I just wonder what kinds of skanks men have had sex with that there must be the caveat that she smells and tastes clean. *I* would not let anyone near me unless I was certain of my cleanliness. My lovers have the same courtesy. A quick wash up, bath or shower before play doesn't take long and makes everyone more confident and confidence equals more pleasure given and received. Perhaps I'm naïve in thinking everyone has the same aesthetic for hygiene as I do.
I was once with a gal like that, too. My ex-bf and I were in bed with another couple. It was our first time with them and she went out of the way to make sure everything was perfect. Well, most everything. After she got off work, she came home, straightened up the house, cooked dinner and dressed. We came for dinner and spent time talking, then went into the den to listen to music and play some board games. After a few hours, we all retired to their massive waterbed for fun and sleep. The guys were on either side and she and I were in the middle, making out. I tend to be the more dom partner with a woman so I took over and started kissing her lower and lower and "OMG! What the hell is that smell?" I thought. So instead of kissing between her legs as I'd intended, I sort of dipped down then right back up to her belly and breasts. Not wanting her to feel bad about it, I told her husband that she was a very sexy lady and that he was very lucky. Then my ex-bf threw a hissy fit that I was making out with her instead of him, ran out of the room and locked himself in their first floor bathroom for a few hours. I was horribly embarrassed. He was such a jackass. I got together with them a few times without him then she left him for another woman. He and I get together every few years and cause some catastrophic weather even occur somewhere in the world. But that's besides the point.
Perhaps she hadn't had a chance to take a shower or bath that day. She didn't have the chance after work and she'd been sweating in a hot kitchen and had been simmering in her own juices all those hours. It was truly unpleasant. No other woman I've been with have had a disagreeable smell or taste.
The only time it should have an odor is if it is unclean or unwell. For example, my lady bits generally taste and smell sweet but I'm suffering from "New Sperm Syndrome," which a lady can get if her body's pH and bacterial flora gets out of whack due to a new lover and his "alien" sperm. So I'm taking Flagyl for bacterial vaginosis and not very happy about it but I'll live. It isn't a sexually transmitted infection. I had it before after using Replens for vaginal lubrication. It's unpleasant and makes me feel gross but isn't fatal. And I'm not letting any tongue nor nose near my vagina until I've finished my course of treatment. It's the right thing to do. I would NEVER let anyone near me if I even had a doubt in my mind that I didn't taste clean and sweet.
If I'm with a male lover and his genitals don't smell or taste quite as pleasant as I would like, I'll ask if he would like to freshen up with some wet ones or a quick shower and he gets the hint and takes care of matters. It's best to be upfront and mature about things than to be rude or suffer through it.
And if I'm in the mood and he's in the mood but my lady bits aren't up to par, I'm always happy to get on my knees and please him or let him enjoy my tight bottom.