anymore, but actually felt good. When she stopped I had a raging hard on. Looking back I consider this my second erotic experience after my enemas till clear episode.

Later that did night I got a belt spanking from my dad, my first from him and the first with a belt. He overpowered me, held me down and inflicted tremendous pain on my ass. When he was done I had my second hard on of the day. So thus began my (as the BDSM'ers put it) topping from the bottom. I did things that got me spanked like that again.

When I am to receive a spanking, my wife sends me to the bedroom and I am to get completely naked and wait for her. Many times I have an erection when she arrives. I try not to but I can not control it. She will demand I mastaurbate and then she proceeds with my spanking. It is always more painfull and humiliating as well.

Yes! On my honeymoon, my wife spanked me hard with a paddle, I was on the bed, humping away until

I climaxed!

I am hard before during & after most spankings, hard before & during the first part if I am getting a severe spanking. My wife gets wet from spanking me.

Yes!

Since spanking is the kink that causes my greatest arousal, I absolutely get erect before giving or getting a spanking.

The thrill of anticipation is sooo powerful!

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If I let her "punish" me and hold my erection until she's done, I "like" it when my gal tells me that I've enjoyed spanking my too much to teach me a lesson--then spanks longer with a more intense instrument.

Sometimes I'll relieve myself before a planned punishment, she may tell me to do it--or she may suck 'n swallow if it's to be an erotic maintenance spanking.

I usually have an erection when before the spanking happens, when she spanks hard it goes away and then comes back sometimes as I get to "subspace". When the spanking is over I like to tongue her to orgasm then she returns the favor by sucking me off. I love this woman!!!

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[color=#000000]There is a very good medical reason that you get erections during a spanking. The nerve endings that come off the spinal cord and lead to your buttocks are the same nerve endings that lead into and provided sensation to the genitalia. The nerves are located deep in the buttocks and to be stimulated, it requires deep penetration by an object. In this case, a hand or paddle providing the stimulation by deeply impacting the nerve endings in the buttocks, which also provides the stimulation to the genitals, and causing an erection. [/color]

[color=#000000]It will not necessarily go away as the intensity of the spanking increases. As the intensity increases, endorphins kick in a will block the body's ability to feel discomfort and will provide a very pleasant euphoria which is the same "high" that people get from running distances or from very strenuous exercise. Trust me, getting the endorphin rush from either method feels great. I like spanking better because it doesn't make me short of breath like running and hard exercise will do. [/color]

[color=#000000]If you masturbate halfway through a spanking, you lose the endorphins that are blocking pain, so you will feel more sensitive to any sensation after masturbation. Wait until the spanking is over to keep the endorphins flowing and you will enjoy the spanking and the orgasm better. Besides, the spanker will enjoy you erection for the duration of the discipline session. I would not allow you to masturbate until the very end, and if for some reason you lost the erection, I would get you hard again until I was ready for you to lose it, but that is just me. I love seeing a man with a hard on for most reasons, but erections during a spanking means that the spanking is being done correctly on my part and the nerves are getting their due stimulation.[/color]

I only recall having an erection one time when spanked as a child. I was either 10 or 11 at the time, and my mom pulled my pants down to spank me for misbehaving while out shopping for clothes. She was wearing a wool skirt and when she took me over her lap for the spanking, the rough texture of the skirt against my penis caused me to get erect. I had a full fledged erection for about two minutes and then as the pain of the hairbrush really set in and I started crying, I lost it, and by the time I climbed off mom's lap, I was completely flaccid. Mom never said anything, but she must have felt it.

I will answer number 2 and 4 of your questions.

A very simple solution (no pun intended) is a pre-spanking milking or masturbate him. He will learn to appreciate and take the spankings more seriously. He will also start to dread them and eventually no more pre-spanking hard on. Problem solved. If he starts getting frisky during the spanking glove up and milk his little prostate for him, the embarrassment from that and taking away the pleasure of the spanking should make the spanking what was intended . The milking is not as pleasurable as full on stimulation, make sure he does not hunch your thigh or whatever he is laying against, give him ten extra after he is milked for each time he hunches.

I started to get erections when I was around 9. If mum stripped me before the spanking I always got erect and she give me a sharp smack on my legs. If she spanked me at home then I knew at some point I would be naked as she sent me to bed early after spanking. So my pjs went on either before or after, usually after. If she stripped me after a spanking then I also got erect. One time when I had really played up in front of my aunt and uncle, I got hard after and he laughed and said

“looks like he enjoyed it, better give him another one.” Everyone laughed and mum duly obliged and proceeded to tan me again. This seemed to amuse the room as mum took her slipper to my backside and I wailed away.

