Sex or No Sex in a Play Exam

NO sex in a play exam for me. Not a matter of realism or not, it is a matter of I don't think it is the right thing to do. Sharing sex with an "almost stranger" is never right.

I feel there is a certain place for testing sexual response and function within the confins of medfet and feel that a ejaculation for a seman sample is mandatory. Likewise, I find it critical to determine that female patients have normal sexual function with lubricating secretions, etc. I guess if the patient is female and part of her fantasy clinical experience is to have sex with the doctor, that is more than acceptable.

I've refrained from commenting in this thread, since the obvious answer is OF COURSE, SEX IS INCLUDED. But then, I play with dear wife and not almost strangers.

Speed

Well, first of all I´d say that a play exam IS a form of sex, however you try to define it. It involves nudity, handling of genitalia and other privates areas of the body and usually also involves penetration by instruments and/or fingers ... now if that is not sex then I don´t know what is.

I don´t think people should try and fool themselves about this aspect.

However, as far as ´traditional sex´ goes: coitus, copulation or however you wish to call it, I don´t see how it can really be part of a serious play exam. If partners in play exams like it (afterwards I would think), then of course it is fine as can be. But if you are looking for a more serious medical play experience, then I would say that traditional sex has no place during a play exam. And certainly not with ´just met´ medfet partners.

I think Agracier post really say in few lines all the important considerations about this important thread, a karma for him by that!

Sex is sex (conventional sex) and play is play.

No sex during the exams and the play most realistic as possible.

Like many before It depends upon the situation.

Clinical politely authorative during any exam.

Thereafter consenting adults and all that entails may come to the fore.

I dont't like sex during a play Exam. The Exam has to look like a real exam and sex doesn't fit in it.

Of course the exam has a erotic aspect due to the examination of the genitials and standing naked

in front of te doctor

Sex afterwards.

I've done both but the most common if there is to be sex is sex immediately after the exam is concluded. By sex I assume you mean some kind of penis in (name your orifice of choice) activity. Orgasms happen during the exam but I don't count that as sex per se. Sexual yes, sex no.

I prefer no sex and like best clinical distance but must admit that sex can happen. when that happen I do agree that will be tendentiously right after the exam is over like drphilips said. I find natural that sex may happen frequently after the exam if the patient and doctor have a relationship like being a couple but off course that the exam may trigger the urge of conventional sex to anybody...

I've done both but the most common if there is to be sex is sex immediately after the exam is concluded. By sex I assume you mean some kind of penis in (name your orifice of choice) activity. Orgasms happen during the exam but I don't count that as sex per se. Sexual yes, sex no.

I also agree and see patient's orgasms during exam as sexual and not sex

Would I be correct assuming that "sex" during a play exam is referring to the doctor penetrating his patient with his penis? I would most certainly want to have a patient have at least one orgasm during their examination either as a result of my stimulating them or by having them masturbate whilst I was checking their vitals. I would not expect to have intercourse with a patient during an exam.

Depends on the agreement between the examiner and patient.

I always try to maintain a distant and professional demeanor, while at the same time my fingers betray a slightly more devious motive. I've found my patients like the fact that while I appear to be completely professional, they continue to get more and more sexually aroused by my exam....undressing for me; pinching nipples to test reaction; viewing/inspecting vagina, vulva, clitoris; anal lubrication/exam. The longer the exam goes, and the more penetrating my fingers, maybe absent-mindedly slithering over clitoris while probing anally for example, the more lubricated they get (and it's obvious to both of us, with her heavy breathing, twitching of abdomen/thighs, erect nipples, etc.) ....but I prefer to pretend that I am still examining her even though she clearly is on the verge of an orgasm..... and when it comes, I prefer to "stay prfessional" and just have her lie back, relax and allow me to continue my examination.

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I have fantasized many times with sex and many times without. It depends on the mood I guess.

So far all fantasies and no real play.

It depends for me. In a straight play exam, no, but if the patient wants a second exam later on that is more sexual in nature and it's been agreed on by both parties, then I'm ok with it.

Having sex as part of the exam would ruin the realism for me, unless i'm examing my wife when things often lead on to even more fun!

I will check sexual response if my patient requests it, but never to full sex.

