Erections - Before / During and After a Spanking

For me it depends mostly on what surface I'm lying on during my spanking. The two times I remember it happening was when my aunt spanked me with a hairbrush while I laid across her lap. She was wearing a silk slip at the time and it felt absolutely wonderful to my 11 year old penis (and the rest of my naked body). The impact of the hairbrush drove my torso forward which caused my penis to slide slightly forward across her thigh, only to slide back again during the backstroke. I was painfully aware of the pain/pleasure/pain/pleasure cycle until the building pain of my butt washed out the rubbing pleasure. When I stood up afterward my aunt did indeed notice my erection and asked if perhaps I was needing some more. I quickly said "No, mam" and was sent away.

The other times were when I was 12-14 and getting the belt from dad. For those I would lay over the end of my bed. The bedspread at that time had large corduroy ribs and it was during one of my first beltings that I discovered the pleasure in having my penis laying between the corduroy ribs as I rocked back and forth. It became one of my favorite ways to masturbate during my teen years.

I know there were others, mostly caused by nervousness.

The two times I remember it happening was when my aunt spanked me with a hairbrush while I laid across her lap. She was wearing a silk slip at the time and it felt absolutely wonderful to my 11 year old penis (and the rest of my naked body). The impact of the hairbrush drove my torso forward which caused my penis to slide slightly forward across her thigh, only to slide back again during the backstroke. I was painfully aware of the pain/pleasure/pain/pleasure cycle until the building pain of my butt washed out the rubbing pleasure. When I stood up afterward my aunt did indeed notice my erection and asked if perhaps I was needing some more. I quickly said "No, mam" and was sent away.

How in the world could she ask you that with a straight face? I really cannot get my head around experiences like this one. And you read about them often enough, so it's not uncommon apparently.

What kind of mental explanations do ladies like that come up with so that they can ignore the sexual implications of spanking a naked boy over the knee while wearing silk lingerie? Nobody can be that innocent not to see the sexual element, not even a Victorian aunt or governess ...

That said, I understand the pleasurable memory, but I really wonder who ladies like that think they are kidding. Not themselves I hope ...

@agracier, the event with my aunt and did not occur twice as my awkward phrasing may have implied.

My cousin and I had been misbehaving and been sent to bed early, but were having a real problem settling down. After my aunt and uncle had gone to bed, my cousin and snuck downstairs for a snack. Despite our best efforts to be quiet we made too much noise, waking my aunt. She came downstairs and caught us in the kitchen. She already had her hairbrush in hand. She pulled out a kitchen chair and brandishing her hairbrush ordered us to take off our underpants (which was all we were wearing). My cousin was first across her lap and I followed. We were sent back to our room with the promise that if there was any more trouble my uncle would handle it.

I agree that her reaction to seeing my erection and rhetorical question the followed was improper, certainly by todays standards.

I agree that her reaction to seeing my erection and rhetorical question the followed was improper, certainly by todays standards.

I wasn't implying it was all that improper. In fact I sort of envy you that experience. But, I was just wondering how anyone could say that without bursting out laughing ... and without knowing how it would effect a naked boy ... ha ha.

Well just somebody saying to me your going to get a spanking thats enough for me . At the time i get a bit hard but when i get spanking it seems to diminish i wonder why , i think the burning effect of my back side seems to take hold !

My wife and I have a fine sex life-- She is great about that----On another subject entirely, I once in a great while get my bare butt paddled by her and for total good reason--she has put up with alot by the time her frustration level get to the stage she has to paddle my bare butt there is never any argument from me i know I have it coming---- it does really hurt on my butt--after all it is a punishment----I never get hard at the time I take a paddling and I get hard alot--just not at that time ever---I guess I actually kind of scared cause its going to hurt--I know i sound like I am still a child---and I am middle aged---but I am kind of scared right before and I DO NOT GET HARD

How many have ejaculated during a spanking?

By the 5th or 6th stroke of my strap on my husband's bare behind, his erection is no longer felt on my lap!

I have 2 younger brothers. Never saw any bulges in their briefs before going over mom's or my knee!

Never rose to the occasion when my father would whack me across the behind with his strap, my arse was too sore. .not good cannon fodder

I was in high school in the 1960s. Back then teachers, and anyone in charge of a kid, had the authority to spank the kid however he or she felt necessary. In school the PE coach was usually the one who would deliver the most severe spankings to a boy. At least the was the case in our school. We were a small rural school, that had grades 7 through 12 in one school.

