Playing Solo pushing limits

It seems a lot on this board is aimed at couples, especially when discussing pleasurable pain. However I am sure that I am not the only "soloist". What have you done in the past on your own to fulfill needs to sensation?

My own list includes enemas (some have been very memorable in terms of temperature and ingredients), self bondage, using hot rubs, spanking myself, stretching using butt plugs, an inflatable dildo as well as other toys - pushing limits and trying to find that elusive "something".

What have you done or fantasized about in the past? Remember that this thread is based on the solo experience. Hoping to find some ideas and get discussion going.

Hi efetish! I'm glad to know I am not the only solo player around here - thanks for asking the question. In my 30 plus years playing solo I have experimented with many things, mostly using vanilla items - though among my first insertions were suppositories when in my teens.

As I grew older and had more access to a wider variety of items I experimented with rectal temperatures and home made enemas (usually using squeezy plastic bottles). I love spanking myself and taking my temperature rectally. I also discovered the delights of ice in the butt one very hot summer around 10 years ago.

I never had any contact with the kink community until I discovered Zity around 5 months ago, since when I have bought my first proper butt plug, have experimented with figging and mostly recently have purchased a Higginson enema syringe (I love that pulsing sensation! 😁 ).

Since I have always played solo I am by nature fairly cautious, so have never really pushed my limits, but love fantasising about doing so - usually as an unwilling patient, restrained and subjected to various medical procedures, though curiously I have never experimented with self-bondage in real life.

I have done a couple enemas solo and for myself since I don't have a Dom. In my head, when I was finishing up school and I wasn't focusing I would threaten myself with spanking. I never actually did it and it was humorous to think about it too. If I lived alone, I probably would solo spank.

I don't do much since its solo but I think about 'what if' situations in my head about if I had a Dom. That brings some interesting ideas. There are plenty of things to do solo though, I think you just have to get creative and definitely know your limits.

I play solo too. I suppose the best thing I can say about it is that when I ever do finally meet someone who is into the same things as me, I will know exactly what I like and can tell them. That way, we can jump right into kinky play that pushes the right buttons!!! Before I found this place online, I had trouble defining what kinky was (is). Now, i do not have trouble explaining that, yes I am kinky and this (xyz....) is what I like. Do this and you will unleash the animal!!!

If you want to see how tough you are get an epilator see how long you can keep going and how close to the soft sensitive bits of your body ie pubic under arms sides shoulders.

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I play solo 95% of the time and recently I purchased a

"Ideal" band castrator tool and have been useing it while I take and hold 2-qt enemas.

It places a tight rubber banding ring around the scrotum that cuts of circulation an if left too long it will

cause the testees to die and in sme cases part of the scrotum will fall off.

I have been leaveing it on for 15 minuts before cutting the band off.

I REALLY hurts when the band is cut ! !

I plan to leave it on 20 minits next time.

Such a rush !

Toothpaste toothpaste toothpaste 😃

Carve a ginger root into a buttplug, drill a hole through the center of it, and insert the small enema nozzle. Insert the root into your bottom, and release the water!

Paul 1950 said

I play solo 95% of the time and recently I purchased a

"Ideal" band castrator tool and have been useing it while I take and hold 2-qt enemas.

It places a tight rubber banding ring around the scrotum that cuts of circulation an if left too long it will

cause the testees to die and in sme cases part of the scrotum will fall off.

I have been leaveing it on for 15 minuts before cutting the band off.

I REALLY hurts when the band is cut ! !

I plan to leave it on 20 minits next time.

Such a rush !

That's not a good idea.

Kill your balls and good luck getting erections or having sex anymore.

Kiss you manly muscles good-bye too.

Be careful.

Paul1950, I am familiar with sheep elastrators and those tiny thick rubber bands that they put on to close off the circulation and cause the sheep's balls to eventually fall off. All I can say is, "Holy shit!" The sheep didn't seem to like it one bit and I'm not sure how you get that "rubber band" off, but I'd think that even for a little while you'd run the risk of some nerve or blood vessel damage. Whatever floats your boat, though. Good luck!

I've given myself mini-enemas, bound my breasts with string, edged myself til I was so crazily desperate I almost cried, spanked my clit with a ruler, fucked my bottomhole with a hairbrush handle, and experimented with Vicks Vaporub, tiger balm and soap as anal lube.

Always have solo enema when I get the chance.

Using constrictive bands or rings on the scrotum or penis is asking for trouble. I have seen necrosis of the penis on a patient who fell asleep and forgot to take it off. Paul since we haven't heard from you I assume that you've destroyed your scrotum and testes or you are fine. Any band can produce such swelling and edema that it becomes impossible to cut off. Play safely....

I like doing CBT and usually leave clothes pins on for along time. I usually tie my balls tightly separating them. 7 or 8 clothes pins used around the foreskin and are left until I am squirming. I pull them off rather than releasing. The usually jack of and it doesn't take long to climax. Sometimes I do that in conjunction with an enema.

