When was your first Gynecology Exam?

I was 19 and I was home from college for Christmas Break. I was still on my parent's insurance, so I just called the health practice my mom went to, since I knew it would be OK to go there. I had missed my period two months in a row that first semester. I was a virgin at the time, so I knew I wasn't pregnant. Doctor said it was stress and sudden change of environment related and prescribed birth control pills for me. At the time, I was just glad it was over but then later, I really enjoyed thinking about it. I was the first patient of the day, the day after Christmas, so while I don't have exact times, I know that between 8:00 and 8:30 a.m. on December 26, 2001, I had my first breast, pap, and pelvic exam. I left the doctor's office with a scheduled exam for 8:00 a.m., December 27, 2002, a birth control prescription, and an antibiotic prescription. (My urine sample showed a mild UTI I didn't even know I had.)

SouthernAnn would you mind sharing us that story

I was 14

14 and I was overly developed for my age

I was 16

Male Doctor and Scary Exam -.-

@Blumchen Why did you undergo this examination?

@Pecan_nutjob

You have P.N.

I was 20 and it was my first smear test at the family planning clinic. I was excited but also very very nervous.

The nurse asked some questions then asked me to remove everything from the waist down and lie up on the bed. The doctor came in and did the smear and also a bi manual exam which took me by surprise and I was aware that I was tending round her fingers - not intended! It was a pleasant first experience.

I was 16 years old and went for an examination for birth control. It was a very intense experience at that age.

15 and it was in a full exam

I was 16. Went in for birth control. Female doctor, gentle, fast, no rectal sadly.

RockDoc:

He must have performed a rectal exam also as I heard him say "You're impacted here

Do you remember if the doctor recommended to your ex-wife exactly how to get he impaction solved, maybe an enema or suppository?

I was 16. Went in for birth control. Female doctor, gentle, fast, no rectal sadly.

From this, do I accurately gather that you'd like to have a woman stick her finger in your ass. or is there more to it…..

My wife's first pelvic exam was when she was 17 and applying for a scholarship from the army. it was an exam at the army facility.

they were not at all concerned with her modesty and made her remain nude for much of the exam. and she was a very naive farm girl, so really had no idea what to expect, so when he first shoved his finger into her tiny vagina she freaked out.

I was 20 and just wanted to get over with. Mission was accomplished 😉

@Sunshine C – Please Sunshine, tell us more details if you remember. Why were you going? Birth control? were you scared? was your doctor male. Were you inexperienced sexually? did the doctor hurt? did you have a bf at the time, and did he ask you for all the details also?…

@XposeHer actually I don't remember all the details but I'll try my best to give you some.

I simply had the feeling I needed to go because “everyone” went at that age or earlier if needed. I was sexually inexperienced and didn't need any birth control at that time, everything was fine but nevertheless I wanted to have this checked. It was an older male doctor whom my best friend recommended. I didn't want to go to the same doctor like my mother so I looked for someone else. The doctor was very professional, it didn't take long, he examined me quickly and after that I felt really relaxed.

@RockDoc: Actually, a rectal exam may not have been necessary to feel that. I recall reading a widwife saying that during a vaginal exam one can feel if there is waste in the rectum. The wall is thin.

I'm however unsure what the goal is for such a remark. Presumably the woman is aware of that.

Maybe in fact he did do a rectal, felt waste, and the remark was a “subtle” way of telling her to go have a bowel movement before her next gyn exam.

I was 13. Remember it vividly!

Please, @Abwginner13 tell us the details. we would all love to hear about it

I remember being called in and my mom squeezing my hand before sending me with the nurse.

I remember being mortified when the Nurse asked me if I was sexually active. The nurse helped me disrobe. I almost cried when she had me take my panties off too. I was in a thin gown that tied in the front. When I sat on the exam table I could feel the cold metal with the thin paper covering under my ass.

The nurse did my weight/height before she had me sit. Then the normal blood pressure, temperature, eyes, reflexes and ears. Then she left me to wait.

It took forever. Finally she came back with the doctor and almost cried again. I was so scared. I was having this exam so young because I started my period when i was 9. My mom wanted to make sure I was healthy. My pediatrician referred me to this gyno, but again I was only 13.

I remember him telling me it was going to be ok. The nurse stayed with me. They told me to lay back and talked to me about self breast exams. I could not even listen I was so mortified. I remember him opening the gown and placing his hand on my tiny breast. Manipulating it, asking me if it hurt, prodding my nipple. I kept squeezing my eyes shut and I got told to open and watch so I would know how to do it. It was hell but I remember my nipple hardening and when he touched them both it felt so strange but not bad. No one had ever touched them before.

