Do you prefer Giving or Receiving Enemas?

I'm in pretty much the same situation as Big Sky. My teen/adult enemas have always been self-administered. Like many others my spouse considers them gross. But I have always thought being given one by someone you trust would be more enjoyable. Just to not have to worry about the nozzle coming out and not worrying about the tube being entangled when you shift positions would make it more relaxing. Even a little gentle coaxing to take a little more or hold it a little longer would I think add to the relaxation and enjoyment or "other" effects if so desired. I also think giving an enema to someone who trusts you can be just as rewarding. A philosopher once said something to the effect that the greatest happiness is from seeing the results of making other people happy. So, although I have not been in a position to give to anyone other than myself, I would like to give and receive.

LOL....well as a "e" doctor I would much rather give and would much rather have th patient be a bit uncomfie and fighting than docile just adds to the excitement!!!

Thy're both fun though in the past the ones i received were part of bdsm and i'd like to try it without the parameters

I could go either way, depends on my mood.

I have only received, but would love to try giving to a woman.

I'm the selfish spoil type. I like to receive. But I will say this; if my hubby ever needed one because he was sick I'd help him out because I love him and don't want to see him uncomfortable. Sometimes i wish that would happen, than maby he'd know first hand about the sensations. From there perhaps it would lead into something fun for both of us. etc.

Other than that I loved it when I received from another.

Receiving end without question!

I have never given one, so I'd have to say receiving.......

I think I would like giving one, but I don't know how to bring that subject up w/my current partner.

Love to give--haven't been on the receiving end much. Would love wife to do that.

Both. Part of foreplay for each.

I enjoy giving and recieving with an anal erotic lady. Taking our time and enticing each other, exploring the many forms of stimulation is a wonderful experience.

Like me the two forms to do it, giving and receiving

I hate to sound selfish, and as much fun as it is giving to a female, I'd rather receive, especially from a dominant female.

I've given to three enemates, all of them female. With one of them, we gave each other an enema at the same time. Yes, I was gallant and let her expel first.

I love being dominated during my enemas, being told what I am getting, how much I'm getting, and how long I have to hold it. No one has been too demanding, knowing that they, even the domme, was going to be on the receiving end from me in due time.

I like both, giving and receiving, but much more simultaneous giving and receiving to each other...and during this we either having sex or playing with sexual organs of each...

I love both but like to give slightly more than getting.

I love both giving and receiving for many reasons, but if I could only do one, despite my dominant nature, it would be receiving. The dominant Susie would be saying "Give me an enema, Dammit!" 😁

(. . . . and suck my clit ever so softly while you do it!)

But what if the one in control told you to give them one? Kind of like what Susie said. Or, do you not see it that way. Not saying that you shouldn't feel how you do at all. I love to be on the receiving end as much as the next but there is something to be said for wanting to do whatever I could to make my lady feel as good as she makes me.

^^^^ In a NON-S&M relationship or scene, there wouldn't be one in control. You would both do what you either verbally or non-verbally agreed to do with (or TO) each other. You both have to do what you feel comfortable with and it certainly helps to have found the right, compatible person.

If one person loves giving and getting enemas, and the other doesn't, it doesn't matter how much the enema lover believes giving his/her partner an enema is an act of love if he/she doesn't want it. Because to that receiver, it isn't love.

About 60/40, 60 receiving. -- DD

85% Giver ----15 % receiver..I much perfer to give..but I do enjoy a good warm soapy enema also....

Over the years. I've had about five really great enema mates who enjoy enemas as much as I do. One of the most exciting parts of an enema is just getting ready. My mate and I always get a boner while we are talking about getting or giving an enema. Getting in the nude together is so exciting!!!

I would receive if that's what it took to get my wife to receive. I have always been a giver.

I tried to get a friend to give me one, because I thought it would be healthy to get cleaned out. However I was in a Dom/sub relationship (all discipline and no sex) with her, and it wasn't in the nature of our relationship to force her to do something that she perceived as a dominant act. She was too into getting them from me.

Be interesting to know the give or receive ratio between women and men.

Its really a toos-up for me....receiving is very important however the few that I have given to a girl friend, wife (s)were really a turn-on for me. In fact, my last wife would check me closely after I had given her a couple of bulbs (8oz)and chuckle about my semi-erect condition....commenting that it was still early in the evening and we should probably do something about that condition! (Now THAT was a great lady!)

Its really a tough call. Most of us are into this from the 'receiving end' and then some get lucky and get to turn the tables. -but it really has to be the "receive".

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I really enjoy receiving, but have had some pretty incredible sessions giving also.

Receiving, it is like being pampered, so I like to just relax, and enjoy the experience.

I'm greedy ..... love receiving but then, ya gotta give to get!

Okay, this is nuts, but here it goes. I only want to receive. In "real life", I am dominant, but sexually, I am extremely submissive. It would, in fact, turn me off to give my partner an enema. I know that's not really fair, but like I've said in other posts, I like what I like....

For Foreplay enemas, definitely receiving, though I end up the giver more often than the receiver!

I would be willing to go both ways with a female partner.