Most of the coach's spankings were given by hand, a few swats on a boy's butt over the tissue thin PE shorts we wore in class. Usually those spankings were just to remind a boy that he was in school and that he should behave like it.

For really serious offenses he had a paddle. He'd tell the boy to wait in the showers until he called the boy out. Coach would wait until everyone else was dressed and then call the boy out for a paddling that would have the boy howling long before they were finished. Coach didn't hit as hard as he could, not by a long shot. but he did spank a long time. I think the idea was to have the boy squalling like a little kid and thinking that his spanking would never end.

It was not uncommon for the boy to have an erection while waiting in the shower to be called out. They'd often still have an erection when they came out to face thsir spanking. At the sight of the victim's erection, it wasn't uncommon for other boys to get an erection as well thinking of what was coming. Invariably the boy to be spanked would be teased by others, also naked inteh shower, about the spanking he was about to get.

Quite a few boys had erections when they bent over for the coach's paddlings. But I don't remember any ever having an erection when they stood up. I expect most of the other dick in the locker room were hard though.

I'll admit that adolescent boys do get erections at the slightest provocation. Often I din't think it indicates enjoyment. When I saw boys getting hard when waiting for a naked spanking from our coach I never thought they were enjoying it nor expecting to enjoy the spanking they were facing. I just thought that the experience of being naked in the shower, knowing that a naked paddling was coming, and the teasing they were getting from other naked boys in the shower got them turned on, even if they didn't expect it to be fun. Often other boys, doing the teasing, would get erections too, once the boy to be paddled was erect. I'm sure the coach noticed but he pretended not to. The boy got his butt tore up.

I often did think that most dicks in the locker room were hard throughout the paddlings. There is something about watching a boy get his butt paddled bae that is exciting.

I also think there were boys who wanted to get one of our coach's serious naked paddlings. More than one boy got more than one in the coarse of their school years. Some got more than two. I confess that I would fantasize about being the boy getting one of our coach's serious paddlings, but never actully had the courage to earn one. I sometimes wish now that I had, just so that I would know the experience.

I occasionally am hard before a spanking but if it is a hard fast spanking by the 2 or 3 swats i am soft, after the spanking I get hard usually in about 5 minutes if it;s been fairly harsh maybe 20 minutes. I am thinking of asking my spanker if i can masturbate before he spanks me so i can feel it more.

Yes I got a erection during a spanking by my step dad. It was a year ago when I was 17 and he is in his early 40's. He had me take off my pants and bend over all the way to touch my toes. It was embarrassing because I was already 6 feet tall and he was slightly shorter than me. I still complied to him and he spanked me with his hand over my underwear. I had a huge hard on sticking through my underwear when he was spanking me while I was in position touching my toes. He gave me a nice red butt that evening. Now I need to find a girlfriend to spank me although I wouldn't mind if my step dad again felt the need to tan my butt. Might be worth getting in trouble if he'd do it again.

Always sexually excited, before, during & after! For more than 45 years!

Until I was 18 I was frequently spanked by my dad. The procedure was always the same. When he decided I needed a whipping I was sent to his office. I was made to strip to underwear and then told how many strokes I was going to get. I knew that would be followed by being told to drop my underwear for a bare butt whipping, bent over with legs a couple of feet apart. Before I removed my underwear I was always tenting. and always was fully erect during and after the whipping. Dad used a riding crop and even on one occasion when I got 8 strokes the erection did not disappear. Dad never commented.

Before I removed my underwear I was always tenting. and always was fully erect during and after the whipping...Dad never commented.

Dad didn't have to comment. You both obviously enjoyed the experience.

I don't ever recall getting much of a spanking when I was young and so I do not have anything to contribute there but I am hard as a rock to get a spanking now.

Usually laying face down over a stack of pillows before an enema. I especially like when my girlfriend sends me pics of my red cheeks that I did not even realize that she took. Sure enough there is my hard cock sticking down against the pillows.

I don't pay much attention to to my cock at the time unless she does cause I'm busy paying attention to the ouch factor on my butt.

I'm clearly aroused and often it's just a fun warm up funishment but sometimes hurts quite a bit and I prefer a domestic type over the knee hand spanking to the lying on the bed getting whacked with the back of the hairbrush but boy a few of those hits sure get my attention.

