I absolutely love it, when she'd asks for more and smile, showing me that she is satisfied ^_^, the whole body language is different when you are with a person ,
who isn't afraid and have trust in you. I took time with foreplay making it the best time we had, kissing , biting/nibbling , licking & rimming. As she starts to loosen up and feel relaxed. Haha you have the best feeling when she'd dress up just for you and is mega horny π, the time & situation/mood is really important in any sex, It lifts up the spirits and it gives you a lot of boost in years to come.
I'm really sorry to hear that your EX didn't like it, he missed on a great experience that is so natural. I've known some folks ,who doesn't like to lick or blow, just because they think it makes them inferior , but in fact that is so wrong, You not only increase the anticipation, you actually send your partner on a drive like a transcend state, when you give them a proper head, It paves a way to many things later on in no way it makes you small.... Sex is a mutual act, if only one person is satisfied its almost like getting raped, just think about it for a minute here!!
Anyways, Me and my girl we enjoyed enema, fisting, peehole insertion,CBT,bondage and roleplay π.
PS: i'm sorry if i wander' off topic, Man i love giving oral to woman ^_^