When I got erections before or after spanking it was either commented that I must have really been naughty for 'that' to happen or it was ignored (actually the worst thing really) or I was teased for it. Usually after and when I was in tears. The erection was never through enjoyment but just a natural reaction to the friction and humiliation. I was spanked through my teen years and in hindsight Im amazed that a partial or full erection wasnt a sign they should stop! I can still remember the feeling of standing there and being told off with my willy sticking up, pants around my ankles and feeling very ashamed.

I certainly remember the humiliation. I also got spanked in my teen. I remember one spanking very well. I was staying at my aunts. They had a very grand house and one time my three cousins and myself brought mud in on the expensive light carpet. My aunt quite rightly went crazy. She made us strip and stand in line to be spanked. I was last in line and apart from the humiliation i was so scared of getting hard as I stood there. Auntie used the hairbursh on my cousins and boy she really laid it on. When it came to my turn i got hard and she was horrified(a devout Christian) and just like my mum she gave me a whack on my legs. She then had me over her knee and thrashed me, When I got off her knee i was in floods of tears and I noticed my cousins all were in various stages arousal.She gave all three a sharp slap on their very red bottoms.She lectured us and sent us to bed. That is extremely vivid memory. My aunt was even stricter than mum and my cousins were regularly spanked at home and school. They were at a strict private school,

I always get fully erect, especially when punishment humiliating. Only way to deal with it is suck it up. Not a big deal when alone with wife. Very rarely has witnesses, which assures an extreme blistering, they always comment, very humbling.. . Words inadequate for what it is like to actually experience it. As soon as I'm hard, even before I get the first swat, I have to remove jock. Know it is part of the punishment, but totally unfair,it isn't like I can control it. Wife and I have gone around, and around this issue, and it's not going to change. The worst for me, is 30 something step son administering swats, Only happened twice, idea of it gives me chills. I like to think I'm tough, and nonchalant. The second time I actually bawled before he got there. He's a county sheriff, and the jerk had to wear his uniform. Last time, as I stood up to hand him his paddle, was hard which earned me entire severe blistering naked. Best way of putting it is totally strips me of any dignity. I mean, I'm going to get over a 100 smoking swats, while completely sexually humiliated, nude, and totally submissive. Would consider it abusive, except I agree to it, honestly makes it a very memorable punishment for me. I am grateful in over 10 years, my wife has used this method only twice. We both think the idea of this happening scares me like nothing else, you can't imagine what it's like for me to even hear, "Nude for Nick" Hope it is years, if ever, before I am put through this again.

I was spanked for the first time in 30 + years last weekend. My wife of 26 years and I have been confessing a lot hidden kink over the last year and I finally grew a pair to let her know of my spanking fettish. She has blown me away with some of her stuff but more on all of that in in a separate subject post.

During the anticipation I was erect. Almost immediately and then remembering how much this stings I started to lose it but only a little. I stayed semi erect until she started whipping my butt with the belt. I pretty much went soft during the actual spanking. Once it was over I was hard as a rock again.

When it came to my turn i got hard and she was horrified(a devout Christian) and just like my mum she gave me a whack on my legs. She then had me over her knee and thrashed me, When I got off her knee i was in floods of tears and I noticed my cousins all were in various stages arousal.She gave all three a sharp slap on their very red bottoms.She lectured us and sent us to bed.

She may very well have been horrified, but if she was a regular and strict spanker, certainly the repetition of the thing that horrified her so (erections) must have been noticed by her - eventually. You can't tell me that people who give this kind of spanking don't realize on some level that they get their own sort of satisfaction from the whole situation, what with the nakedness and the contact with otherwise hidden and intimate body parts.

I often wonder how they reconcile the hypocrisy of the situation with their otherwise adherence to strict notions of propriety and conduct.

Like in the instance above - a proper punishment would have been to make the miscreants clean the carpet, not set up an s&m scenario ...

Many years ago I received a several bare bottom paddlings from my aunt, each time I had an erection. After the paddling began it went away because it stung but would return when it was over. Many good memories with my aunt

Thats a very good point. I suspect that many strict spankers actually enjoyed it. My aunt seemed to thrive on the control she exerted. My three cousins got spanked and usually very publicly as if it was a theatre. And she spanked so very hard for even the most minor of infractions. i remember one afternoon she was showing home movies and the youngest cousin was getting very boisterous. She told him to calm down and he answered her back. She made him get into his pyjamas in front of everyone then she proceeded to have him over her knee with his pj bottoms down again and she really gave him a heavy duty spanking. That was certainly a power trip for her

I always have a very hard erection before and during spanking. Especially like being told I have been bad or dirty as I stand there naked with my hard cock jutting out.