He pushed down my tummy. At the time I didn’t understand what he was doing. I kept feeling ticklish. He had me stand up and bend touch my toes. Checking my back. I remember my gown being bunched at my waist and shivering as he touched my spine. He felt my shoulder and neck. I couldn’t look at him.

Then I remember being helped back on the table and moved by the nurse to lay back. She took my legs and placed them in the stirrups. I didn’t get what was going on. I kept trying to close my knees. He opened them and told me that they needed to be open. The nurse took my gown and cover my abdominal and chest. I started to cry realizing that I had to stay open. I was mortified.

Closing my eyes I jumped when he first touched my pussy lips. He was telling me what he was doing and why but I barely listened. The nurse reassuringly patted my arm and was trying to calm me. I just cried. I felt him open my tiny tight lips. I had only a bit of hair. I remember the sound of his stool and him moving a light. He touched very fold and lightly ran his finger over me. I didn’t understand about my clit and I remember my hips bucking when it felt so sharp like a touch was sharp. I remember when he slide a finger in me for the first time. It was tight. He pressed around asking me things. I cried not of pain but just of everything that was happening. I remember the nurse clarifying what he was asking me trying to help me.

They showed me the speculum and explained it to me. I asked them not to. They were both reassuring. It was a tiny one. I didn’t have any idea at the time about the different sizes. I remember that aching feeling deep in me when I was opened up for the first time. Everyone very reassuring but it was so intense. I remember thinking I was there like that forever, they kept doing different things and it hurt me. I remember them talking about cramps and feeling a prickly feeling deep up in me. I remember being so happy when it was done.

I didn’t understand when he said he had to do a rectal exam. I literally didn’t know what he meant. I jumped when he put some lube on my asshole. The nurse calming me again. I cried so hard when he put a finger in me. For some reason he withdrew it a few times and would put a new glove on after writing things and do it again.

I remember the nurse wiping my ass and pussy when the doctor left and helped me get dressed. My mom hugged me when she saw my face and realized how much I cried.

It was a very humiliating, dramatic day for my 13 year old self.

i am sure there are so many more things that I don’t remember, didn’t listen very well or just didn’t understand at the time.

Oh my f***ing god!!! @Abwginne

THAT WAS AWESOME!

you are a really great writer.

its like i was there

@Abwginner13 I'm shocked they did the speculum exam anyway even though you told them not to (but not so much surprised).

@Abwginner13 I was sad to hear that it was such a traumatizing experience for you. I think it would have been better if your mom had gone in with you.

@Abwginner13 I was sad to hear that it was such a traumatizing experience for you. I think it would have been better if your mom had gone in with you.

Why compound the distress by having someone else witness the whole thing? Having a family member witness it would be yet even more worse. After all, one lives with family and you can hardly ignore them afterwards. They will always have the knowledge of your distress and emotional reaction.

If such an exam is necessary and you want comfort, far better to have a stranger whom you never need see again.

I was 19 and went by myself to see a male gyno. He was in his 60’s and was nice enough but he examined me alone and he asked if I knew where my G spot was and offered to show me. He had his fingers in my vagina for a while. I knew it was creepy and never went back. Just another thing that contributed to my kink I guess.

I was 15 years old and I was at yearly examination by my pediatrician. When the doctor spread my labias, he didn't like something and told me he would order me for gynecology. I slept badly nights before the examination.

Three day later I was on the gynecology chair. It was humiliating, it was unpleasure, it was painful, but I have to say it was also little exciting.

@Daniela Painful? What was done that ended up being painful?

I was 20 when I had my first exam, and it was pretty average. She was very gentle with my breast exam and I think she used a small sized speculum because it wasn't uncomfortable at all. I moved and had to change doctors and once I had my second gyno exam at 23 it was a completely different experience. The breast exam. Was fine, but the speculum insertion was very uncomfortable, stretching me far past my comfort level and she was alot rougher with the swab. It was a relief when the speculum came out, because she had tiny fingers and the rest of the exam was fine. I have since moved again and have a new doctor, appointment will be later this summer. It will be the first time I have had a man examine me down south so I hope he is gentle.