The main things I do are spanking and putting clothes pegs / magnets on my clit. It's really sensitive since starting testosterone and the feeling of doing anything to it is just so much stronger now. I recently tried those ones that are really strong balls and love the sensation.

I'm a trans guy with a large chest so I tend to bind a lot in day to day life. Wouldn't really class it as kink for that reason, even if there are time I do it during solo play. What I do like is pushing hard on different parts of my body. I occasionally do this with my breasts, but depending on how dysphoric I am I don't always like giving them my attention. Around my groin is my favourite. Often I'll press hard enough to be bruised the next day. Sometimes I slap myself hard until it stings too.

I've been doing more partnered electrical play recently and would like to get into doing that to myself. I just don't have the equipment yet.

Nipple and clit clamps, nettles on clit ; safetypins though nipples and clithood, pressing sharp things against nipples and clit

I really like stretching my anus, stuffing in large items. I have taken to using an ear of corn up my ass. I sit on it and slide up and down on it. I most recently picked a few ears of dried field corn and using those until I cant take it any more. They are longer and fatter than regular sweet corn and being dry, they are hard and rough.

Since my wife lost all interest in sex I started playing solo more and more. I've liked anal stimulation since I was a kid so I've experimented with household objects like cucumbers and carrots, the head of a large screwdriver, and even a ball from a trailer hitch. I like binding myself, especially spread eagle. I've recently started using small rope to stretch my balls while enjoying a vibrator, butt plug, or dildo in my ass. Someday I want to meet someone who will peg me.

Love2play...

I'm in the same boat you're in. Wife lost interest. Bummer

I retired a few years before my wife did, and although we had an active sex life while she was home, I had a lot of time to kill when she was working. I'll start with enemas, (a really great way to kill a lot of time.)

I use enemas mainly for clean out before anal play, but I do enjoy extreme enemas at times for their own sake.

Enema limits I push: nozzle depth; nozzle thickness; fill volume; fill rate; hold time; strength of abdominal convulsions during violent expulsions. (I don't push limits on high temperature or harsh chemical solutions, and I back off if I feel any pain other than cramping.)

Here’s some of the gear I use in kinky solo play to abuse myself in various, sometimes painful ways.

Toys I use on sensitive areas: nipple clamps; nipple suction devices; cock rings; cock sleeves; cock suction devices; glans rings; cock and ball harnesses (leather and metal); dildos; butt plugs; enema nozzles; colon tubes; anal hooks; one-piece metal cock-ring and ball-butt-plug (a big favorite); penis plugs; urethral toys; urethral sounds; vibrators; (e-stim soon)

Bondage devices and gear I use on myself: spreader bar; restraints for ankles, wrists, thighs, hips and neck; heavy leather torso harnesses; sex swing; floggers; rods to which plugs and dildos can be attached; stands to hold rods; paddles; gags; collars; blindfolds; leashes; weights; cord; bungee cord; rope; chains; pulleys; rings; snap hooks; padded body board with multiple eye hooks; eye hooks secured in fixed objects like ceiling, walls, and furniture

Lastly, here is a sampling of some of many, sometimes painful ways I abuse myself solo.

General Kinds of Things I do to myself: self bondage; self suspension; self flogging or paddling; using some toys for sensitive areas that I previously mentioned to connect sensitive areas to other sensitive areas, to weights, to fixed objects, or to the bondage gear I'm in

Here's a bizarre example.

Example 1: Insert the largest diameter penis plug I can, (which always hurts going in), stand with my legs widespread over a 2.5 pound weight on floor, tie a cord from the ring on my penis plug to the 2.5 lb weight, wait until the penis plug stops hurting, slowly bring my legs together to lift the 2.5 lb plate into the air with just my penis, hold it a few agonizing seconds with a big fake smile, and swing it around a little to get some good video. Who says I can't be 9 inches? A little on the thin side, though.

Usually I'm looking for new ways to stimulate my cock, balls, and ass to get mind blowing hands free orgasms while partially bound. There must be millions of ways to use the gear I have to do this.

Example 2: Clamp my ankles into my spreader bar to spread my legs wide, adjust a stand in front me to hold a cock sleeve securely at just he right height and distance, snap hook my wrist restraints to an overhead chain hanging from a ceiling eye hook, (which I can hopefully get out of later), and try to fuck the cock sleeve no hands until I cum.

Example 3: Insert a fat butt plug, get into my leather torso harness (configured like a climbing harness), tighten up the straps, put on a leather cock and ball harness and secure a magic wand vibrator to it, snap my torso harness into chains hanging from the ceiling, step off my little platform so I'm only lightly touching the floor with just my tiptoes, switch on the vibrator, start swatting my backside with a flogger, watch myself in a big wall mirror as my butt turns redder and I do an involuntary little spastic dance on my tiptoes with each new swat, and finally cum like crazy.

I could go on and on. Yes, I know I'm a perv.