Sex or No Sex in a Play Exam

I have de same opinion of Amaral. I like realism in a play exam, so NO SEX!

If my playdoctor tried to have sex during a medical examination, I don't want to be anymore your pacient!

Sex is sex, play is play!

Cheers for all

For me the exam is foreplay. I always finish the exam with oral sex and then penetration. I have recently talked my wife into trying medfet again. The sex is mindblowing. It is nice to be able to share my fantasies with her and to have her respond in a very positive way.

I think this is one of those things that would depend on the individual, and I would hope that you would know the person well enough to know their feelings on this. After all, you are trusting them to be safe with exploring your body--you should know some details about their likes, dislikes and expectations. Just about all of my experiences so far with playing doctor have been in the context of a relationship, so more often than not the exam was just extended foreplay. Since it is a turn on to examine or be examined, I can see where sex is a definite possibility, but not necessarily an expectation.

In Play exams I have a sperm sample extracted from me. Some exams have had sexual playing but not sex. Certainly play exams are generally very highly charged and if my nurse went a bit further I'm sure I wouldn't say no.

In real exams I do not go looking for sex.

I enjoy very formal examinations where the doctor is very authoritative and everything is conducted in a very proper manner but I sometimes like a sexual element, rather along the lines of the sexual therapy which BigK describes in his post. For example, I might nervously confide to the doctor that my husband wants us to try anal sex but that I'm scared I won't be able to relax enough to take him in there and that I won't enjoy it - then the doctor might be able to help me get over this problem by stimulating me anally, stretching me etc. Therefore it is sex/sexual arousal but strictly within the context of the play scenario. Similarly, I have confided concerns about not being able to experience orgasm which my very obliging doctor has also been able to help me with in the past. As a patient I take an extremely submissive role, allowing the doctor to do whatever he wishes and this has included intercourse in the past in the sense of the doctor forcing himself on the patient (this was negotiated etc beforehand within the context of the play scene; indeed negotiation before any scene is vital). For me, total submission and passivity at the hands of the authority figure - the doctor - is a very important part of play for me, as is the embarrassment of knowing that the doctor senses my arousal or the humiliation of trying to hide it. I particularly enjoy the doctor conducting 'procedures' which I may suspect are designed to satisfy his perversity rather than being legitimate and for my own good. I have had some memorable sessions where I am simply used as a human guinea pig for the doctor to experiment with new equipment, techniques etc.

It depends very much of the situation. My sessions are only partly 'scripted', as I prefer things to happen naturally. Usually the play is sufficiently erotic by itself, and interruption by 'penetration' just does not fit. But it happened also differently. As I am usually in the role of doctor, I sometimes really have the need to feel physical stimulation myself, and then it is possible to include it in anytime with a submissive patient. Also depends on the erotic tension that has been built up between doctor and patient. Furthermore, I fully respect upfront agreements with my play partners!

Genital stimulation for sexual purposes and orgasm of my patient are for me part of the session!

If you are a true medfet person, sexual intercourse is irrelevant. In fact, sexual intercourse is less pleasurable that actual play.

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If you are a true medfet person, sexual intercourse is irrelevant. In fact, sexual intercourse is less pleasurable that actual play.

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congratulations anyway! I just gave you your first karma for that statement, I wanted to state something similar long long time ago concerning myself but I suppose I din't had the guts...

I actually don't like to mix medfet with intercourse. Not because I don't want to do it, but because it feels more real this way. This activity arouses me plenty, and same goes for the patient, but although having sex with the patient would be very pleasant for both, it would also ruin a lot of the realism. On the other hand, I don't have, nor will have any personal rules against the patient pleasuring self, or doing "sample collection".

No sex for me really. Too unrealistic. But getting 'samples' the Professional way definitely is the way to go

My friend and I keep it "professional" - so no sex in our exams ... but we openly discuss any sexual 'issues' as part of the exam

No sex for me after exam

I prefer no sex. I like to keep it very realistic.

Isn't there a distinction here between 'no sex' and 'no sexual intercourse'? Sex, as in certain amounts of stimulation, responsiveness testing etc (i.e. not intercourse but direct sexual stimulation) can play a part in medfet examinations and can add to the intensity of the experience (not from a sexual stimulation point of view so much as the submission/embarrassment/humiliation factor for me at least - the doctor is doing all these unspeakable things to me and I don't want to be aroused but I am and he can see that I am and I feel ashamed). Sex in that context can enhance the experience for me. I agree, however, that sexual intercourse per se is nothing at all to do with medical fetish. Indeed, sexual desire should have nothing to do with medfet for the purist in my view which is why I personally don't like it when I am asked to send a photo before meeting a potential play partner. Genuine medical fetish enthusiasts should have no interest in physical attraction in my personal opinion.