I didn't get spanked much as a child, and not at all once I realized I had a spanking fetish.

Now, as an adult, I'm the spanker 99% of the time. But I always have an erection before, during, and after a spanking.

When I was growing up in the southwest United States, receiving bare bottom spankings was a pretty normal thing for boys and girls. For the boys, getting erections was also pretty normal. Although it is not as obvious, I was aware that the girls also sometimes become sexually aroused by spankings... two girls admitted this to me and another boy during the 7th grade, and the four of us explored some early onset spanko behaviors for which our fathers surely would have administered their razor strops on our bare bottoms (which, in my case at least, probably would have accellerated the progression of my spanking fetish), but we were never caught.

When I was growing up, I first started getting erections during spankings at about the age of eleven. My parents, and other adults who spanked me, said that it was normal for boys to get erections, and not to worry about it.

Now that I'm an adult, when I do receive spankings, I become erect even before I have to pull down my boxers. I sometimes lose my erection during a severe spanking, but it comes right back when the spanking is over.

I am more often dominant in my relationship with my GF, but when I do submit myself for her discipline, I do get into more trouble for having erections without her permission. She usually deals with this by giving my bare erection a good spanking (until it goes flaccid) before giving my bare bottom a good thrashing. If my erection returns during or immediately after my bare bottom thrashing, she will paddle or whip my "naughty erection" with the wooden ruler or the short leather strap.

My husband always gets an erection prior to, during, and after taking me over his knee for a good sound spanking making my buns anywhere from bright pink to bright red. The same goes for him going over my knee when his manhood is trapped between my closely held thighs frequently leading to his release of thousands of tiny fishes seeking the promised land!! OMG even writing this about a spanking is the beginning of a turn on!! Denise

As I get my spanking these days from my wife I am always excited and hard as a rock. My wife likes to punish me for being naughty so I do naughty thing in anticipation. My wife loves to spank me bare butt or through my diaper. She spanks me until my bottom is bright red or I start to cry she will stop. Very exciting

@Denise

My husband always gets an erection prior to, during, and after taking me over his knee for a good sound spanking...

The same goes for him going over my knee when his manhood is trapped between my closely held thighs frequently leading to his release of thousands of tiny fishes seeking the promised land!!

Your husband is a lucky man!

This thread pretty much confirms that both boys/men often become aroused when receiving spankings.

A young boy's arousal (erection) is typically much more obvious to onlookers than a young girl's arousal.

I was wondering whether any women can provide feedback regarding witnessing boys' spanking etections when growing up?

If so, was it a brother, a cousin, or even a friend/acquaintance? What did you think the first time you experienced this? Did somebody (perhaps the disciplinarian) explain the erection to you... and if so, what explanation was given?

Some spankers want to see arousal others not. Is something which must be discussed before.I always enjoy the arousal even it brings extras.

I will get rock hard quickly whenever I find out any sort of punishment is in my near future but I don't always maintain an erection throughout the entire spanking.

I got an erection as a child when I was being spanked. It just caused my mom to spank me harder which as it turned out made me even harder 😉

As an adult, the excitement knowing I'm about to be punished is more than plenty to turn me hard, although if it is a severe punishment, the erection will subside and then come again after the session is over.

I began to get errections when I was spanked at around 12. I still get them when my pants are lowered and I am

Placed across someone’s lap

Both my parents spanked and as the youngest of 4 boys I was aware that my older brothers occasionally had erections when they pulled down their trousers and pants and round about 8 years old it started exciting me watching them getting their bare arses spanked. I’m guessing I was around 11/12 when dad pulled down my shorts and pants and my cock sprang to attention, he paid no attention just bent me over his knee and began spanking, after a couple of hard spanks my erection went down but came back with a vengeance when I was sent to my room. It was a year or two later before I actually ejeculated(alone not whilst being spanked) and I have to say I was hard watching others getting it.

My wife spanks me regularly over her lap with her hands over my underpants and sometimes on bare ass . Its a long session over her lap and I get quite hot during the session. Even though she spanks mildly but delivers most of the spanks on my lower ass which is the sit spot with her slightly cupped palms. This makes me get a stinging sensation whenever I sit after the spankings are over. If I rub my ass after the spankings I get more during corner time in standing position.