Yes, sex ... but at the right time ...

I would guess that medplay between people who are already partners is more often a form of foreplay, while between relative strangers the scenario is usually the important thing and full sex would spoil that. I'm sure there are exceptions though.

If they behave themselves throughout I might include sex, most often I dont though!.

In my opinion sex does not belong to the medfet -playing doctor-. It is like any other hobby ... e.g. meeting for exchanging collected stamps. This also does not include sex. But if the chemistry with the partner of the hobby fits, it might happen that you are going to have sex despite if your hobby is playing doctor or collecting stamps.

In my opinion the purpose of exams is for both parties to full fill some type of need are fantasy. Therefore what ever takes place, sex or no sex BDSM or what ever there is it should not be judged by others. Yes everyone has their on opinion but ever one also has their on desires that I believe should be respected.

For me medfet has to be as realistic as possible and very clinical. I can be both the doctor and/or the patient (but prefer to be the patient 😄 )

When being the doctor, I keep it very realistic by giving a basic exam. But a sperm extraction from the patient is required in my play exams. I do this by either giving the patient and very thorough prostate exam while slowly masturbating the patient or I just slowly masturbate the patient or I do it in the form of electrostimulation. My pleasure is to give the exam and tease the patients penis until he is moaning & groaning with pleasure and try not to have the patient cum until I'm ready for him to cum.

If I'm the patient, I prefer the same done to me and even several sperm samples are taken as the doctor or the nurse or both milk my dick so that I no longer have any sperm left to give. A complete draining....LOL.

I don't like to have sex with the patients or vice versa because that is not the "true" sense of medfet. If I wanted to have sex with the person, then I wouldn't want it in the setting of medical play and then it just becomes normal boring vanilla sex without the kink of medfet and it takes away from the purpose of the whole lure of medfet role-play.

However, it all depends on the scenario you and your partner has set up and what you both enjoy and agree too! Have fun and always play safe!

Mboyd77.

If I have understood your post correctly, please forgive me if I have not, then what you're suggesting is that you don't consider masturbation, giving or receiving, to be a sexual act as long as it happens under the umbrella of a medical fetish exam.

I assume what you are referring to when you mention "sex" is actually sexual intercourse. I have to say in my humble opinion performing an act which deliberately elicits sexual arousal should surely be construed to be a sexual act.

Please don't misunderstand, I'm not criticising in any way or suggesting this shouldn't occur during a play examination, it certainly does when I perform exams, I'm merely stating that sexual intercourse is not the only act which should be described as sex.

I have read posts where someone has written "I wouldn't want there to be sex in a play exam" I find this to be somewhat misleading where in certain cases they would enjoy some form of sexual arousal to happen, they just wouldn't wish to have intercourse or provide the "doctor with sexual gratification.

I feel a better and more accurate statement might be along the lines of "No sexual intercourse, but some form of sexual stimulation would be acceptable /expected"

I do understand that peoples understanding can be vastly diverse. I have known several guys who would insist that if they hadn't ejaculated into a vagina, regardless of whatever else they might have done they had not had sex. Go figure.

Personally, I don't need to have sex to enjoy an exam. But if it happens with the suitable person, of course it make things much more exiciting!

Not at the beginning but when the time is right we want😃

A Medfet "Playdoctor" exam in my opinion should be just that, An Exam.

I would find it would kill the scenario stone dead if anything other than what the doctor can or could do to a patient in an AUTHENTIC setting happened.

I tell all of my patients that contact between Dr and Patient is done professionally, but once the exam is over, anything goes!.

I mean, video's like College Boy Physicals where Dr is in control and professional are excellent but as soon as the Dr and patient get it on, it ruins it for me.

Dr Peters

Without sex for me, a professional cardiovascular exam from a skillful female doctor is the best.

No sex! Though, to be fair, my play doctors have asked me to produce a semen sample. And there were a couple times when I allowed him to jerk me off, but I probably wouldn't have requested it if he didn't bring it up.

I would also suggest no sex. But this would depend on the definition being used, as I would deisre (and certainly wouldn't object)collection of semen either through prostate massage or penile stimulation by the dr - both of which are strictly sexual acts