Do men really enjoy giving oral to a woman?

Love giving oral sex. Really enjoy proceeding very slowly and deliberately. Focus on her legs and inner thighs while moving slowly upward. Enjoy hearing and seeing her get so aroused even before I get to her vagina. Ummm just replying is getting me aroused. Usually sessions result in orgasms before we enjoy intercourse.

The first actual sexual intimacy I shared with a girl was with my next door neighbor. We slipped off into the woods behind our houses where she first allowed me to reach into her pants and touch her.

We both were quite excited by the activity which then lead to removing her pants and I went down between her parted legs and had my first heady whiff of pussy. I was almost 12 years old and she was only 11 but for the next couple of years became a regular activity. I absolutely love oral.

On a personal level yes I've always enjoyed giving oral and I think you should lie back and enjoy it if it ever happens again for you - if he/she isn't wanting to do it or isn't enjoying doing it to you he/she will soon stop.

I love everything about sex: the smell, taste, feel, etc. I guess I just have an oral fixations because I absolutely love the taste and feel of a nice wet pussy and a hard cock. I love spending time down there with my girlfriend, and I enjoy rimming her as well! It's all good!!

I absolutely love giving oral. The taste, the smell and the appearance all add to it.

I work hard at pleasing the woman, for whilst I love giving, the real pleasure is watching a woman enjoying it and cumming to my touches. I love taking my time, smelling her, tasting her, touching her. Moving away to kiss her inner thigh, then moving back. I can feel her whole body responding, her temperature increasing. It's the best experience ever.

I have always enjoyed doing it but not every time as the wife likes penetration. It’s just a warm up for her.

Yes, this man truly enjoys performing oral on his wife every time I perform a speculum examination. They go hand-in-hand with each other.

I would happily do it for hours on end

Started a long time ago and still love it

My husband seems to enjoy doing that to me and he knows I really like when he does.

I certainly enjoy it.

I can't speak for other men; but personally, I very much enjoy pleasing a woman orally. I know that it might be the one time she actually orgasms during an extended period of intimacy. I quite literally enjoy a long period of time pleasing and worshipping a woman's nether regions. I love it so much, that I don't mind having a sore tongue and jaw from extended pleasure giving. Shower fresh is always pleasurable. However, if we have both been exercising or working together, or just she alone; those natural scents can kick in an almost animalistic, primate, cunnilingus desire/frenzy.

PApatient said:

. . . . I love it so much, that I don't mind having a sore tongue and jaw from extended pleasure giving. . . .

You can fix that. My father in law has done lingual frenectomies for several people who admitted wanting greater tongue extension. The frenectomy helps because the frenum no longer rubs on the tops of the lower incisors.

The healing is fairly comfortable. The main restriction is to keep your tongue relatively motionless when you are talking for the first week and to eat a bland soft diet for a while.

You should select a periodontist or oral surgeon to do this for you, NOT a basement surgeon play doc. Some freni are thin and relatively simple to reduce, others and broad and have a large web of muscle inside. There are some large blood vessels there and you don't want to cut one or if you do, at least know how to manage it.

I did my own lingual frenectomy...well, actually I had help. I was making out with a girlfriend when I was in the military. I couldn't take her back to my dorm and she was living with her folks, so we were in the back of a car. She kept sucking hard on my tongue and over the course of some pretty heavy petting I felt something rip in my mouth. Yep...the space between my two bottom teeth was sawing it off. There was a little blood in my mouth--just enough to freak us both out. We drove to the ER on base and the doc took one look at us after telling what happened, smiled and said I'd be fine. He told us to "go slow for a day or so". Thing was that it didn't hurt after the initial shock. I kept running my tongue over it in my mouth and kinda felt like a canker sore for the next day.

We both laughed about it for a day or so--I kept joking that she popped my tongue cherry. When we finally got back around to "it"...she was thankful for the added range my tongue gave. She said she wanted to know indeed how long it was and that was the first time I went down on a girl. We both loved it and I haven't stopped loving it.

Love it 100 x more than Intercourse ,started in High School with Girlfriends and from the Very First "Scent of A Woman" was in love ever since .Have had many male friends that Not into it what-so-ever .I am divorced now my wife of 23 years + 5 years of living in lust first enjoyed it .But go figure of course my luck did not always want it . Friend with Benefits now Just cannot get enough and suites me just Fine. I will say the absolute worst is when a woman takes a shower and then within 3-4 mins. asks for it ,need her scent makes those hormones flowing.If you learn to do it right the women I have been with have had better orgasms orally they have said ,than with intercourse .maybe it's me I am bad at intercourse do not really care prefer Oral anyways .

Oral is absoulty it best thing ever and I too can't get enough of it. Like many of you, it is a must to have that heavenly sent and taste! I do not like freshly clean pussy and is like licking and sucking on the back of your hand. I also love oral when the women are on their periods. There are those who won't let you go down on them when thay are on their period and it is too bad they don't get it and the pleasure it can bring. My first wife loved getting oral when she was on her period and said it really helped with cramps ?

You can fix that. My father in law has done lingual frenectomies for several people who admitted wanting greater tongue extension. The frenectomy helps because the frenum no longer rubs on the tops of the lower incisors.

I took care of that by removing my dentures. And her mother (who didn't like me) used to say to her every time I picked her up for a date; "Why would you date a guy with false teeth and a mustache?" Are colonel's wives really that dumb? Oh I forgot, they fight with each other over who's going to take care of the general's parakeet when he goes on vacation.

