They are important to me, but I would say no, not actual obsession. I like to get them, love to give them (I would receive two to be able to give one, so to speak. Females only, though!)
I like them for a number of reasons:
They are quasi sexual and very pleasurable for me, they stimulate my prostate, promote erections, and provide a cleansing I cannot get another way unless I want to drink a gallon of Golytely and sit on the toilet for 12 hours.
I love to give them--especially when the girl would prefer not to get them, such as in a medfetish scenario, where "you have to have enemas till clear for the rectal exam." I also love to give as much water as will go into the girl (without harming her)--that is, to run the water in until no more will go in. I also like to give pleasurable enemas, if my partner enjoys them, and I love to make her cum. One of my fantasies is to eat her out while she is getting so full she can't stand it, but cums anyway. I am turned on by the distress, cries, and tears, but that's how some of us are made and I enjoy finding someone who needs that sort of experience--intimate, invasive, irresistible. On the other hand, when I'm receiving, it's important to me that she follows my instructions as she gives me the enemas. If she doesn't, she may be punished.
So, yes, I truly enjoy enemas, giving and getting.
I also enjoy the chats all you wonderful ladies have engaged in with me. THANK YOU!! Zity people are some of the finest folk around. It's true, our pleasures are unique, but they are ours. That's a good thing.