Do you prefer Giving or Receiving Enemas?

I like both but perfer to be on the recieving end.

I've always held that it's better to give than to receive. I've never felt like I'm a control freak, either.

I enjoy both, but receiving is my preference.

I love to receive. To be gently treated and pampered, to put myself totally in the hands of my partner - (male or female)is my idea of bliss. I can give and share with another girl but could not give to a male. it would feel totally wrong.

"It is more blessed to give than receive"

or is it

"It is more blessed to receive than give"

I'll have one of each, please.

Very definitely Receiving. 😉

The mere thought of surrending myself to another, trusting him completely, giving him control over one of the most intimate parts of me is..........pure bliss!

Whether a enema for pain or pleasure....I love to receive. 😃

I can do either, but I prefer to receive.

I am puzzled that no one suggested sharing which would be my choice! I believe this would be the ideal situation. Giving each other an enema simultaneously, or how about a 4 quart bag with a "y" connector and two nozzles.

Only if you've got a house with two bathrooms!

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I prefer receiving, but sometimes I like giving. And also I like watching on enema-procedure.

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Your last sentence shows you are a man of real distinction. Total sensual immersion needs a good dose of the "other" by which I mean not only concentrating on the passive but simultaneously on the active. Which is why so many husbands love bringing their big assed 😉 wives up to my enema love nest where long drawn out RT's and red rubber bulb enemas are generously dispensed and reflected in pier glass mirrors from strategic vantage points.

By the way, I just love your lovely big arsed wife or GF in the gallery and the way you show your practiced hand in the pics is a real big plus! 😜 Much thanks!

Receiving - 90% Giving 10%

I would much rather receive than give, the only problem is so would my BF. We always have a friendly give and take but we both prefer to be on the receiving end. It's kind of frustrating sometimes, especially if the giver rushes to get to their turn. (Both of us have been guilty of that)

To " Watertight " and " Vickisenema " , when receiving an enema you ( like me ) are searching feelings , pleasures , arousal and much more , why don't you the same behaviour when giving , searching to participate more with his pleasures , feelings and ...... ; as example hold the nozzle with one hand with this hand pushing his anus inside , like helping him to be watertight , use a Higginson syringue / in line bulb and vary the flow in conjunction with his arousal , try to make him cum faster , then relax , play with him hold him on the edge , move the nozzle , clench his nuts , warm them , make him a blowjob , stroke him , they are so much possibilities to play with his sensuality , if he is laying on his back come on him and take a ride , think to what you " exercise " in other conditions and mix with the actual situation , nothing is shame or stupid only less or more tasty , if you here and enjoying enemas you like tasty fantasies .

Enjoy

I much prefer giving enemas and like to be in full control!

I truly enjoy both. On occasion my wife needs a good cleanout. While she takes the enema well she does not seem to be turnd on by them like I am.

Further to my earlier reply I much prefer receiving but giving it to myself solo style and enjoying all the pleasures I am in control of!

I guess I'm more into receiving than giving, but that's because I'm strictly solo when it comes to enemas.....and consequently receiving all the wonderful pleasures that enemas provide. With the right partner however, I could definitely get into giving as well.

As those that know me already know, I definitely prefer to be on the receiving end of the enema hose and the nozzle!

(Yeah, I know the original post asked for women's answers to the question, but I see that a lot of other guys answered too 😄 )

Zippy, I love to "give" to a spectacular lady also. Of course, for me, that's a fairly rare occurrence. My husband gets practically all the enemas I give to others.

Given the choice on most occasions, even though I love to give to men and women, I'd rather receive.

I enjoy giving the enemas, but with a willing partner/sub to take anything I can mix up it isn't hard to do. Though what gets hard when I give the enema is probably the main reason I like to give him his enemas.

I prefer to give. Giving a soapsuds enema arouses me to no end. I have always been anally inclined. Anything rear or anal related seems especially intimate to me. So most things having to do with playing with a woman's tush are that much more special to me.

I like giving and receiving. Especially if a bulb is used.

Giving the bag, receiving the bulb.

I enjoy both ways, but I would have to say my favorite is receiving. While I can and do enjoy lubing myself and inserting the nozzle, I thoroughly enjoy this being done for me. I love a gloved finger lubing me. I like being able to get in a comfortable position and having a partner insert the nozzle and not having to worry about it coming out, I love a little genital play while being given my enema.

Love both, but I do prefer giving. Docile? Well, SSC only, of course, but I really do enjoy some (play) resistance. My favorite role play includes a misbehaving lady who is spanked before the enema.

I have done both, but if given a choice I really prefer being on the receiving end.

This is something I must say I have thought about many times over the years... The simplest answer is I like to do either, but which depends on the other participant... some women are just naturally the young girl who really needs it 'for her own good'... while others seem to be perfect in manner and sentiment to be Mum or Nurse 'taking care of the young lad who as a tummy ache (but actually needs one or more enemas)'... either way, enemas should occur...

I've given to my husband and two daughters, now grown. Admittedly, I prefer to receive but there's that nurturing and caring mothering side that I have written about before that makes giving so satisfying -- and it's not a sexual connection except for when hubby and I have experienced some best intimacy ever during and after. Of the "three lives" I led while raising our daughters -- career, wife and mom -- being the latter was always foremost. Ladies, we're also "moms" to our husbands, right?

Nursing a sick husband can be a challenge. Mine can be a pain at times, and I remember the first enema I gave him when I was so nervous but I tried not to show it. I helped him out of bed and into the bathroom, and he was so embarrassed when he was releasing. OMG...We were sure our neighbors in the next apartment would hear. We never asked! Afterwards, we lay on the bed together and he apologized for all the "noise" he made in the bathroom. I remember that he put his arms around me and a frightful look appeared on his face as suddenly had to get up and run back to the bathroom. I assured him that was normal. That happened twice and we still laugh about it 30 years later.

I think that I already wrote about an experience with my older daughter when she got me up in the middle of the night and was so sick on on her period. I had not given her an enema since she was much younger, but we agreed at 3 o'clock in the morning that I would try a hot water bottle for her cramps and prepare a a warm enema. She admitted being "backed up" for how long!? It took two bags over two hours and some tears, but when I put her back to bed she gave me the biggest hug ever and proceed to sleep half the day. I guess you could call that a mom's joy of giving!!

^^^And a good mother does whats best for their children in times of need ...irrespective of time !!

I like being the receiver of slow, warm and relaxing enemas. I have never given an enema and cannot imagine that it would be as pleasurable as receiving.