I've always enjoyed it. I find oral sex to be an incredibly intimate thing to give or to receive which is probably my favourite aspect of it. The feel and smell and taste of a woman is a very close second. The smell and taste can be an issue for me and I'm sure happens with everyone... male or female. Before diving in I've always try to discreetly find out if it's a good or bad time to be doing it to hopefully avoid anyone getting embarrassed. I would hate it if my partner was always worried about things like that.

I've always enjoyed it, even as far back as I can remember having sex for the first time as a teen. I was immensely satisfied and aroused when I could make the girl orgasm while eating her. In fact the more the better I felt. Now that I'm an old timer those days are long gone. Shame.

Panteez4me,

Sorry to hear it. Why? Your wife not interested in you giving her orgasms that way anymore? We were only in our late 50's, but a few years ago my ex-wife loved sex and especially getting orgasms from me by oral after I'd given her an enema. I loved it too. Still do - I'm looking for a new partner, preferably another switch like she and I were.

Eric

Nothing better than going down on a woman.I have always loved giving oral sex. Now I am impotent it is my only real way of pleasuring my wife and I love to do it often.

Absolutely! I don’t really need to say anything else. A lot of men enjoy it.

Going down on a woman is one of my favorite things in life. I love the feel, the taste, the reactions it gets. For my wife and I it's a central part of our sex life. She's not able to cum through PIV, so we always will get to a point where I go down on her. She's totally comfortable with it, but I think there are two key reasons: 1) she knows how much I enjoy going there; and 2) she always takes a shower before we have sex so I don't think she has any worries about freshness, etc. Something I really like is going down on her when she's really turned on and wetter than normal. I love the taste and can't get enough juice. Often I am bummed when she comes as I want it to last longer....this often leads me to sliding my fingers into her and licking my fingers. Again, can't get enough of her juices. I love her tons and I want as much of her as I can get.

I am a man and can only comment for myself. Do I enjoy giving oral sex to my wife? Is rain wet, is ice cold, you get my opinion. Not only is giving oral the most intimate thing I can do for my wife I love doing it. I love the fragrance the taste the wetness and the change as she gets turned on and swells. If I had to give up something in sex, oral would be the last thing to go. So do I enjoy it? It goes deeper then that, I have to have it to really feel like I have made love.

I am a man who finds going down on a woman during sex is as necessary as breathing. To me there is no greater feeling of intimacy then being so close to her most private of parts and actually being priveledged enough to be able to give her the most pleasure I possibly can. And, if the women is confident enough to help guide me through what makes her feel the best pleasure then so much the better.

I love everything about giving oral sex. Unfortunately, my wife does not enjoy receiving oral sex. Her clit, no matter how soft or indirect I am with my lips and tongue, is hypersensitive. She starts to cum almost instantly and in seconds it becomes too intense for her to enjoy and she begs me to stop. My seven previous lovers were not at all like this. If anyone knows ways around this problem please tell me.

If I had to go 17 years without giving oral pleasure to my wife, I'd rather be dead. Seriously. Charlotte, I am very sorry you had to endure not receiving it for so long--hope in the 5 years since your initial post that has changed! There is nothing on this earth I love more than cunnilingus, to me it is the single sexiest thing there is. I have discussed at length in many other posts how much I love the smell(s) of female genitals, and to get to immerse my nose and tongue in them is a great gift. I have also said before the structure of our anatomy clearly indicates nature intends for us to enjoy the naughty fact that we have sex with the same equipment we use to pee, and I'll say it again here. Not to judge anyone's opinions/beliefs/experiences, but I think people who can't appreciate the natural fragrances of their own and other people's bodies are not well-adjusted or fully developed as sexual human beings, and that's a shame. It's their loss.

Unfortunately, my wife does not enjoy receiving oral sex. Her clit, no matter how soft or indirect I am with my lips and tongue, is hypersensitve... If anyone knows ways around this problem please tell me.

@wildbill I’m sorry you and you wife aren’t able to enjoy ‘regular’ oral sex. While not exactly the same, I know the Hitachi is an amazing toy for many women. But I’ve seen some videos of women using towels betweeen the Hitachi and their pussy, because direct stimulation was too intense. maybe you can do the same during oral? Keep some barrier between your tongue and her pussy so it might not get to that annoying/intense/painful state for her? Or keep your tongue FAR away from her clit and just play with her lips and vaginal enttrance?

Wishing you tthe best for finding a mutually satisfying solution!

WildBill2 said

. . . . my wife does not enjoy receiving oral sex. Her clit, no matter how soft or indirect I am with my lips and tongue, is hypersensitve... If anyone knows ways around this problem please tell me. . . .

Use ONLY your lips, NO TONGUE. Tread LIGHTLY. NO suction.

Keep your lips gently together or slightly apart so the orbicularis oris muscles are relaxed and your lips are soft. Move your head/mouth around across her entire vulva NOT JUST THE CLITORIS. Keep your lips and her vulva wet with saliva. Once she has her orgasm, wait a while for her body to calm down before continuing.

Basically do the OPPOSITE of what men usually like, which for them includes suction and tongue pressure.

You have one BIG thing going for you--she starts to orgasm quickly. Can you imagine your problem if she was hypersensitive and couldn't have an orgasm?

I enjoy giving oral to my wife but she has not enjoyed this for many years. I think I was to aggressive in my attention to her sensitive clit. I wish she had steered me to what she liked rather than denying me as I love it. This thread has encouraged me to ask her what she would like and teach me how she would like it. I love pleasing her in any way.