@ Rosalyn

I interpret that "no sex" would mean that there is nothing sexual during an exam, and it is about the medical examination experience itself. But, I do concur with you that there is a difference between "no sexual intercourse" and "sexual stimulation" during a play exam. When I examine a patient, naturally I incorporate the elements of a breast, vaginal and DRE exam. Yet the magic of the play is when the patient is submitted to the DR's inappropriate tantalizing touching, being seductively aroused, and then being forfieted to receive peculiar sexual stimulation / responsivity tests (that doesn't include sexual intercourse). To me, the play is very much about the the patient's emotions (embarrassement, vulnerability, capitulation) while succumbing to the pleasurable physical sensations and surrendering to the aberrant Gynecologist and his exploitations. It is, as you say, "these unspeakable things" while being nakedly vulnerable in the DR's control and becoming sexually innervated that encapsulates the excitement of a play exam.

For us, a play exam is a different type of foreplay. The objective for dear wife and me is to do some kinky things to each other in a medical setting and then have wild monkey sex.

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@gynadmirer - yes, that really encapsulates the essence of the play exam for me, too. Some earlier replies had been talking specifically about intercourse which, I agree, generally would have no place in a play exam.

I have never had a play partner who was also a lover or sexual partner, so the question of sex life spilling over into play in that respect has never cropped up. Having said that, I don't think I'd particularly want to mix sexual relationships with medfet; my relationship with my play doctors is fairly formal, even where we have become friendly over a period of years and I am indeed very fond of a couple of play doctors and we are very close but a sexual and/or love relationship would completely overturn the doctor patient dynamic, for me. I'm interested to hear of couples who successfully combine the two. If my primary partner were a medfet play doc, I think the way we would combine it would be for me to play as his nurse/assistant in scenes with other play patients. I genuinely would not be interested in submitting as a play patient to someone with whom I was sexually and/or romantically involved. Maybe it's just me who is odd that way....... 😃

@Rosalyn

You ask about couples that combine the two (sexual stimulation - sexual intercourse) during a play exam. Let me first start by saying that I do play exams with my wife. I also do fantasy gyn exam scenes with other female play patients (with my wife's knowledge and consent).

Regarding gyn exam playing with other females, my wife and I have an understanding that there is to be no sexual intercourse between myself as the Doc, and whomever may be my patient. My wife prefers that sexual intercourse remains exclusive to our relationship, and I am honorable to her wishes. Although, there is a common thread to all of my female patient's fantasies, which are the aspects of embarrassment, vulnerability, and finding themselves being inappropriately

inspected, examined and explored with sexual intention. This is where my play patient's receive an aberrant gynecological examination requiring some sort of sexual response testing involving sexual stimulation that propels them to cataclysmic orgams.

On the other hand, when I play with my wife as a patient, then there is more latitude with her as a patient in my stirrups. She embraces the same integral emotional elements and the fantasy to be sexually stimulated while being examined and acquiescent to the Dr. I will incorporate some similar stimulation that I would do with my play patients; but in the case with my wife being my patient it affords the freedom for sexual intercourse. This captures an elevated essence of vulnerability with her in the lithotomy position succumbing to the DR being unorthodox and having intercourse with her for some sort of peculiar coital examination / procedure.

I'm ok either way. It really depends on our relationship and what we worked out for the scene. I've noticed there are a lot of differences and nuances in people's preferences.

Thanks for the reply @gynadmirer - I can see how that works for you.

No sex for me.

Masturbation is possibele but i don't like real sex during the game. It has to be for me as realistic as possible and sex doesn't fit in that picture. Although it may be a little erotic.

No sex, realistic as possible. Though during most of my play exams my female doc usually has to have a sperm sample at the end which is taken with the aid of a vibrator. I found out recently that there is a vibrator on the market called the "Ferticare" that is made for the purpose of obtaining samples from guys who have e.d. or are paralyzed so I guess even that is somewhat realistic.

The few 'patients' that I have met all have very particular requests, and I'm happy to go along with them. They always ask to have their vaginas stretched, and all request clitoral stimulation to orgasm. So far, I have not engaged in penetrative sex, but if both parties agree, what's the harm?

I prefer that the examination scene remain clinical and we remain in the roleplay. I understand needing to extract a semen sample, but not going any further than that. Now, after the scene is complete, if things go beyond that.......

I insist on keeping the entire exam nonsexual and purely clinical but, after the exam is complete, I enjoy lying on my back and having a fully clothed doctor give me a hand job to completion.

Always sex. My G/F's fantasy is that the GYN always has sex during the well woman exam.

I abstain from sex while giving the exam and stay completely in role all the way until the end of the examination. After the exam is over and the patient is dressed, then if the chemistry is right, the patient may get undressed again and we'll fool around. Otherwise it stays clinical and realistic.

I'm professional in my play exams which means no sex. I may perform a milking procedure but I'm not into the idea of riding every patient that walks in my door.

Sex is a natural ending of an exam for me and my gf! The exam gives me so much stimulation, so I really have to empty myself after that 😃