So I have a fifteen-year and the first gynecological examination 😕. My mother received an SMS asking us to go to the pediatrician on Monday at 2 pm and take my morning urine with me, so unfortunately I only lost my artist at school 🙂. There was no one in the waiting room, so the nurse greeted me before I could sit down. I handed her the insurance card and the urine in the test tube, she immediately invited us to go to the doctor's office with her. There she urged me to take off my underwear and gain weight, then she measured me, checked my hearing and eyesight, measured my blood pressure and took blood from my finger. Then she and my mother sent me to the next room to see the doctor. First there was a short interview, when she asked me, among other things, if I had already tried alcohol or cigarettes - she probably thought I would confess to her in front of my mother or what… 🤣 Then she looked down my throat, felt her neck from outside, shuffled variously, my head, checked my spine, then told me to take off my bra and listen to my heart. Then she started examining my abdomen and legs on a lounger, I expected him to rummage down there as well, but it didn't happen and she said instead, you can get dressed. I thought I was lucky, but I was wrong. The doctor sat down at the PC and said in the meantime: "Then I'll write you an application for gynecology and you can go home." I thought they were vomiting and started protesting, but the doctor said that it was necessary to at least register there at the age of fifteen and recommended us a pediatric gynecologist in our city. From the idea that he was a guy, I felt sick, but I wanted to get out of the surgery, so I was silent saying that I would discuss it with my mother and I would not go anywhere if it was just a recommendation. My mom didn't even want to deal with me much, so I thought she would let it go. The next day she told me that I was booked on Friday at 10:30 and that I didn't have to worry about just doing an ultrasound through my stomach, so I needed to come up with a full bladder when I was still a virgin. That calmed me down and I didn't think much about it anymore. On Friday morning I drank 3 glasses of water and we drove, in the waiting room there were about 4 girls younger than me, so I thought maybe it would go fast, but after an hour the nurse only called the surgery in front of me, but I couldn't stand it anymore and she asked for the keys to the toilet, but the nurse said I had to endure it for a while and slammed the door. If it wasn't for Mom, I'd leave. In another quarter or so, it was finally my turn, and my mother and I entered the office, and there was such a gray senior doctor sitting at a desk. He greeted us with such a "nice" smile, asked what "brings us" and then started asking intimate questions like first, last, regular menstruation and to show him my menstrual calendar, I didn't even know there was such a thing, so he taught me and wanted me to introduce it, they say it's best to download the application to your mobile phone. In the meantime, I almost started to cross with my legs crossed, so he said we're going to do an ultrasound so you can bounce back. He smeared my belly with some gel and began to tickle my belly with that probe. I thought I'd really let it go, it seemed endless, then he finally stopped, handed me the wipes to wipe my belly, and pointed to the door where I could bounce. When I returned to the office, the doctor asked me if I wished my mother would stay in the room during the examination. I stayed scalded, I thought it was ending with the ultrasound, then he told me that I didn't have to worry that he would just gently examine my parents and teach me to examine my breasts, he smiled and said that there was nothing to worry about. younger girls and pointed to the curtain where I have to undress (except for socks) from the waist down. So I said I didn't want my mom and I went for the curtain. There I almost collapsed and started crying, at which the doctor asked if we could, so I quickly wiped the tears in my sleeve, undressed, and climbed out of the curtain with my crotch covered. The doctor was already sitting in a chair by the chair and helping me to get up and put my feet in the armrests, but I still covered my crotch and kept my knees together, after which the doctor told me to try to relax as much as possible and start stretching my knees as far apart as possible. and he said to put his hands on his chest and breathe deeply. He put on his gloves and began to stretch my labia in different directions and squeeze them lightly, finally pulling the skin off my clitoris but not touching it. I already thought it was over, but he started showing me a narrow tube of light that he was about to push into me, supposedly to look at the cervix. If it wasn't metal and cold, I wouldn't even feel it until he started moving from side to side inside, it was annoying, then he looked through a magnifying "binoculars" for a while. When he turned off the light and pulled out the tube, I thought I had the worst behind me, but I still had a "surprise." The doctor said he still had to check the pendants - I didn't even know what it was. Since I didn't have intercourse, he had to feel me rectally and started squeezing the gel out of the tube with one finger. Somehow I didn't discuss what he wanted to do… then he said to push as if on a stool and took a deep breath, after which he exhaled a finger in my rectum - I didn't give it up and started twitching away from him and I started crying, then he said : "Hold on, miss, it will be right away," he twisted his finger from side to side for a moment, feeling my belly, which seemed endless, the most humiliating, and pretty uncomfortable. When I got down from my chair, he was still touching my breasts and armpits and explaining the self-investigation, but I was already so pr.e.i that I don't remember this part very well. My ass still hurt on Saturday. I never want to see a gynecologist again, at most during childbirth. Guys have it much easier. 😕